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Temperature Play Questions

Butterfly

The Bratty Glitteress
Admin
Joined
Apr 4, 2025
Location
Canada
Gender
Female
1. Tell us about your first experience with temperature play?
2. Do you prefer hot or cold, why?
3. What is your favorite way to incorporate temperature into a scene?
4. What is the most intense temperature play experience you have had?
5. Any unexpected reactions or accidents?
 
1. Tell us about your first experience with temperature play? & 5. Any unexpected reactions or accidents?
Same story so I’ll combine these two. I think it was the first girl I ever played with on the old site, a lonnng time ago now. She was a real little masochist and said she had some candles so during our session I told her to drip some wax on her boob and tummy. I did actually say at arms length which she ignored but it burned her skin, not badly, 5 small spots, but I felt terrible about it for ages, especially whenever she sent pictures and I could still see red marks weeks later. It never occurred to me at the time that candles may melt at different temperatures.

2. Do you prefer hot or cold, why?
Cold, much safer, plus hard nipples and goosebumps are rather sexy.

3. What is your favorite way to incorporate temperature into a scene?
Well online just watching someone rubbing an ice cube wherever I tell them, or ice dildos. IRL I’d use ice then wax together.

4. What is the most intense temperature play experience you have had?
Nothing extreme, probably making someone soak and freeze their underwear then wear it as punishment.
 
1. Tell us about your first experience with temperature play?
The first time I ever did temperature play was with Mr. Devious and we used hot wax.
2. Do you prefer hot or cold, why?
I actually prefer that they are used together. I don't know if I could choose.
3. What is your favorite way to incorporate temperature into a scene?
Using ice inside me is delicious. Or having cold drips and then hot drips while blindfolded.
4. What is the most intense temperature play experience you have had?
I was blindfolded and we did all types of sensations. This included heated pads, ice, hot wax, frozen butter knife, etc. it was super hot!
5. Any unexpected reactions or accidents?
Our first time doing wax play, we used BDSM candles from a sex shop. Unfortunately, they were still too hot (we hadn't done enough research) and Mr. Devious only held it about a foot above me. The wax that hit my nipple ended up burning me!
 
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