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Would you rather?

  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
Wear a collar 24/7, paddle, teasing and affectionate dom, spread eagle, sensory deprivation, beg to be touched, perform a task while being watched,flogged, spontaneous commands, submissive pet!
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
Collar.
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
Paddle. But it's a close call.
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
Teasing and affectionate.
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
spread-eagle.
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
humiliation.
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
beg to cum.
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
perform a task while being watched.
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
Wax play.
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
Spontaneous commands throughout the day.
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
protocol submissive.
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening? I’d rather get the butt plug treatment as a consequence or direction over being collared.
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle? Paddle. I’ll take the paddle, even if I regret it, which is kind of the point.
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate? That’s tough. For a particular individual session, cold and strict would be fantastic, but in general, I’ll take teasing and affectionate (strict in the moment goes without saying)
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness? Spread eagle and used.
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation? Humiliation.
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all? Beg to cum.
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched? Perform a task while being watched.
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play? Either would be fun. I’ll take the wax since it’s a little different than normal impact play.
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day? Give me spontaneous commands to keep me guessing.
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive? I guess a submissive pet would be interesting.
 
  • Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
I have worn my plug for a full day. I love the reminder that I’m not in control.
  • Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
I’d like the sting of a crop over the impact of a paddle.
  • Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
I like being teased and enjoy being rewarded occasionally.
  • Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
Spread eagle on a bed sounds nice, but I like the thought of being restricted by a shibari harness
  • Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
so I am completely out of control.
  • Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
tease me and take me to the edge. Then make me earn my orgasm.
  • Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
I like being watched. Legally of course.
  • Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
I’m not much into wax play but like the pain of a flogger
  • Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
so I don’t know what’s coming.
  • Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
I’ve only done pet play for a Dom a few times. Not sure how I feel about it.
 
  • I'm willing to sacrifice my ass
  • A paddle (I think)
  • Teasing and affectionate dom/me
  • Shibari style
  • Sensory deprivation
  • I'd rather beg to be allowed to come
  • Well, since the first one is discreet...
  • I have no idea which lasts longer but I'll go with a flogger
  • I'd rather follow a list of rules
  • Strict protocol submissive sounds better for some reason
 
Would you rather wear a collar 24/7 or a butt plug for an entire evening?
Buttplug; though I would enjoy finding something to wear 24/7 as a "collar"
Would you rather be punished with a crop or a paddle?
Paddle though its close. I want to be left sore, and while domme with crop is hotter, its less likely to leave me sore
Would you rather have a Dom/me who’s cold and strict or one who’s teasing and affectionate?
Teasing, bratty and affectionate
Would you rather be bound spread-eagle to a bed or tied up in a shibari-style rope harness?
Both? I really love the hug like feeling from a Karada and feeling every move and squirm, along with it practical for just like being in to snuggle on the couch, and be a bit manhandled with. That said, any strict bondage I can fight against is a release second to spanking
Would you rather do a scene involving humiliation or sensory deprivation?
Sensory deprivation hands down. >.< I turn red incredibly easily and want to hide. Its part of the origin of this handle... That said, I am willing to be embarrassed if its what makes my domme happy. >< the last week has shown me more willing than I realized.
Would you rather beg to be allowed to come or beg to be touched at all?
I dont love no touch, but would always rather beg for sensation/touch than my orgasm. My orgasm I need to feel like I've earned or that the other person wants it for me.
Would you rather kneel for your Dom/me in public discreetly or perform a task for them while being watched?
Kneel. I would always rather be close for affection or hiding into them
Would you rather be marked with a flogger or with wax play?
Wax play then flogged off? Probably wax play for safety considerations, but I do love impact
Would you rather follow a list of rules all day or be given spontaneous commands throughout the day?
Standing oorder need to exist so I can make sure I am good, but much prefer spontaneous commands for playing and fun. I may be a brat, but I am often anxious and overthinking and end up digging just to make sure I am not breaking the rules
Would you rather be trained like a submissive pet or like a strict protocol submissive?
Strict Protocol, because I don't care to be objectified.
 
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