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Your dream sex dungeon/room

I have thought about this a lot and when I bought my house 2 years ago I specifically bought this one because I thought the basement would make a great dungeon for hosting small parties although sadly I have done very little work to actually start building it out but my hopes is this

It would have a large area in the corner with a drain and shower head and water hose but not a isolated shower just a good spot to drain things

The whole thing would have a unfinished rough concrete floor for easy cleaning/hosing down

On the walls would have diferant restraint points including a X-cross there would be hooks and shelves for diferant toys and implements as well as printed erotic photos that have been taken from people doing scenes in the room. Once corner would be for more sensual things with a big round sex bed from liberator and one of there chase bondage chairs.

Also there would be a fridge for SNACKIES

the wall opposite of the bondage and shower area would be a small bar for making drinks

The center price of the room would be suspension points for suspension bondage

So far the only thing I have to make this happen is put in the suspension points in the center of the basement and it already had a bathroom with water hookups so we took the surrounding wall around that down to expose it and hooked up a hose to that area. And my room mate is building the bar out of recycled pallets
 
I have thought about this a lot and when I bought my house 2 years ago I specifically bought this one because I thought the basement would make a great dungeon for hosting small parties although sadly I have done very little work to actually start building it out but my hopes is this

It would have a large area in the corner with a drain and shower head and water hose but not a isolated shower just a good spot to drain things

The whole thing would have a unfinished rough concrete floor for easy cleaning/hosing down

On the walls would have diferant restraint points including a X-cross there would be hooks and shelves for diferant toys and implements as well as printed erotic photos that have been taken from people doing scenes in the room. Once corner would be for more sensual things with a big round sex bed from liberator and one of there chase bondage chairs.

Also there would be a fridge for SNACKIES

the wall opposite of the bondage and shower area would be a small bar for making drinks

The center price of the room would be suspension points for suspension bondage

So far the only thing I have to make this happen is put in the suspension points in the center of the basement and it already had a bathroom with water hookups so we took the surrounding wall around that down to expose it and hooked up a hose to that area. And my room mate is building the bar out of recycled pallets
This sounds amazing! I hope you get to one day make this a reality!
 
It would be sound proofed. It would have some wood and fake fur and leather as part of the deco, probably a mix of black and brown shades, with some whites too. There would be some pieces of furniture for toys, like a closet or drawers. A queen bed with a metal frame that works well for spread eagle bondage.
 
I would love to have like a double king size bed. It would also have a massive shower area with a big tub, steam shower and everything easy to wipe down and clean. It would be pink and black. There would be spanking benches, a sybian, fucking machine, and storage for all the toys.

I would have a seperate room for my little side!
 
Mine would be in 4 quadrants.

One quarter for WAM. Bathroom tile, no-slip floor, solid drainage. Some hooks and loops for bondage on the walls and ceiling. Black with gold accents. A lot of buckets, squirt guns, a professional grade gunge tank, a pool to make a mud/slime/whatever bath in... Yeah, that'll do.

Second quarter, all bed. Just a whole corner full of soft mattresses, pillows, silky curtains billowing down, blankies, maybe like one of those huge water columns that can be illuminated with bubbles floating up. main color deep blue with white accents. A soft sensual play area, or a place to just chill after a scene. Oh, OOH! And a starry night sky painted on the ceiling and upper half of the walls. And each star is a little LED light.

Third quarter, dungeon corner. Gray bricks, shackles along the wall, stockade, cages, bondage bench, a huge rack with all the torture tools. Like a proper medieval dungeon look. with speakers hidden in the walls that can play distant screams and rattling of chains to create the proper atmosphere of a house of suffering.

Fourth quarter, Prep space. Wardrobe for all the sexy outfits, Soft couch, minibar. A woody beige, something neutral, inviting. Ooh, and a big cactus in the corner.
 
It would need to be a basement room or well hidden...with access only from a switch on a bookcase :D Gotta keep any good dungeon a secret from Vanilla guests!

It would need to be a fair size room, with a good double bed in the centre (four poster bed), I'm thinking black frame, red sheets and curtains

There would be the Bondage corner, this would need a Pillory, rings on the walls to tie someone to, maybe an X frame...and a table to tie someone down too (padded)

There would be the messy corner, which would have a small pool with steps going down, built in gunge tank at one end, shelves for supplies and a fridge, also a small kitchen area for prep and a shower area for cleanup, good drainage would be needed for the chunkier mess

There would be a small gaming corner with a poker table, console/TV and a shelf for board games

finally there would be the implements/supplies corner with racks/shelves/hooks to store all sex toys, whips, tying implements, canes and the like, as well as space for any other random things such as candles, massage oil, lube, blindfolds, etc...

