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  1. What's the one toy you swore you'd never use… until you tried it and loved it?
  2. Which toy gave you your biggest "WTF just happened" moment (in a good or bad way)?
  3. Do you prefer solo toy play, partner play, or a mix of both? Why?
  4. What's your go-to toy when you're in a "I need it now" mood?
  5. What’s the most underrated toy you think more people should try?
  6. What was your first-ever toy, and how do you feel about it now?
  7. Ever DIY’d a toy (safely, of course)? How did that go?
  8. Do you name your toys? If yes, what’s the best name you’ve given one?
  9. Which toy has made you tap out or say your safe word the fastest?
  10. Is there a toy you desperately want but haven’t gotten yet? What’s stopping you?
  11. Which toy do you love but rarely use—and why?
  12. Ever had a toy break mid-session? What happened next?
  13. What’s your favorite toy for teasing… and for tormenting?
  14. If you could design your dream toy, what would it look like and do?
 
  1. What's the one toy you swore you'd never use… until you tried it and loved it?
  2. Which toy gave you your biggest "WTF just happened" moment (in a good or bad way)?
  3. Do you prefer solo toy play, partner play, or a mix of both? Why?
  4. What's your go-to toy when you're in a "I need it now" mood?
  5. What’s the most underrated toy you think more people should try?
  6. What was your first-ever toy, and how do you feel about it now?
  7. Ever DIY’d a toy (safely, of course)? How did that go?
  8. Do you name your toys? If yes, what’s the best name you’ve given one?
  9. Which toy has made you tap out or say your safe word the fastest?
  10. Is there a toy you desperately want but haven’t gotten yet? What’s stopping you?
  11. Which toy do you love but rarely use—and why?
  12. Ever had a toy break mid-session? What happened next?
  13. What’s your favorite toy for teasing… and for tormenting?
  14. If you could design your dream toy, what would it look like and do?
1. I didn't swear I would never use it but the Hitachi I never thought I would care as a male. I just kinda thought "Okay it's a vibe..." FUCK ME SIDEWAYS THAT SHIT IS FUCKING AMAZING. 10/10 would recommend.

2. The first time you used the Wand that could shock me I was blindfolded and it surprised the heck out of me in a good way. It hurt but was also amazing.

3. I much prefer play with a partner. I find it hard to torture myself post orgasm because I keep moving.

4. The wand that shit is like crack.

5. WAND AGAIN JUST GET ONE IF YOU LIKE ORGASMS.

6. I don't remember tbh. Maybe a plug? If it was probably way too small now but love plugs.

7. Nope not really. I think I used a Brush handle when I was first experimenting with anal but bought myself a plug shortly after.

8. Nope

9. No toy in particular although I got close with the sounds. Those are big scary.

10. I really want a remote controllable fucking machine. They are so expensive though and storage seems like a pain. Also a chair that has an attachment for plugs same thing though big and expensive.

11. Love my anal tower that helps stretch me out. It's giant pain to clean and setup though so I don't use it a ton.

12. We recently had your fucking machine break. Which sucks so much cuz it's such an expensive toys! The break was also not one that seemed fixable :(.

13. Teasing probably the shocky wand. Pain to pleasure by a literal switch.

14. I think this one is just super fantasy obviously. I like the idea of a super comfy chair that has a plug. When I sit down my arms lock to the chair and a hood is placed one me. Someone sets a time limit. During that limit the machine attaches a vibe to my cock and slowly expands the plug and vibes me. No matter if I orgasm or not it just keeps going until the time limit is up. Would love to be able to set like a 30 minutes timer in the morning and just be tortured in bliss before work everyday.
 
