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Story behind a name
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The Brat Princess
THE Regal Brat
Mine was actually a combination of things. I had always repressed both my bratty aspects and my dominant side by extension and thought myself submissive only. It was only after exploring online that I began to explore both more. While doing so I discoered that princess a name I had always felt condicending and had negative feelings about as a result acctually became rather more fitting, both in how it had me feeling more subby in a good way when used mockiingly and very nice when used enderingly in a more dommy mindset 
I also discovered how important to me the bratty nature I have is (and more importantly that it isnt bad)
In short it became supper fitting for the journey I had taken exploring
I also discovered how important to me the bratty nature I have is (and more importantly that it isnt bad)In short it became supper fitting for the journey I had taken exploring
Well, about 22 years ago, when the internet was still young, people introduced me to a little game called Runescape. One of the amazing features of Runescape is you need an account name. This was my first exposure to the concept of being whoever you want on the internet, so I was quite amazed that not only could I pick any name I wanted, but I actually couldn't pick my birth name because it was already taken.
Now faced with the infinity of alphanumeric combinations available to me I thought "what do i like... Pokemon!" The main protagonist of the Pokemon anime was Ash Ketchum, so i made my name Ash2000456. Ash was also taken already so I though "you want numbers? I'LL GIVE YOU NUMBERS!"
Now I've had many nicknames throughout the years, but Ash has always stuck around. So as I delved into the kink world, I decided Ash was a perfect name. A little androgynous, a name I've come to identify with outside of Pokemon, could be short for Ashley, which is one of my favorite female names. It's also a phoenix metaphor, not just rising from the ashes of my not so good childhood, but wearing the ashes as a lesson, a warning, a message.
But Ash is still a very commonly used name, so on most platforms there's already an Ash staking claim to my sacred name. Thus i attached an adjective relating to my first kink. So began the legend of Messy Ash. And my friends took to calling me Ashy. that is how MessyAshy came to be.
Now faced with the infinity of alphanumeric combinations available to me I thought "what do i like... Pokemon!" The main protagonist of the Pokemon anime was Ash Ketchum, so i made my name Ash2000456. Ash was also taken already so I though "you want numbers? I'LL GIVE YOU NUMBERS!"
Now I've had many nicknames throughout the years, but Ash has always stuck around. So as I delved into the kink world, I decided Ash was a perfect name. A little androgynous, a name I've come to identify with outside of Pokemon, could be short for Ashley, which is one of my favorite female names. It's also a phoenix metaphor, not just rising from the ashes of my not so good childhood, but wearing the ashes as a lesson, a warning, a message.
But Ash is still a very commonly used name, so on most platforms there's already an Ash staking claim to my sacred name. Thus i attached an adjective relating to my first kink. So began the legend of Messy Ash. And my friends took to calling me Ashy. that is how MessyAshy came to be.