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He wasn't online for quite a while after our last meeting. He sent me a quick message at the end of last week and I haven't heard from him since. Today I was on my way to the dentist and he sent me coordinates telling me where I should be in two hours. I wrote that unfortunately I couldn't make it and he said that from now on I was a free slave again. I asked him if I would get my money, and he said, “Why should he give it to me?” I said that was pretty shitty, but there was nothing I could do about it, and I thought it was a shame that he treated me that way. Then he wrote that I hadn't gotten in touch, so I wasn't interested in him anyway.

Then we went back and forth a bit, and I said I would get in touch after the doctor. After the doctor, I wrote to him, and since then he hasn't replied, so I guess that's it.

But since it takes me a little over an hour to get there, I'm dependent on him to reply.

Although it was rather difficult overall, I'm still very upset about the way he behaved, and what annoys me most is that he has the money.
 
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I wrote him some messages and he didn't react to it, I proposed to meet on the weekend and also asked him to talk it out.

He said "yes, we will see" and that was the last time he was online.

So not sure if and how it will continue.
 
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It's driving me crazy that he's not responding. He hasn't been online since then, but he was online on the forum, which means he's not away for work. Either he's ignoring me, or I just don't know... I'm finding it hard to focus on something new when I'm not sure if that was really it.

I'm angry that he treated me so badly, and I'm angry that I'm trying to save it because he has so much of my money.

But now I'm slowly starting to think that it was just an excuse. He's often been unavailable for days at a time, and I've hardly written to him, if at all, and now suddenly it's a problem?

I just don't understand why he can't be honest. After all, we've spent time together, and he could just write that it's not working for him.

I would understand that, because it's difficult, since he never really has time for me, and when he's working, I'm off, and vice versa. And then we're a good hour away from each other.

I just wish he would finally say something so I can move on with my life.
 
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After he was online in the forum again today, but still not on Messenger, I wrote him a message in the forum, telling him that it was my last message... I also wrote that I was disappointed that he was behaving this way and that he could have been honest with me, but also that I wasn't expecting a reply from him... I basically said goodbye... I also thanked him for the good times.

Then I kicked him out of the messenger group and told the others, and a few of them immediately reached out to comfort me...

Now I'm going to lick my wounds and then see how things go.
 
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After he was online in the forum again today, but still not on Messenger, I wrote him a message in the forum, telling him that it was my last message... I also wrote that I was disappointed that he was behaving this way and that he could have been honest with me, but also that I wasn't expecting a reply from him... I basically said goodbye... I also thanked him for the good times.

Then I kicked him out of the messenger group and told the others, and a few of them immediately reached out to comfort me...

Now I'm going to lick my wounds and then see how things go.
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Im proud of you, for respecting yourself more, mentally and physically. And for realising when its time to end it. You will go through this while learning something new. Something that not just anyone can or even should go through.
You deserve better than that and I hope that youll find it.
 
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