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This or That: Kink Edition

Butterfly

The Bratty Glitteress
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Location
Canada
Gender
Female
Pride
Ally Ally
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?

Lovely choices you made here :)
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk
or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay
or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie
or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved
or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?

Most of these I would probably say both though, tbh
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs? I love bondage and prefer to see everything
Dominating or Submitting? Its what I naturally do best, although I do have some dom in me
Biting or Spanking? definitely spanking. The feel of it is more fun
Rope play or Leather cuffs? I choose role play now because I have never really done that yet
Dirty talk or Silent teasing? The dirtier and more degrading the better!
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action? Depends on the activity. But if I must choose, slow
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation? I want to feel and see! Even if its too much!
Watching or Being watched? Honestly hard choice as I love both
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing? Meh, both don't really sounds appealing to me
Roleplay or Dress-up? Very occaissionally its fun to dress-up as a girl. I've done it once, using a french maid costume (which tore)
Being tied up or Doing the tying? Being tied up, but both are a lot of fun
Orgasm control or Edging? I HATE edging
Public teasing or Private seduction? Really depends on the exact setting and context
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)? Breath play is too edge for me
Praise kink or Degradation kink? Definitely degradation. I love degradation!
Soft dom or Hard dom? Really depends on the context and when/how often. I think both sides are important
Lingerie or Naked immediately? While I love sexy lingerie, especially garterbelt, fishnets, corset and g-string, naked rules!
Morning play or Late-night play? I'm not a night owl at all and early mornings are generally my horniest times
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth? Can't choose. It really depends
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon? Longer sex is better than shorter sex and for me orgasm at the end is not important. There's lots of ways to have fun so it can take longer. When it does come to actually fucking I think fast and rough is hotter!
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating
or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play
or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing
or Fast, rough action? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control
or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved
or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Hand cuffs
Dominating or Submitting?
Submitting
Biting or Spanking?
Buting
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Rope
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Silent
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Fast
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Overstimulation
Watching or Being watched?
Being watched
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Neck grabbing
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Dress up
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Being tied
Orgasm control or Edging?
Orgasm control
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Public
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Tenpature play
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Umm praise
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Hard
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Lingerie
Morning play or Late-night play?
Late night
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Toys
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
Slow and extended
 
I am so going to turn this into an interactive thing once I get to it. This will change for me on a daily basis but here it is for now:

Blindfolds!
Submitting!
Biting!
Rope play!
Silent teasing!
Slow teasing!
Overstimulation!
Being watched!
Neck grabbing!
Dress-up!
Being tied up!
Edging!
Public teasing!
Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)!
Praise kink!
Soft dom!
Lingerie!
Late-night play!
Toys involved!
Slow, extended foreplay marathon!
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?

-Blindfold

Dominating or Submitting?

-Submitting

Biting or Spanking?

-Spanking

Rope play or Leather cuffs?

-Rope play

Dirty talk or Silent teasing?

-Silent teasing

Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?

-I could go either way, both are good

Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?

-Overstimulation

Watching or Being watched?

-Being watched

Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?

-Neck grabbing

Roleplay or Dress-up?

-Dress-up

Being tied up or Doing the tying?

-Being tied up

Orgasm control or Edging?

-Edging

Public teasing or Private seduction?

-Public teasing

Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?

-Temperature play

Praise kink or Degradation kink?

-Praise kink

Soft dom or Hard dom?

-Soft dom

Lingerie or Naked immediately?

-Naked

Morning play or Late-night play?

-Night play

Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?

-Toys involved

Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?

-Tough choice, rough session, and slow extended are both good
 
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