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Would you rather?

I really like these games. Thanks @Butterfly :
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening? Butt plug for sure ... That feeling of being open is amazing.
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle? Paddle...just distribute the pain
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate? I think the latter....
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness? I had to Google shibari....but I would want spread-eagle better
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation? Humiliation for sure....I would wanna keep my senses
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all? The latter for sure.
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched? kneel discretely
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play? Oh that's hard.wax play I think may not last as long as the bruises
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day? The latter...would mainly show that the person giving commands is thinking of me
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive? Not sure actually. Maybe being training is better....the process is good
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening? I already wear a 24/7 collar so a butt plug
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle? Crop
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate? Probably cold and strict to keep me disciplined
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness? Tough one but I really like the art of shibari
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation? Love sensory deprivation
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all? Bed to cum
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched? Preform a task while being watched
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play? Flogger
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day? I love both but a list allows me to plan around a busy schedule
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
Butt plug. The little secrets that only one or two people know are hot.
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
Crop. It's more Domme like.
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
Teasing and affectionate.
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
Spread eagle on the bed.
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
Sensory deprivation.
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
I need to be touched so begging for that.
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
A task while being watched would be just over the top in a good way.
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
Wax play.
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
Spontaneous commands throughout the day. That way I'm not sure what's going to happen next.
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
I would love to be trained as a pet.
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening? Collar, I don't like putting things in my ass and being gently pulled by the collar is 🥵
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle? Paddle, since I've had more experience with that
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate? Teasing and affectionate, it's more in line with my own style
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness? Spread eagled, nowhere to hide
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation? Probably humiliation, sensory deprivation scares me a little
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all? Beg to cum
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched? A task while being watched, public is a pretty hard boundary for me
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play? Flogger, though I would like to try wax play sometime
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day? A mix of both. I like preset rules but spontaneous commands can help it be more interesting
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive? Pet, leashes are hot
 
Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening? Butt plug
Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle? Paddle
Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate? Cold and strict
Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness? Spread eagle
Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation? Humiliation
Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all? To cum
Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched? A task while being watched
Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play? Flogger
Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day? Spontaneous commands
Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive? A sub pet
 
Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening? Butt plug for sure ... That feeling of being open is amazing.
both and have done both but I go for the plug this time :3
Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness? I had to Google shibari....but I would want spread-eagle better

Paddle...just distribute the pain
definetly by a crop
Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate? I think the latter....Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate? I think the latter....
teasing and affectionate
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness? I had to Google shibari....but I would want spread-eagle better
definetly shibari, I'm also a shibari rigger
Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation? Humiliation for sure....I would wanna keep my senses
another hard hard one but I think I would go with humilation
Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all? The latter for sur
I would beg to be touched
Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched? kneel discretely kneel discretely
I would do a task while beeing watched >\\\>
Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play? Oh that's hard.wax play I think may not last as long as the bruises
another tough one I would like both but I tend more to the flogger
Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day? The latter...would mainly show that the person giving commands is thinking of me
spontaneous commands throughout the day
Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive? Not sure actually. Maybe being training is better....the process is good
definetly like a submissive pet arf ^w^
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening? I already wear a collar 24/7
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle? A paddle
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate? Teasing and affectionate
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness? Can I have both please? If I had to pick one, I'd go with the harness
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation? Again, both please? But probably sensory deprivation, I can do the humiliation outside a scene
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all? Beg to come but then be denied
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched? Depends on the task I suppose, but probably the task
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play? Wax play, definitely
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day? Spontaneous commands sounds more fun if there's enough commands to keep it that way
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive? I already am a submissive pet
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
A butt plug for the entire evening. I love collars and if it was more practical for me to wear one or a symbolic collar 24/7, I would but it’s not practical for me sadly.

  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
Depends on where I am being punished, I think I like paddles more in general so choosing that. But, i would honestly rather have whatever my dom feels like using at the time.
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
Teasing and affectionate. I like there to be leeway and need more of the second then the first. Not saying cold and strict isn’t fun, it’s very fun, but for me cold and strict doesn’t work without the teasing and affectionate part :)
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
Shibari-style rope harness is something I always wanted to try with someone else tying me up
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
Ooh that a fun one… I think sensory deprivation kinda adds an element of humiliation, so i choose that.
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
Umm… both 🫣
But let’s go with beg to be allowed to come cause it is a bit easier 😳
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
Depends on who is doing the watching, but I think i choose watching cause right now, I find it hot if it’s my dom/people we both would agree with watching me 🥵… otherwise I need to figure out a way to discreetly kneel in public
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
With a flogger I love impact play but I always wanted to try wax play so maybe someday, my choice might change
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
I think spontaneous commands would be more fun
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
I don’t like pet play as a sub so I would choose strict protocol submissive ig… it can be fun at times
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
a butt plug seems more discreet for others but more obvious for me... i guess it depends on where i'm going and what i'm doing!
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
paddle sounds like plenty for me
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
real life: teasing and affectionate, of course! you have to have a good relationship with someone and be comfortable with them. but kinky fantasy life: i love the idea of being dommed by someone who's cold and strict
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
i think it depends on the occasion haha but... i'm gonna say shibari sounds like such a cool experience
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
humiliation 100000%
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
i feel like begging to be touched at all sounds the most humiliating... so obviously that one haha
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
i think kneeling discreetly in public. that little chance you can be caught and judged - even if you're not doing anything obviously sexual. i think the act of submitting like that would be so stimulating
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
wax play. i am not really into pain, but i feel like a hot sting is something i can handle and wax has always interested me.
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
a mix of both please? i love to have a list of rules, but it's also fun to break things up with some spontaneity and unexpected.
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
strict protocol. i love the idea of rules and structure in kink.
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
Going to have to go butt plug because things around my neck is no fun.
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
Paddle crops sting to much
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
Teasing and affectionate
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
Rope harness is definitely the easy one here
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
Humiliation
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
Beg to cum
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
Kneel discreetly
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
Flogger, I'm to hairy for wax
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
Commands throughout the day
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
Submissive pet, I'm not big on protocol
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
    • I like collars but I like a butt plug up my ass much more
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
    • Ive only tried whips so far so I dont know which i would prefer. But if I had to choose I would take the crop.
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
    • Thats a tough one because I like both. But I think right now I would go with teasing and affectionate.
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
    • I like to be bound spread-eagle and ready to be used.
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
    • I would go with sensory deprivation
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
    • I love being desperate and begging to be touched.
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
    • Since I like being watched I would like to perform a task for them while being watched.
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
    • Definetly marked with a flogger even though I also enjoy wax play.
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
    • I like it spontaneous so I would go with that.
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
    • Not sure what a strict protocol submissive is (if someone would like to explain or show it to me feel free) but I would with that!
 
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