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Sharing my kinks

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I've been in a loving relationship for several years, and everything is great between us. However, I have a particular kink that I've kept to myself because I'm afraid of how my partner might react. It's something I enjoy exploring privately through reading and online communities, but I haven't felt comfortable bringing it up in our relationship.

I worry that revealing this part of myself might change how my partner sees me or create tension between us. At the same time, keeping it a secret feels like I'm not being fully honest, and it's starting to weigh on me.

I'm seeking advice on how to approach this situation. Should I open up about my kink, and if so, how can I do it in a way that fosters understanding and minimizes potential discomfort? Has anyone else navigated a similar situation, and what was your experience?
 
I sadly have nothing helpful to tell you but I always feel sad reading these kind of things because I know how much more fuller my relationships are thanks to sharing our kinks and I couldn't imagine trying to hide that part of one's self. With what ever you decide I wish you the best.
 
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