Solo Play

[Butterfly]

How do you get kinky all by yourself? Whether you have a partner in person and just like to explore on your own sometimes, you have a long distance partner, or you are single, how do you get kinky on your own?

What safety measures do you take?
How do you make the experience fulfilling?
What tips and tricks have you come up with to make solo play more fun?
What things just hit differently in solo play as opposed to with a partner?

 

[Jaro]

Before I even got into the online kink community I experimented a bit with solo bondage. I worked out mechanisms with a key frozen in ice so I forced myself in bondage. It worked, but it was pretty scary and in hindsight I would not recommend it.

One thing I do do solo but really hits (no pun intended) differently is spanking. Self-spanking is really not as fulfilling as being spanked by someone else!

 

[MessyAshy]

I experimented a lot in the early days, finding which messy foods are the messiest. But nowadays it's hard to muster up the energy and creativity to do stuff by myself. If someone else gives me a task, I try to do it, though! Accountability, and someone to share the adventure with helps a lot. If it's just for my own sake the lazy tends to win.