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Time to spill the beans

1. Who is your favorite Disney character?
2. When is the last time you changed your underwear?
3. What did you last buy online?
4. Do you have any pets?
5. What size are your feet?
6. Do you speak any other languages?
7. What is something you haven't experienced as a Dom but would like to?
 
1. Who is your favorite Disney character?
Kuzco
2. When is the last time you changed your underwear?
Haven’t worn any in 4 or 5 days, pjs late Saturday night
3. What did you last buy online?
Actual items, pack of socks, Allen key set and a red nose
4. Do you have any pets?
A Jack Russell called Tiggy I inherited from mum
5. What size are your feet?
11 UK
6. Do you speak any other languages?
Not well, I can struggle by in French
7. What is something you haven't experienced as a Dom but would like to?
Most thing irl, 2 female subs together would be awesome though
 
1. If you could live anywhere in the world in any kind of domicile, and money was no object, where would you live and what would your dwelling be like?
2. What is one thing you've done/seen/eaten/etc. that turned out to be really good, even though you initially didn't expect it to be?
3. In the movie Inside Out, each person has a set of "core memories" that define who they are and how they behave. What's one of yours?
4. What is the biggest mistake you've made that actually turned out alright?
5. What's the best decision you've ever made?
6. When you're sick, what are some things you eat/drink/watch/etc. to be comfortable?
7. What are some core principles you have that you'll never give up or change?
8. Have you ever invented something? It doesn't have to be a traditional product either, it can be creating a new dish, coining a term.
9. What cause do you strongly support, even though it wouldn't directly benefit you?
10. What book, movie, film, or video game had the best ending?
 
1. If you could live anywhere in the world in any kind of domicile, and money was no object, where would you live and what would your dwelling be like?
Hmm, tough one, the dwelling would be a brand new but old style mansion with all the possible rooms but also secret passages, doorways, turrets, huge gardens and a big fence to keep the peasants out, custom built dungeon too of course. As for where I’m guessing because I haven’t been to the places I’d probably choose, I’ll go Hawaii with a private beach but I’m not sure I could handle all the bugs there lol.
2. What is one thing you've done/seen/eaten/etc. that turned out to be really good, even though you initially didn't expect it to be?
Skydiving was amazing and I wasn’t at all sure about it as I’m no good with heights. I’d seen plenty of people on TV nervous then love it though so I was hoping I would too.
3. In the movie Inside Out, each person has a set of "core memories" that define who they are and how they behave. What's one of yours?
I thought they were each an emotion 🤔, it took me a long time to believe this myself but I think a combination of being adopted at birth, which obviously I don’t remember and having parents who were very close to each other, has left me trying too long in bad relationships, instead of just getting out and moving on.
4. What is the biggest mistake you've made that actually turned out alright?
Haha I’ve got away with a lot of bad decisions, if I was a cat I’d have used my 9 lives long ago. Marrying my ex was an awful idea and didn’t turn out alright at all, but I wouldn’t change my kids for the world so that part turned out good, not one of them was born with red horns and a tail.
5. What's the best decision you've ever made?
Getting out of a toxic relationship.
6. When you're sick, what are some things you eat/drink/watch/etc. to be comfortable?
Honestly I just smoke even more weed until the stoned overpowers the sicky, weak tiredness. Even if I’m staying in hospital. I don’t think I really turn to any comfort items.
7. What are some core principles you have that you'll never give up or change?
I’d never lay hands on a woman, I’d never turn my back on my kids, I’d never intentionally betray a close friendship, I’d never just “go with the crowd” if I didn’t agree with them. Usual stuff I guess.
8. Have you ever invented something? It doesn't have to be a traditional product either, it can be creating a new dish, coining a term.
You know I’ve had several ideas for items or movie scripts over the years that I think would have worked and never done anything at all with them lol. My BLT baguettes with cheese are epic but maybe not an invention lol. Salad cream and peanut butter on toast I’ve never known anyone to not be surprised at lol. Cereal, I always put 2 weetabix underneath another small cereal which people seem to think is weird but I don’t think cereal is filling without it.
9. What cause do you strongly support, even though it wouldn't directly benefit you?
Most of the ones protecting animals in the wild, stopping the ivory trade etc. Declassifying all UFO data and research.
10. What book, movie, film, or video game had the best ending?
My memory is terrible for things like this, “The sixth sense” off the top of my head or maybe “Enemy of the state”
 
If you could make one kink universally socially acceptable overnight, which one would it be?
What song is on your kink playlist that would surprise people?
Which fictional character do you just know is into some freaky stuff?
What's the weirdest vanilla item you've ever repurposed?
Would you rather explain impact play to your grandma or edge in front of a live studio audience?
 
