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What drew you to BDSM?

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MessyAshy

MessyAshy

Well-known member
Joined
Apr 11, 2025
Location
Belgium
Gender
Male
For me, BDSM is like a playground for complicated emotions. It is a safe space to experiment with control, fear, embarrassment, lust, etc.
In general society we are almost expected to pretend these feelings don't exist, it is shameful to feel them. BDSM provides a way to experiment
with these things in a safe, consensual way, with a person we can trust. And in doing so, it allows me to be fully human.

What draws you to BDSM and kink?
 
I don't know exactly, but definitely because it's a great community where you can do taboo things and not be judged for it
 
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