Solo Play

[Butterfly]

How do you get kinky all by yourself? Whether you have a partner in person and just like to explore on your own sometimes, you have a long distance partner, or you are single, how do you get kinky on your own?

What safety measures do you take?
How do you make the experience fulfilling?
What tips and tricks have you come up with to make solo play more fun?
What things just hit differently in solo play as opposed to with a partner?

 

[Jaro]

Before I even got into the online kink community I experimented a bit with solo bondage. I worked out mechanisms with a key frozen in ice so I forced myself in bondage. It worked, but it was pretty scary and in hindsight I would not recommend it.

One thing I do do solo but really hits (no pun intended) differently is spanking. Self-spanking is really not as fulfilling as being spanked by someone else!

 

[MessyAshy]

I experimented a lot in the early days, finding which messy foods are the messiest. But nowadays it's hard to muster up the energy and creativity to do stuff by myself. If someone else gives me a task, I try to do it, though! Accountability, and someone to share the adventure with helps a lot. If it's just for my own sake the lazy tends to win.

 

[snoek]

How do you get kinky all by yourself? Whether you have a partner in person and just like to explore on your own sometimes, you have a long distance partner, or you are single, how do you get kinky on your own?

What safety measures do you take?

Usually I just don't take it so far that it can really can go wrong, even if I would want to, I have my safety called princess that will make sure what I do is as safe as it can possibly be, there is almost always some way I can escape.

How do you make the experience fulfilling?

I think not knowing how the real deal feels help, I don't know what I'm missing out on yet. Usually just doing it helps. For example taking of clothespins in one go. Tho this is always a bit hard still... Luckily I have a motivating princess always helping me hihi

What tips and tricks have you come up with to make solo play more fun?

A time lock definitely helps, seeing it as self exploring helps me, if I try something the best I can, even if not as good as the real deal, I can still learn something about myself. I also see it as a great way of training my self control... Now writing that it almost sounds as if making it less fun makes it more fun for me...

What things just hit differently in solo play as opposed to with a partner?

Ehhh, yes... Dunno, will find out at some point hihihi