  1. What's the one toy you swore you'd never use… until you tried it and loved it?
A flogger or any kind of impact toys. It was always a limit and I never expected that I would enjoy it. But now impact play is one of my loves.
  1. Which toy gave you your biggest "WTF just happened" moment (in a good or bad way)?
The magic wand! The first orgasm that I had with that .... omg!
  1. Do you prefer solo toy play, partner play, or a mix of both? Why?
Mix of both. I love control so playing with a partner when either I take control, or give up control, is SO powerful. However, I also really enjoy having my solo play time. I love edging and watching porn.
  1. What's your go-to toy when you're in a "I need it now" mood?
Magic wand. So powerful!
  1. What’s the most underrated toy you think more people should try?
A plug or anal toys in general. People who have never tried anal just don't understand how enjoyable and pleasurable it can be. Even just a small toy can ignite those nerve endings and blow your mind!
  1. What was your first-ever toy, and how do you feel about it now?
My first ever real toy was a butt plug. It was way too big for me, and I wouldn't think that it would be super comfortable even now. I am glad it got thrown away.
  1. Ever DIY’d a toy (safely, of course)? How did that go?
I don't think I ever have. Though I have repurposed a lot of things ... like chopsticks or things to use for impact play.
  1. Do you name your toys? If yes, what’s the best name you’ve given one?
No, none of them have names. Though I did name my first magic wand. Her name was "Wanda"
  1. Which toy has made you tap out or say your safe word the fastest?
The estim wand.
  1. Is there a toy you desperately want but haven’t gotten yet? What’s stopping you?
I would love to have a sybian. The cost is the only barrier.
  1. Which toy do you love but rarely use—and why?
I love my violet wand. It isn't as fun with just one person so I don't use it too often. Also it always feels like a lot of work to take it out haha.
  1. Ever had a toy break mid-session? What happened next?
Omg yes! Mr. D and I were on our honeymoon. He was using a glass dildo on me. It slipped out, bounced off the bed and landed on the hard tile floor. It shattered!
  1. What’s your favorite toy for teasing… and for tormenting?
The magic wand!
  1. If you could design your dream toy, what would it look like and do?
I would design a toy like a suit or belt of some sort that would be able to read your vital signs and automatically adjust to keep you right on the edge of orgasm without letting you go over.
 
  1. What's the one toy you swore you'd never use… until you tried it and loved it?
There is no toy that I swore I'd never use. But I didn't think I would ever try a sounding plug/rod and yet I did! I won't say I love it but it's definitely interesting.
  1. Which toy gave you your biggest "WTF just happened" moment (in a good or bad way)?
Maybe that one time I managed to get the fisting plug in. Probably the largest I've ever had in my ass!
  1. Do you prefer solo toy play, partner play, or a mix of both? Why?
I'd prefer partner, but the great thing about toys is that they can be enjoyed solo
  1. What's your go-to toy when you're in a "I need it now" mood?
My hands, lol. Honestly I never feel I need a toy but my post used toys are my anal toys.
  1. What’s the most underrated toy you think more people should try?
Nipple suckers!
  1. What was your first-ever toy, and how do you feel about it now?
My medium sized butt plug. It always was my goto plug but now it's honestly a bit too small.
  1. Ever DIY’d a toy (safely, of course)? How did that go?
Yeah I first carved a butt plug from wood. I also made a "tack tube" for my cock. I will blog about it later. I also made "tack panties".
  1. Do you name your toys? If yes, what’s the best name you’ve given one?
No, I never even thought of naming them
  1. Which toy has made you tap out or say your safe word the fastest?
I think I did safe word when Miss used my urethal sounding plug. It's scary!
  1. Is there a toy you desperately want but haven’t gotten yet? What’s stopping you?
No not really. I have all that I really wanted.
  1. Which toy do you love but rarely use—and why?
I really love my nipple suckers. Not sure why I don't use them more.
  1. Ever had a toy break mid-session? What happened next?
I don't recall
  1. What’s your favorite toy for teasing… and for tormenting?
My electrical toys are real torture when Miss uses them on me
  1. If you could design your dream toy, what would it look like and do?
Oh I'd love to have an "auto stroker". Something that would stroke my penis and keep it hard without edging or getting too close.
 
What's the one toy you swore you'd never use… until you tried it and loved it?
Nothing comes to mind, never really seen a toy and thought "never-ever". Message me the most creative, insane toys and let's see if we can change that.
Which toy gave you your biggest "WTF just happened" moment (in a good or bad way)?
Electrostimulation. I have rarely giggled so much, did not expect it to tickle so much.
Do you prefer solo toy play, partner play, or a mix of both? Why?
No, I do not. There are times I want to play with myself in a completely isolated room and not acknowledge the existence of others. There are times I crave the interference of a partner. If I had to pick under duress I'd lean towards partner play.
What's your go-to toy when you're in a "I need it now" mood?
Depends on what I need at the moment lol. Lots of different moods for different toys. I have a favorite dildo, a favorite plug, a favorite fleshlight, well two of them for different occasions. The list goes on :P
What’s the most underrated toy you think more people should try?
I'd say enemas, if that counts as toys.
What was your first-ever toy, and how do you feel about it now?
Store-bought, that would be a vibrating plug. How do I feel about it? It was so tiny! Like to think I have graduated from it. also, made of TPU, never doing that again.
Ever DIY’d a toy (safely, of course)? How did that go?
Yes, many. Some were disastrous, some were great. Made a plug that was way too large for me, still fun to see I am not that far gone :D Also made some fleshlight, ended up much more firm than I planned, but it feels amazing.
Do you name your toys? If yes, what’s the best name you’ve given one?
Some of my toys are wifi-enabled, so they must have a name. I have made a fucking machine with a motor, it rotates so it's Tina. Tina Turner.
Which toy has made you tap out or say your safe word the fastest?
That would be a fucking machine. Cannot understate the amount of lube you need. Ouch.
s there a toy you desperately want but haven’t gotten yet? What’s stopping you?
A decent electrostimulation tool. Haven't gotten the time to do proper research, and I am picky. Also they seem so expensive for what they do
Which toy do you love but rarely use—and why?
Nothing comes to mind. I rarely use my fucking machine but I wouldn't say I love it that much. It's a lot of effort to set up and not that great a performance.
Ever had a toy break mid-session? What happened next?
After four hours the damn battery died! Disassembled, put a cable in - unlimited power!

