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This or That: Kink Edition

Blindfolds or Handcuffs? But really both
Dominating or Submitting? But I still like to switch it up
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs? But rope if I'm the one getting tied up
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation? But I really love to contrast between deprivation and overstimulation in the same scene
Watching or Being watched? I LOVE being watched
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth? But toys are fun too
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action? Either, tbh! The latter, if forced to choose
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction? Either (public must be hidden though!)
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play? Any time play!
Toys involved
or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon? Both are great!
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up
or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play
or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
Dominating or Submitting?
Biting or Spanking?
Rope play or Leather cuffs?
Dirty talk or Silent teasing?
Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?
Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?
Watching or Being watched?
Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?
Roleplay or Dress-up?
Being tied up or Doing the tying?
Orgasm control or Edging?
Public teasing or Private seduction?
Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?
Praise kink or Degradation kink?
Soft dom or Hard dom?
Lingerie or Naked immediately?
Morning play or Late-night play?
Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?
Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?
 
Blindfolds or Handcuffs?
That depends if I'm doing it alone or with a play partner. For the former blindfolds, because the last handcuffs I had were cheap and broke from slightest tension on the chain and I don't trust myself enough with real ones. For the latter handcuffs, because I like the jingle.

Dominating or Submitting?
I think I'm more sub leaning

Biting or Spanking?

Spanking

Rope play or Leather cuffs?

Rope most of the time

Dirty talk or Silent teasing?

Silent teasing

Slow teasing or Fast, rough action?

Slow teasing

Sensory deprivation (blindfold/earplugs) or Overstimulation?

I have no experience with either but I'll go with overstimulation.

Watching or Being watched?

Watching

Hair pulling or Neck grabbing?

Neck grabbing

Roleplay or Dress-up?

Dress-up.

Being tied up or Doing the tying?

Being tied up

Orgasm control or Edging?

Edging

Public teasing or Private seduction?

Private seduction (I guess)

Breath play or Temperature play (ice, wax, etc.)?

I have no experience with either so I'll go with breath play

Praise kink or Degradation kink?

Praise king

Soft dom or Hard dom?

Soft dom

Lingerie or Naked immediately?

I'd prefer dressed up but I'll go with lingerie

Morning play or Late-night play?

Late-night play

Toys involved or Just hands/mouth?

Toys involved

Quick, rough session or Slow, extended foreplay marathon?

Slow, extended
 
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