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What makes you feel dommy?

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What are some words or phrases that make you feel dommy? Yes Sir, Master
What clothes make you feel dommy? Nothing of note
What are some things that you can do on your own to help make you feel dommy? Nothing of note, I seem to turn it on for the right submissive
What are some things that your partner can do to help make you feel dommy? Looking at me with big eyes after doing something to annoy me, showing their thong as a whale tail above their trousers, removing their panties when out in public and giving them to me, giving me control of a remote toy that they are wearing
 
Words or phrases:
* I met someone online a couple weeks ago and because of her manners and that I'm much older, she kept typing "sir". I've never gotten so .. erect incidentally in an otherwise completely mundane conversation. Don't know why that was a thing in that moment.
* I can't think of anything else rn

I never got to the point where clothes initiated Dom or even Top energy in me. Certainly there are some which enhance feeling a bit more big/powerful, but I never got far into clothing. Untapped potential.

Do on my own: Good question!
I like to be prepared with equipment and maybe brainstorm some scenes or sequences - but that's more of preparing a solid base rather than engendering Dom energy itself.
I will have to ponder that as so far - unless I'm a service Top - that energy gets initiated by some qualities of the other person. It can even sneak in before either of us notice.

What can my partner do?
Being honest, being present, embody their own kinky energy. You can be fun and flirty or dark and sultry, or a hundred other qualities.. but if I sense that you're putting on a show (that we haven't negotiated) my energy and interest will disappear pretty quickly - if it ever showed up.
 
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