What’s your favorite toy for teasing… and for tormenting?
A rubber flogger. I can set it to anything between tickle and sting, and all the while I have the mightiest grin on my face as I just love the sound of it! Can go pretty bananas with it too as I can build a new one in about 5 minutes if I need to.
If you could design your dream toy, what would it look like and do?
I'd say that'd be a robot. It could do everything. A little more realistic though, I lack heating functions on all the toys, so that is what I want.
 
What's the one toy you swore you'd never use… until you tried it and loved it?
Truthfully, I've always bought a toy that I would use. There hasn't been one I haven't gotten that I didn't want. There are some I have not gotten because I'm not interested in. BUT maybe if I did, I would like/love it. Those would be electro items, chastity (mostly because my wife enjoys having sex), sounding, other items on the more niche kink/fetish spectrum.

Which toy gave you your biggest "WTF just happened" moment (in a good or bad way)?
Probably the inflatable plug. Its quite large and really does fill you up.

Do you prefer solo toy play, partner play, or a mix of both? Why?
I would be in the mixed realm. Most of what I do is solo. When my wife is in the mood for toys (besides a vibrator), I sue them on her mostly. She doesn't really use them on me nor by herself (again besides vibrator).

What's your go-to toy when you're in a "I need it now" mood?
Probably the purple/pink medium dildo and large purple dildo as a combo. The medium is a warmup for anal with the large and is good for oral. Good pair really.

What’s the most underrated toy you think more people should try?
Tough choices. The smaller inflatable plugs would be great for people who like a bit of anal, but are interested in stretching for larger toys.

What was your first-ever toy, and how do you feel about it now?
The first proper toy was a bullet vibrator. It was nice until it broke.

Ever DIY’d a toy (safely, of course)? How did that go?
Uhh kinda DIY'd. Ice dildo. Kinda spreader bar. Large enema container/hose. Ice dildo worked and was only used in the shower with a condom. Spreader bar is just an old curtain rod with thin rope through the bar and secured on both ends to allow to be tied to limbs (it's functional but it over stretches due to it's length). The large enema container and hose was 2 gallon water jugs badly taped together and the hose connection was horrible (wasted the containers, tape and hose for not much usage).

Do you name your toys? If yes, what’s the best name you’ve given one?
I do not name them.

Which toy has made you tap out or say your safe word the fastest?
The inflatable plug when it gets around 20 pumps (when I've been actively using it for anal over a short length of time to manage it). As well as the Large Seraphina Bad Dragon toy. It is massive and I can't get it passed the knot (possibly due to body positioning or just not giving enough effort to get further, unknown).

Is there a toy you desperately want but haven’t gotten yet? What’s stopping you?
I want to own anything any everything truly. Money is the main point. Wife not wanting MORE toys is the secondary.

Which toy do you love but rarely use—and why?
I love the Mystic Bad Dragon toy, but I use it so rarely because it's large and I need to really prep to be able to enjoy it and I usually don't have enough time to prep and use it. Both on my wife and myself.

Ever had a toy break mid-session? What happened next?
Yes. The Doc Johnson black vibrator broke while I was using it. The vibration just up and stopped while it was buzzing/twisting inside my ass...it sucked. Still functions as a dildo, but not as enjoyable.

What’s your favorite toy for teasing… and for tormenting?
Paddles...for both teasing and tormenting. It just works.

If you could design your dream toy, what would it look like and do?
This is a tough one. Possibly a remote controlled device that can mold and shape itself to whatever the controller wishes. Whether it be a small dildo or a giant tunnel plug or a hollow penis gag. The user would connect sensors to their temples to allow their thoughts to go to the device remotely and the device would shape itself and act as the user envisioned for a period of time set on the device.
 
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