Lighting would be dimmable
Walls would be red
 
This is what mine would need:

An area for watersports and WAM play, something easy to clean...
A pillory to put various naughty submissives in...
A very nice sadists toolkit on the wall
Moody lighting
Various bondage fixings
A toilet, for subs to look at when they wet themselves in bondage

As for the finer details, I have not got a clue! It would change depending on what equipment I could get
 
So there I was writing a reply, when I figured basically my dream dungeon is what I have already - just bigger and more permanent.
For me it is all about versatility! I like to control and adjust the environment - temperature, lighting, sounds, scent, and haptics! I got different floor materials to walk on, different curtains as backdrops, mood lighting, speakers everywhere. There is trusses all around for attaching bondage gear, toys, and tools.
What would I add with unlimited funds?
First of all, my dungeon would be in space! Playing in weightlessness sounds like so much fun, and much more safe than any underwater shenanigans. Obviously that comes with a centrifuge, because the only thing more fun to play with than weightlessness is gravity working in strange ways!
Another room carved out of stone - an actual dungeon :), complete with dark corridors, catacombs. Rustic decor, cages and a fireplace (mostly for setting the mood).
Lots and lots of storage and workshop space so I am always ready to create a new set just as my creativity demands.
Needless to say, shelves upon shelves of toys, impact implements, rope, kinky clothing in all shapes, materials and colors.
All of it easily cleanable, wanna be able to get messy, and just spray it all down with a pressure washer.
A separate room dedicated just for aftercare!
 
This room should be in the basement of an old Victorian mansion. It should still be warm and comfortable though as I would be spending a lot of time naked in there.

It should be all colored black and red with pretty much all the usual stuff as well as:

* A very large bed in the center of the room. With a large mirror on the ceiling as well as on the walls to 3 sides of it.
* A large bath tub, large enough for two people to lie down fully in, side by side, that can be used not just for bathing but for piss and messy play.
* A milking table, so like a massage table but with a hole in the middle.
* A queening chair. A chair without a bottom that can be used for piss play but also to give oral pleasure.
* A trampling section. This is an area where a sub can lie down and where next to it are two railings to which the Dom can support themselves while they can walk/trample all over the sub. Optionally there is a platform that can be lowered on the sub's lower body that has a hole in it for their penis to go through. This provided a solid platform for the Dom to do some specific cock and ball crushing.
* A cage that is just large enough to fit two subs folded on top of each other in a 69 position. Alternatively this cage can of course fit a single worm as well.
* A glory hole that has an entrance behind it that is seperate from the main dungeon entrance. This way either the giver OR the receiver can always remain anonymous.
* Additionally to this dungeon, the Victorian mansion itself also has a back yard that is completely walled in and thus private enough for kinky outside play.
 
If I had unlimited resources and also a trusting BDSM partner, my sex dungeon would be split in two.

The first part would be luxurious, with a huge comfortable bed where I'd like to be tied , teased and fucked, a jacuzzi for some relaxing masage followed by some wet kinky play, and a pool table. I imagine I'd sometimes play pool with my partner and the winner gets to control the play session, give punishments or ask for sexual favors.

The second part would look rough and unfinished, like a true dungeon and it should have chains attached to the floor and to the walls, a fucking machine, a BDSM cross, a bondage table and a glory hole. Here I'd also like to have some sort of medieval wooden pilory/table where I'd have my wrists and ankles trapped while being fucked and sweetly tortured.

In-between, we'd have a common area with a huge dressing full of toys: vibrators, dildos, kegel balls, nipple clamps, nipple pumps, rope, floggers, cuffs, blindfolds, sexy costumes, high heels, chastity cages, spreader bars, candles for a romantic atmosphere and/or wax play and many more toys.
 
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It shoild certainly include a robospanker.

Also a testicle pillory
 
I'd like a nice decent space - A big giant four poster bed with fun restraint points. but also a cage - maybe two - once thats deprived of every nice thing and is for punishment and feeling nice and submissive in, maybe with some wide enough gaps for fun use in the cage, and a nicer one with bedding and pillows and plushies and pretty lights for after care but still staying in sub space.

A shower and a freestanding tub in one corner - Shower sex is fun, and can be used for other fun things and the tub can be a nice big freestanding one big enough for two for a cosy bubble bath together for aftercare.

definitely a pillory! and fun bondage furniture!

I think a simple colour scheme mostly black but maybe a blue or green accent.

a lovely wall display of all fun toys - easily accessible but also visible to imagine what might be used! and y'know aesthetics is important

and the best bit is it will be in a secret room - the door will be disguised as a bookshelf, the door opened via a latch connected to a book for a good old scooby doo - pull a secret book back and reveal a secret door. and the room will be sound proofed so that all the fun can be had regardless of visitors or nearby people!

