How did you first discover ENM — and what drew you to it?
Do you consider ENM part of your identity or simply a relationship choice?
How do you personally define the difference between polyamory, open relationships, and ENM?
What was the biggest mindset shift you had to make when entering ENM?
How do you handle tough conversations — like time boundaries, emotional needs, or shifting dynamics?
What does “trust” mean to you in an ENM context? How is it built and maintained?
Are your relationships hierarchical, non-hierarchical, or something in between? Why?
How do you balance time, energy, and emotional labor across multiple connections?
How do you navigate sexual health and safety in ENM relationships?
What do you say to people who think ENM “just doesn’t work” or is “a phase”?
Have you faced stigma — from friends, family, or even within the dating world?
What’s a common misconception about ENM you wish more people understood?
What’s been the most joyful or unexpected gift of practicing ENM?
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Questions for those who are ENM
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