What do you look for in a play partner?

[Bloxo]

These questions will get you to ask yourself what you really want, to make you think about who you prefer to play with and maybe ask yourself why you have these preferences

(No pressure to answer everything — just whatever feels useful to you! This will help create better-matched games and threads.)


These questions are designed to help you figure out what you actually enjoy in play partners.

1. Do you have a strong gender or dynamic preference in partners?
2. Do you have any age preferences? (All play partners must be legal adults — feel free to skip or say "no strong preference")
3. Do you prefer your play partner to be more Dominant, more Submissive, or Switch?
4. Do you prefer a partner who is more experienced than you, less experienced, or similar level?
5. Would you rather play with someone who shares most of your kinks, or someone who has quite different ones?
6. How do you feel about your play partner also playing with other people? (Monogamous play only / don't mind / actively prefer poly-style / no strong opinion)
7. Do you prefer a partner who is more caring/nurturing or more strict/intense/sadistic?
8. Are there any physical attributes or types that really appeal to you? (Optional — no need to be super specific)
9. Do you prefer a partner who is more strict and protocol-focused, or more playful and fun?
10. Bonus / Open: Is there anything else about a play partner that is a big "yes" or a hard "no" for you?

 

[Owena]

partners.

1. Do you have a strong gender or dynamic preference in partners?

For dynamic preference, well im a sub girl
For gender i prefer girl doms, though those are very very rare, especially for strictly non exhib me.

1. Do you have any age preferences? (All play partners must be legal adults — feel free to skip or say "no strong preference")

At least same age as me. Statistics assign more exp and intelligence that way, though its not a strict rule. Sometimes age comes without either

1. Do you prefer your play partner to be more Dominant, more Submissive, or Switch?

Dominant definitely

1. Do you prefer a partner who is more experienced than you, less experienced, or similar level?

More experienced

1. Would you rather play with someone who shares most of your kinks, or someone who has quite different ones?

I dont really have many "fixed" kinks and like to experiment within reason. I guess depends on what are those other ones...

1. How do you feel about your play partner also playing with other people? (Monogamous play only / don't mind / actively prefer poly-style / no strong opinion)

No strong opinion

1. Do you prefer a partner who is more caring/nurturing or more strict/intense/sadistic?

Sadistic definitely no. Caring, strict and intense are fine.

1. Are there any physical attributes or types that really appeal to you? (Optional — no need to be super specific)

Online doesnt matter, irl not really. More about attributes that are disappealing, like stupid, hairy as monkey or twice my size

1. Do you prefer a partner who is more strict and protocol-focused, or more playful and fun?

Cant it be combined? I enjoy discipline but i also like fun

1. Bonus / Open: Is there anything else about a play partner that is a big "yes" or a hard "no" for you?

Sadistic is hard no. I dont mind some pain, but only proportional to my horny level.