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Unique Safewords

I prefer the traffic light system because it's more or less universally understood, and it's more nuanced than just one word to stop all activity. If i gotta pick a unique one, mine is easteregg.
 
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I prefer the traffic light system because it's more or less universally understood, and it's more nuanced than just one word to stop all activity. If i gotta pick a unique one, mine is easteregg.
I usually end up defering to that as well.
Though I did really like using "pause" instead of yellow. That is what Marshall and Lily used when they needed a break from their arguments in How I Met Your Mother. So it fit really well.
 
I used to have a safeword of butternut. I find unique ones fun but traffic light ones win for me. I think as a lot of the time i just want to say I'm nearing a limit where i can say yellow rather than a unique one which basically is just stop right now
 
Personally use the traffic light green orange red. Funniest one i've heard was rhododendron...not the easiest of words to say
 
I once had a play partner who wanted me to snap my fingers, since I can't always speak when I am gagged and stuff like that.

Most of the time, however, I don't use a safeword because I never know what to use.

But I really liked it once during a spanking session where I was being punished for my misdeeds, when the safeword or phrase was “I'll abide by your rules.”
 
Bacon, because whatever is happening is not kosher.

My wife sometimes struggles communicating or using words when things are getting too much, though in the more vanilla sense of getting too sensitive after multiple orgasms and I jokingly told her to just meep; its worked for her, and shes expanded it to some other uses, including sometimes as a pause.

I don't mind TLP, but as someone who loves a spanking, its hard to not be able to use red in some contexts.
 
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