If you could make one kink universally socially acceptable overnight, which one would it be?
Bondage probably

What song is on your kink playlist that would surprise people?
I don’t know about surprising, maybe the last 2 but I’ll give you 4

Which fictional character do you just know is into some freaky stuff?
Mt Bean

What's the weirdest vanilla item you've ever repurposed?
I don’t know, I don’t do very weird objects really, maybe a length of dowel and 2 curtain rail hangers to create a bar as a makeshift wooden pony. There’s probably things I’m forgetting.

Would you rather explain impact play to your grandma or edge in front of a live studio audience?
Oh grandma for sure, they’ve both been dead years but it would have amused the hell out of me.
 
What’s your red flag that only another kinkster would find hot?
What’s a kink hill you’ll die on that makes others side-eye you?
Have you ever been turned on in a completely inappropriate situation?
Which emoji best represents your vibe in a scene?
What’s a safe word you’d never be able to say with a straight face?
 
What’s your red flag that only another kinkster would find hot?
AB/DL

What’s a kink hill you’ll die on that makes others side-eye you?
Long denials make no sense

Have you ever been turned on in a completely inappropriate situation?
Probably, nothing that’s stayed with me apparently, only thing that springs to mind is being a teenager and getting hard randomly, more embarrassing than inappropriate though.

Which emoji best represents your vibe in a scene?
🕸️

What’s a safe word you’d never be able to say with a straight face?
Don’t really “say” safe words as a Dom, but I’ll say contrafibbularities
 
What are you wearing right now?
How many apples could you eat in one day?
What would your last meal be?
Do you have a favorite child?
When was the last time you cried? What made you cry?
How much salad cream do you eat in a year?
 
What are you wearing right now?
Green pj bottoms and a white “stand with Ukraine” t-shirt

How many apples could you eat in one day?
I rarely eat fresh fruit 🙈, probably a few if I was trying, I’ll say 3 though, I’d be real bored of them after that.

What would your last meal be?
Thanks for putting me on death row lmao, well done fillet steak, home cut chips, onion rings, grilled tomato, salad of lettuce, onions, green peppers, tomatoes, cheddar cheese and French dressing on the side, followed by lemon meringue pie.

Do you have a favorite child?
Lol, no of course not, though I could find them favourites for different situations.

When was the last time you cried? What made you cry?
Hmm, I’m more likely to shed a tear watching lassie rather than something truly sad. In think I did shed 2 or 3 tears walking out of the hospital after visiting my mum when she’d died but that was it. February 2023

How much salad cream do you eat in a year?
Lmao, probably a bottle a month, so around 12 bottles
 
What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever said while in a serious kink scene?
If you could make one ridiculous kink law, what would it be? (Example: "Aftercare must legally involve cookies.")
If you could replace a standard kink item (like rope, cuffs, etc.) with something absurd (like pool noodles), what would you swap?
Which would you rather have: vibrating socks or edible harnesses?
You have to explain your favorite kink to a 5-year-old... using only food metaphors. How do you do it?
Which villain would you let top you?
Would you rather: drop your toy bag in front of your boss OR explain your browser history to your mom?
What's your "if I die, delete this" kink-related emergency?
 
What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever said while in a serious kink scene?
I’ve really got no idea, I wouldn’t even say I’ve done many “serious kink scenes”, just something completely random probably.

If you could make one ridiculous kink law, what would it be? (Example: "Aftercare must legally involve cookies.")
Lol, nice try!! Probably, it’s illegal to use glitter more than twice a month.

If you could replace a standard kink item (like rope, cuffs, etc.) with something absurd (like pool noodles), what would you swap?
Just for you I’d swap a fucking machine for a merry-go-round elephant, attached to the base of an electric rocking horse.

Which would you rather have: vibrating socks or edible harnesses?
Edible harnesses sound more interesting.

You have to explain your favorite kink to a 5-year-old... using only food metaphors. How do you do it?
You see this doughnut son….if you slip a sausage through the hole, move it back and forth a bit then stop, You won’t make any custard but you’ll hear the kettle boil.

Which villain would you let top you?
Cat woman, I’ll take either Michelle Pfeiffer or Halle Berry, I’m not fussy.

Would you rather: drop your toy bag in front of your boss OR explain your browser history to your mom?
Haven’t got either lol, if I had though a boss wouldn’t bother me.

What's your "if I die, delete this" kink-related emergency?
Nothing really, but i suppose the best would be factory reset my iPad please
 
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