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Unique limits

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What is something that you have listed in our limits that isn't the typical things that we all list (permanent, blood, family, scat, etc.)
 
Being called 'Loser' specifically. Other insults are fine, but that one ties into some trauma.
 
Jaw stress. I actually love gags and such, but my dentist doesn't

This one comes up more IRL when I play in dungeons, but I have a soft limit around being near needle play scenes. That is definantly a me issue, as I can't tell people not to play in a way that is allowed by dungeon rules, but I have absolutely ended scenes because I didn't like what was going on next to me.

I also had a limit for a while of not going into a specific room at a specific dungeon due to a bad experience there. I'm using the past tense here only because I don't go to that dungeon at all anymore.
 
Wooden spoons for me is something that is a past trauma.
 
It isnt in my limits yet, but needs to be added, and that is sexual contact. From what I have tried, I just dont like it
 
Knee stressful positions (injury)
Kissing (trauma)
 
Another unique limit for me is spanking as a punishment. This one also comes from trauma. I love spanking and impact play but I can't handle that being a punishment. So it's only for fun!
 
Writing blogs, which I’m mainly just adding now to take part in a couple of other threads that I’ve avoided because I really don’t feel like having to write any blogs atm
 
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