What is something that you have listed in our limits that isn't the typical things that we all list (permanent, blood, family, scat, etc.)
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Unique limits
- Thread starter Butterfly
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Being called 'Loser' specifically. Other insults are fine, but that one ties into some trauma.
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- Apr 8, 2025
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Transfemme
Jaw stress. I actually love gags and such, but my dentist doesn't
This one comes up more IRL when I play in dungeons, but I have a soft limit around being near needle play scenes. That is definantly a me issue, as I can't tell people not to play in a way that is allowed by dungeon rules, but I have absolutely ended scenes because I didn't like what was going on next to me.
I also had a limit for a while of not going into a specific room at a specific dungeon due to a bad experience there. I'm using the past tense here only because I don't go to that dungeon at all anymore.
This one comes up more IRL when I play in dungeons, but I have a soft limit around being near needle play scenes. That is definantly a me issue, as I can't tell people not to play in a way that is allowed by dungeon rules, but I have absolutely ended scenes because I didn't like what was going on next to me.
I also had a limit for a while of not going into a specific room at a specific dungeon due to a bad experience there. I'm using the past tense here only because I don't go to that dungeon at all anymore.
Wooden spoons for me is something that is a past trauma.
It isnt in my limits yet, but needs to be added, and that is sexual contact. From what I have tried, I just dont like it
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- Apr 11, 2025
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Knee stressful positions (injury)
Kissing (trauma)
Edging. I feel like it's really over used and just to me kills any interest i have in a scene
Another unique limit for me is spanking as a punishment. This one also comes from trauma. I love spanking and impact play but I can't handle that being a punishment. So it's only for fun!
Writing blogs, which I’m mainly just adding now to take part in a couple of other threads that I’ve avoided because I really don’t feel like having to write any blogs atm
Long toenails are definitely a limit for me!
ABDL
I feel like a lot of other people don’t have slurs as a limit but i find them a turn off. Name calling sometimes is ok but slurs no. The specific boundary is hard to explain though.
It's not listed in my limits here but I don't take punishments. Funishments are great though.
Well, maybe not too weird - but I really really dislike feet somehow... So no feet for me (although I also know there are plenty of people that actually have it at as a LIKE)