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Would you rather?

Butterfly

The Bratty Glitteress
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  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
 
Pick me! Pick me!

Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
Collar! But that's because I just like collars more, not because I think a butt plug would be harder or anything.

Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
Paddle, but hard. Half of my fantasies involve a lap, a paddle and a long crying session. I'll leave the crops to my pony play buddies.

Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
Cold and strict and it isn't even close. <3 Punishment kink, you know how it is.

Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
Hrm. I'll take the harness, but largely because that sounds vaguely more interesting?

Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
I have a kink for one of these options and I don't have a kink for the other, soooo! Humiliation. :D

Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
Oh, I've begged for the former a LOT, so I'll go with the latter. That sounds like a more interesting premise.

..touched at all means like, headpats, right? Ear scritches? I'm realizing halfway through writing that you probably meant sexually, but I've already spiralled off into thinking about a dynamic where a subby has to beg for affection.

Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
Second one, easy peasy, exhibition tendencies are like that.

Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
I have a kink for one of these and not the other, get me the flogger!

Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
I have a kink for one of these and not the other! Rules please!

Would you rather
be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
I have a kink for.. both of these, actually. I think this one probably changes day to day, but at this moment I'm going to say strict protocol!
 
wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
I'd rather wear a plug for the entire evening. That's easy as I can do far longer.

be punished with a crop or a paddle?
I feel the difference is not that great in pain, but crop feels more Dommy so I choose that

have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
Good thing I have one, although you can be strict, but never cold.

bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
More restricted; more exposed

do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
I don't like sensory deprivation much

beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
As I don't want to cum quite as much

kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
I like being watched in a kinky setting

be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
I like bruises, but wax play is a lot of fun

follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
For just one day I think I prefer to know what I am getting into. But over multiple days I prefer a spontaneous command (more sporadically)

be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
Protocol is fun for like a day, once in a while, but not in general
 
Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
Collar.

Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
I'll say paddle because I haven't tried it yet.

Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
Teasing and affectionate.

Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
Spread eagle feels more vulnerable I think, so that one.

Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
Can I have both? I'll pick humiliation if I have to, but I'd like both. Being led into a room blindfolded and humiliated several ways while hearing but not seeing the audience, or even not seeing or hearing but just feeling different hands and implements... that could be loads of fun.

Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
Beg to cum.

Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
Task while being watched. But like, not by people I know.

Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
Wax.

Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
Spontaneous tasks, I like the surprise.

Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
Pet, I like pets.
 
Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
- Plug because it is able to be hidden
Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
- Idk this one just sounds more interesting to me
Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
- I can't stand disappointing people so I don't think I'd do well if someone was cold towards me
Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
- I'm interested in both but this sounds more vulnerable to me
Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
- I'm also interested in both of these but I think I'm slightly more interested in the humiliation one
Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
- I don't really have an explanation for this one that I can think of
Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
-This feels more hidden to me
Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
- I'm interested in both but slightly more with the flogger
Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
- I like to know what's expected of me so that I don't disappoint people
Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
- Sounds more interesting
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
Oh, no doubt about it. I would love to wear a collar 24/7. Sadly, it isn't possible due to work. lol
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
I can't really say, honestly. Haven't experienced either, sadly. :(
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
Teasing and affectionate is better, but it is nice for them to at least now and then be strict and cold.
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
I want to be bound spread-eagle! Hehehe
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
I actually have a fantasy involving a full hood / mask that does sensory depravation... So... Yeah, I'll go with that option. lol
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
Beg to be allowed to cum. Honestly, edging doesn't appeal to me. And absolutely no touching is problematic because restroom / hygiene.
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
If I had better knees, I'd go for that route. But, I have bad knees. So, I'd have to go with the task while being watched.
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
Wax play sounds fun. Haven't experienced it, but definitely sounds fun to me!
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
Depends on how intensive that list is. A small list would be good. But, if you got this big long list that makes life a complete PITA, I'd go for the spontaneous commands.
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
While I like being called a pet, I can't actually get into the head space for behaving like an animal extensively. I'm more of an anthropomorphic pet. But, since you're probably referring to one on all fours, I'd have to go with the latter option.
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
It depends on the collar. As long as it wasn't around my neck, I would choose that option.
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
Crop!
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
Teasing and affectionate
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
Spread-eagle
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
Sensory deprivation
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
Beg to cum
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
Task while being watched. I don't like public or kneeling lol
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
Flogger
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
Both! I guess I would choose spontaneous
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
Pet
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
But plug for sure!! I'd never say no to but plug!!
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
Oehh, both? Hmm... I'd go with crop...
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
Teasing and affectionate 1000%. I like the fantasy of a strict one at times, but I am very sure I don't like that... And I love what I have now, so teasing and affectionate.
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
Oehhh... Hmmmm... Shibari-style rope harness, I would like to experience how that would feel.
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
Both again.... But if I would have to choose, humiliation. That can be done in so many different ways.
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
Beg to be touched at all. I quite like begging, als usually already know the answer to the other one would be no....
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
Ehh kneeling in public discretely. I would trust the excuse making up machine to cover it up....
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
Uhhgg, these are hard questions... I think wax play... I like temperature play, but why can't the wax be hit of with a flogger :p
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
Hmm, follow rules, I like consistentsy and rules.
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
Ehhh, not really into pet play... Bit the strict Protocol submissive would be even less my thing... I'll be princesses full time odly fish like carrier pigeon parrot in that case....
 
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