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This or That: Kink Edition

Butterfly

The Bratty Glitteress
Admin
Joined
Apr 4, 2025
Location
Canada
Gender
Female
Pride
Ally Ally
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?

Lovely choices you made here :)
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk
or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay
or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie
or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved
or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?

Most of these I would probably say both though, tbh
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs? I love bondage and prefer to see everything
Dominating or Submitting? Its what I naturally do best, although I do have some dom in me
Biting or Spanking? definitely spanking. The feel of it is more fun
Rope play or Leather cuffs? I choose role play now because I have never really done that yet
Dirty talk or Silent teasing? The dirtier and more degrading the better!
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action? Depends on the activity. But if I must choose, slow
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation? I want to feel and see! Even if its too much!
Watching or Being watched? Honestly hard choice as I love both
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing? Meh, both don't really sounds appealing to me
Roleplay or Dress-up? Very occaissionally its fun to dress-up as a girl. I've done it once, using a french maid costume (which tore)
Being tied up or Doing the tying? Being tied up, but both are a lot of fun
Orgasm control or Edging? I HATE edging
Public teasing or Private seduction? Really depends on the exact setting and context
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)? Breath play is too edge for me
Praise kink or Degradation kink? Definitely degradation. I love degradation!
Soft dom or Hard dom? Really depends on the context and when/how often. I think both sides are important
Lingerie or Naked immediately? While I love sexy lingerie, especially garterbelt, fishnets, corset and g-string, naked rules!
Morning play or Late-night play? I'm not a night owl at all and early mornings are generally my horniest times
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth? Can't choose. It really depends
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon? Longer sex is better than shorter sex and for me orgasm at the end is not important. There's lots of ways to have fun so it can take longer. When it does come to actually fucking I think fast and rough is hotter!
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating
or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play
or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing
or Fast, rough action? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control
or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved
or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Hand cuffs
Dominating or Submitting?
Submitting
Biting or Spanking?
Buting
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Rope
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Silent
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Fast
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Overstimulation
Watching or Being watched?
Being watched
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Neck grabbing
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Dress up
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Being tied
Orgasm control or Edging?
Orgasm control
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Public
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Tenpature play
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Umm praise
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Hard
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Lingerie
Morning play or Late-night play?
Late night
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Toys
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
Slow and extended
 
I am so going to turn this into an interactive thing once I get to it. This will change for me on a daily basis but here it is for now:

Blindfolds!
Submitting!
Biting!
Rope play!
Silent teasing!
Slow teasing!
Overstimulation!
Being watched!
Neck grabbing!
Dress-up!
Being tied up!
Edging!
Public teasing!
Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)!
Praise kink!
Soft dom!
Lingerie!
Late-night play!
Toys involved!
Slow, extended foreplay marathon!
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?

-Blindfold

Dominating or Submitting?

-Submitting

Biting or Spanking?

-Spanking

Rope play or Leather cuffs?

-Rope play

Dirty talk or Silent teasing?

-Silent teasing

Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?

-I could go either way, both are good

Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?

-Overstimulation

Watching or Being watched?

-Being watched

Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?

-Neck grabbing

Roleplay or Dress-up?

-Dress-up

Being tied up or Doing the tying?

-Being tied up

Orgasm control or Edging?

-Edging

Public teasing or Private seduction?

-Public teasing

Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?

-Temperature play

Praise kink or Degradation kink?

-Praise kink

Soft dom or Hard dom?

-Soft dom

Lingerie or Naked immediately?

-Naked

Morning play or Late-night play?

-Night play

Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?

-Toys involved

Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?

-Tough choice, rough session, and slow extended are both good
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking? - difficult one though!
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing? - another tricky choice
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging? - both are fun together
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
Some of these were very hard to choose between and I’d like a ‘why not both’ option 🤭
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs? Both? Though if I have to choose, Blindfold, would rather another bondage option than handcuffs
Dominating or Submitting? Both again. Once I would have said submitting and I still do enjoy that. But air towards dominating more lately.
Biting or Spanking? Both. But spanking as the main choice ;)
Rope play or Leather cuffs? Oehhh really hard one... rope gets the lead but not by much
Dirty talk or Silent teasing? Both are fun, but silent teasing mostly.
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action? Oeh slow for sure... I love to enjoy every moment
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation? Oeehhh another difficault one, this time because both sound bad.... Sensory dep maybe... depends how long... though also true for overstimulation... ughhh I dont know....
Watching or Being watched? Both again sound so fun, but watching more now
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing? Hair pulling, on s and d side... go figgure lol
Roleplay or Dress-up? Role play mostly
Being tied up or Doing the tying? Both... though tieing is more apealing of late (switchy issues lol)
Orgasm control or Edging? But both go together so so well... why is it either or... :o
Public teasing or Private seduction? Both can be enjoyable, those most times privet is more comfortable, can fully switch off and enjoy the feelings, not think about the audiance
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)? Temprature... most definatly
Praise kink or Degradation kink? Both, but for different reasons, on my S/ side degradation all the way, on the D/ side I enjoy giving praise, but also degradation airing more on the praise side
Soft dom or Hard dom? Both? and on both sides... my D/ side tends to be a bit pounce on the moment most times and soft the rest so can be both, same is true for my S/ side... I like a softer air most of the time but the occasional strict pounce is fun.
Lingerie or Naked immediately? Naked... maybe... depends on the moment
Morning play or Late-night play? Late night, not against play other times, but prefer main to be late night/evening
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?  Toys
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon? Slow marathon... love the experiance, every secound of it.
 
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