Hello friends,
Welcome
Can I offer you a drink? Maybe a hot beverage? (I learned from Big Bang Theory that when somebody is upset, you offer them a hot beverage).
I know you are feeling lost right now, but I am so happy to have you here. I know things look a bit different, and it may not feel like home, but I want you to make yourself comfortable and settle in. You are welcome here!
If you need anything, please feel free to reach out to myself directly, or any of our mod team. There is also a whole section where you can post suggestions and give us feedback. We are still new and growing and we take your feedback seriously. @Inkwarden has been chained to a desk in a small room for the last 9 months to make our dreams of a Kinky Wonderland come true.
The untimely death of getDare
Let's address the elephant in the room - getDare is dead.
I am SO sorry for your loss. This was so sudden and terrible. I know that a lot of you are feeling heartbroken, sad, or regretful. You may have lost contact with friends, and lost all of your saved content. That really sucks and nothing that I can say will help you, other than I understand and I am here for you.
I went through my own mourning period when I lost getDare 9 months ago. Thankfully some of those wounds have healed and we have started to create a wonderful community of our own.
Kinky Wonderland was born
9 months ago, a lot of shit happened on getDare and I left (and then was removed as a mod and banned - if you want the full story, I might be willing to share later). It was really difficult, but I had been imagining a new kink community for years and this was a great opportunity to create it. Thankfully, the amazing @Inkwarden offered to help me make that vision come true, and thus Kinky Wonderland was born.
We are still new. We are still growing, learning and changing. Please let us know if there is something that you are missing from getDare, and we will do our best to help you find it, or see if we can do something to create it.
Please read our rules and check out the description of our forums if you are feeling a little lost.
I have tried to make things a little more organized, a little easier to navigate, and keeping the highlights of things that we loved about getDare - the requests, truths, add threads, chat room, and lounge, while also creating some new things, like our voice chat room, or the anonymous whispers section.
Where to start
If you are just joining, please take a look through our rules. Some of them might be a bit different from the ones you are used to. Two notable differences are that we have freed the nipple! and we also allow editing of your posts indefinitely. We also have a handy little guide to describe the forums and sections.
After you have filled out your profile (check out our flags option!), you might want to use the signature links forum to post information to link in your signature, or maybe you want to try and introduce yourself in the roll call forum.
Depending on what you are hoping for, there are sections for forums, blogs, personals, media, and stories.
If you are feeling extra social, come hang out in the chat room with us!
Happy exploring
Again, I am so happy to have you here. I have high hopes that we can create an amazing, fun, inclusive kink community and YOU are a big part of that!
Stay kinky friends!
UPDATE:
I have made two new posts that I wanted to share
My getDare story and demise
What happened to getDare
Welcome
Can I offer you a drink? Maybe a hot beverage? (I learned from Big Bang Theory that when somebody is upset, you offer them a hot beverage).
I know you are feeling lost right now, but I am so happy to have you here. I know things look a bit different, and it may not feel like home, but I want you to make yourself comfortable and settle in. You are welcome here!
If you need anything, please feel free to reach out to myself directly, or any of our mod team. There is also a whole section where you can post suggestions and give us feedback. We are still new and growing and we take your feedback seriously. @Inkwarden has been chained to a desk in a small room for the last 9 months to make our dreams of a Kinky Wonderland come true.
The untimely death of getDare
Let's address the elephant in the room - getDare is dead.
I am SO sorry for your loss. This was so sudden and terrible. I know that a lot of you are feeling heartbroken, sad, or regretful. You may have lost contact with friends, and lost all of your saved content. That really sucks and nothing that I can say will help you, other than I understand and I am here for you.
I went through my own mourning period when I lost getDare 9 months ago. Thankfully some of those wounds have healed and we have started to create a wonderful community of our own.
Kinky Wonderland was born
9 months ago, a lot of shit happened on getDare and I left (and then was removed as a mod and banned - if you want the full story, I might be willing to share later). It was really difficult, but I had been imagining a new kink community for years and this was a great opportunity to create it. Thankfully, the amazing @Inkwarden offered to help me make that vision come true, and thus Kinky Wonderland was born.
We are still new. We are still growing, learning and changing. Please let us know if there is something that you are missing from getDare, and we will do our best to help you find it, or see if we can do something to create it.
Please read our rules and check out the description of our forums if you are feeling a little lost.
I have tried to make things a little more organized, a little easier to navigate, and keeping the highlights of things that we loved about getDare - the requests, truths, add threads, chat room, and lounge, while also creating some new things, like our voice chat room, or the anonymous whispers section.
Where to start
If you are just joining, please take a look through our rules. Some of them might be a bit different from the ones you are used to. Two notable differences are that we have freed the nipple! and we also allow editing of your posts indefinitely. We also have a handy little guide to describe the forums and sections.
After you have filled out your profile (check out our flags option!), you might want to use the signature links forum to post information to link in your signature, or maybe you want to try and introduce yourself in the roll call forum.
Depending on what you are hoping for, there are sections for forums, blogs, personals, media, and stories.
If you are feeling extra social, come hang out in the chat room with us!
Happy exploring
Again, I am so happy to have you here. I have high hopes that we can create an amazing, fun, inclusive kink community and YOU are a big part of that!
Stay kinky friends!
UPDATE:
I have made two new posts that I wanted to share
My getDare story and demise
What happened to getDare
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