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7 Deadly Sins Please choose one of the following to complete: Gluttony Buy something overindulgent and delicious. Maybe it is a full 16 oz steak dinner with garlic mashed potatoes, or maybe your guilty pleasure is a package of devilishly delicious cupcakes, or what about ordering that double big mac meal with supersize fries. Whatever your choice, bring your feast to a mirror. Strip naked and get in a position that allows you a good view of yourself. You will now eat all of your meal...

Hi Friends, I want to start by saying, thank you for being here. I really want this space to be fun, inclusive and safe. I want to build a community where we can explore kink together. I want to keep this space positive and as drama free as we can. But I also wanted to address a few things. Getdare was my home for 10 years. I met my husband, @Mr. Devious, and my long term sub, @Jaro, there. I learned about my Domme side, I gained confidence and experience. I have made so many friends...

How would you feel and what would you do if any of the following would happen? If any DID happen for you, please tell us as much details about it as you want. 1. You are anally fucking someone and things get messy. 2. Somebody is deep-throating you and they suddenly puke all over you. 3. You are about to have sex with a great guy but it turns out he has a micro penis. 4. You are edging somebody else and they inadvertently go over. 5. After giving a presentation before an audience you notice...

For me, BDSM is like a playground for complicated emotions. It is a safe space to experiment with control, fear, embarrassment, lust, etc. In general society we are almost expected to pretend these feelings don't exist, it is shameful to feel them. BDSM provides a way to experiment with these things in a safe, consensual way, with a person we can trust. And in doing so, it allows me to be fully human. What draws you to BDSM and kink?

TOPIC: Topping from the Bottom In this thread, I would like to focus on the concept of "topping from the bottom". How do you define "topping from the bottom"? How do you handle it as a Dom/me or Top? How do you handle it as a Sub or Bottom? How can you prevent "topping from the bottom"? Please feel free to share your experiences, definitions, opinions and any resources you find many be helpful.

Please show us your underwear in their natural habitat, no need to organize just share it in its natural state, I'm sure that will make everyone feel better about their own mess :LOL:

A classic concept, someone posts a picture or a link to a picture, and the person above them has to do their best to replicate it.

I've got an enormous punishment kink and I've been obsessed for a while with the concept of spanking. Not LIGHT spanking for funsies, or even moderate spanking, but the kind of spanking that leaves you kicking your feet and crying out and flinching with every hit. Now, this type of play is two things: 1) Really hard to do to yourself! I could meet up with someone and hand them a paddle and they could give me what I want in five minutes with no practice, but my own brain has a pretty...

This one is super fun! I love hearing other people's voices. This is how it works: The Accent Challenge. Use a site such as Vocaroo to record yourself. Please don't answer with a text post. 1. Your username 2. Where you’re from. 3. Pronounce the following words: - Aunt - Roof - Route - Theatre - Iron - Salmon - Caramel - Fire - Water - New Orleans - Pecan - Both - Again - Probably - Alabama - Lawyer - Coupon - Mayonnaise - Pyjamas - Caught - Naturally - Aluminium - Doorknob - Envelope -...

What is the story of your username? How did you choose it?

All About CBT This thread is all about Cock & Ball Torture: ways to put the penis and balls in pain (or make them at least extremely uncomfortable). Please discuss and leave your tips and tricks. The questions below are only some guidelines on what to think about. What are ways to torture a penis and/or balls? What are bad ways? What are the risks? What are your experiences with it? Please teach us about the possibilities and limitations of this vast category of S&M.

Subs, have you been wronged by your Dom, or another authority figure in your life? If so, you might be entitled to compensation! Well ... actually probably not, but our Doms definetly deserve to be punished. So in this thread, you can air all of your grievances. Tell us how they have wronged you. Explain how bad they are! We can then commiserate with you and also give (fake) punishments to our Doms for being such meanie poo poo heads!

🌟 Praise or Punish? 🎯 Subs, confess your behavior. Doms, pass your judgment. This is a playful, opt-in thread where submissives can share something they did (or didn’t do) recently—whether it's naughty, nice, or somewhere in between. 🔻How it works: Subs: Post a short description of your behavior. Be honest. Be brave. Be cheeky, if you like. Doms: Reply with your verdict—Praise 💖 or Punish 🔥—and why. Bonus points for creativity or flair in your responses. 🔻Rules: No actual punishments...

In the spirit of building content on the site let's encourage people to post and create some threads :) So in this thread you pot for the person above to create a thread. Please specify where on the forum the person should post, perhaps with a theme for them to go with :D

So it's come to this I guess, making new threads and trying to have some fun haha! Nipple torture is a lot of fun. Same standard rules as any "Loser Has To" thread. - Person 1 creates a dare; - Person 2 goes in against person 1; - Then person 3 picks a loser that must do the dare and creates a new dare as the new person 1 and the cycle continues. First one: Loser will do a 20 minute nipple torture task of the winners choice, and share proof / report with the winner.

Its weird but only now during my later years I sometimes get wet dreams. Its not very often, but more than I want. I feel weird about this, and also a bit ashamed. Isn't this supposed to happen only for constantly horny teenagers!?

This one is a bit different. I am not here asking for advice or sharing my own confession. Instead, I am creating this thread so that people can confess their biggest secret. It doesn't have to be anything sexual. Just think of something that you have told absolutely nobody (or even just a few). Your biggest shame or embarrassment. . Post anonymously and unburden yourself!

As plenty of people here are in some form of control, or get to experience nice moments with kink combined with orgasms, edges and/or denial - share your last interesting experience!

So there use to be a show called sex sent me to the ER. We all know kink can have risk so what times did kink force you to seek medical help?