@deschut - What do you think? Any notes? or things to add/ change?
 
Unlimited funds? We'd either own a penthouse with it's own private roof garden not overlooked by any other buildings, or a woodland cabin. A pool or hot tub outside for gentler, more loving, vanilla visits. Archways or pagodas that look like they're for plants but hide multiple ways of binding me outdoors for my husband's enjoyment. A small shed perhaps that looks like it's for storing gardening tools but also has spaces for locking me in for the night, either to the wall or in a pet cage.

In the bedroom, or bedrooms, we'd have the Alter Ego beds that can be a regular bed or a pillory bed just by changing a few wooden slats. The whole place would look initially like a classy, comfortable retreat, but with multiple hidden features to make it kinky. O-rings in the kitchen when my husband wants to make me work. A (fake) fur rug in front of the fireplace in the living room and hidden O-rings in the sofa, a dining table that I or another guest can be bound on, or bent over, legs tied to the table legs to spread them wide open... A closet in the master bedroom that doubles up as another place to store a submissive when not in use...
 
With unlimited funds it wouldn't be a dungeon/room, but a whole two floor mansion, on the top of a hill, with a lawn all around, surrounded by some woods, so outdoor activities will be far from prying eyes. A big porch is the connection between outdoor and indoor activities, and it's furnished with metal chairs and table, a swing (curious, there's a hole on the seat of the swing...), and a sort of wooden table that could resemble... oh my.. a pillory?


In the porch, as well as in the house, there are rings on all the walls and on the ceiling. The ones in the more private rooms clearly looking intended for binding something (or somebody?), the ones in the more public rooms looking simply like decorative elements.


On the ground floor there is a big entrance, like a wide corridor that splits in two the floor, running across the entire floor to the door that exits into the greenhouse. On the right of the entrance there is a big living room, with soft armchairs and sofas, and a big dining room. In both these rooms, besides the ordinary chandeliers, there are four adjustable spot lights, useful to lighten the protagonist of the games and shows when all the other lights are turned off. On the other side of the entrance there's the kitchen and the bathroom, and between them the stairs to the upper floor. On the first floor there are four wide rooms, two with pillar beds and two with normal beds and rings on the wall and the ceiling, and two bathrooms with shower stall and tub. In the pet's room finds place a big wardrobe full of sexy garments.


The greenhouse is the game room. One wall is the external wall of the house, and the three other walls are all made of glass (what better to play nasty games in the full light of the sun and virtually exposed?). There are a sofa and chests around the walls, with comfortable cushions to sit, and the chests are full of toys. There is a round stone pillar in the center of the greenhouse, and two iron cast pillars in 19th century style at its sides, each about 3 meters far from the stone pillar. All the pillars have four rings at crotch height, head height and above head, and the top of the three pillars are connected by two iron bars with rings and a winch that can slide on the bars. A door allows to go out in the lawn, where there is the little pavilion with sauna, steam bath and a little pool.

Maybe somebody is looking for an architect 😅
 
I'd like a nice decent space - A big giant four poster bed with fun restraint points. but also a cage - maybe two - once thats deprived of every nice thing and is for punishment and feeling nice and submissive in, maybe with some wide enough gaps for fun use in the cage, and a nicer one with bedding and pillows and plushies and pretty lights for after care but still staying in sub space.

A shower and a freestanding tub in one corner - Shower sex is fun, and can be used for other fun things and the tub can be a nice big freestanding one big enough for two for a cosy bubble bath together for aftercare.

definitely a pillory! and fun bondage furniture!

I think a simple colour scheme mostly black but maybe a blue or green accent.

a lovely wall display of all fun toys - easily accessible but also visible to imagine what might be used! and y'know aesthetics is important

and the best bit is it will be in a secret room - the door will be disguised as a bookshelf, the door opened via a latch connected to a book for a good old scooby doo - pull a secret book back and reveal a secret door. and the room will be sound proofed so that all the fun can be had regardless of visitors or nearby people!

@deschut - What do you think? Any notes? or things to add/ change?
Sounds pretty complete to me!

A bit spacious could have a tiny seating area, with chair & table - so it can be used to tie you up to next to a bed only!
Maybe a couch with a small fridge and side table, so I can watch you struggle while being comfortable haha

Plenty of toys clearly, plugs and dildos - but also wands, paddles, whips, rope!
Maybe it could have a roof that you can look through and blind also - it'll be pretty to be able to see the stars, but also have the opportunity to fully blind it.

Sounds proof sounds like a key aspect, you may scream some!
 
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