If you had to choose to give up sex (oral, anal or p in v sex) or toys, which would you give up and why?
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That's a hard one but I would definitely rather give up sex. I use toys in my daily life and have very little actual sex I do have a lot of oral and I would hate to stop that but it would be easier than giving up my hitatchi. I would give a kidney before I give up my hitatchi
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I already gave up on sex for the most part, adding the niche of where I would perform oral play seems not that much of an addition.
Toys are more reproducible, versatile, safe, cheap, and don't repulse me.
Toys are more reproducible, versatile, safe, cheap, and don't repulse me.
Yes! I feel the same way about my hitachi!
Toys just do stuff humans don't.
Toys are better, especially with another person.
Same! I already am not a fan of my right kidney too
Honestly, both. I havent had sex, so have given that up already... and I dont use toys, so have also given that up already 
Gosh I am boring
Gosh I am boring
I think I have to start with a full disclaimer: I am a toy enthusiast, specifically vibrator enthusiast. I may have a toy kink if that’s a thing.
I would rather give up sex. I generally have had poor sex experiences and so I generally don’t seek out physical intimacy anymore. I feel like with the toys, I’m more in control of what happens, if that makes sense. I also generally rely on my clit to orgasm and the partners I have had in the past have not been the most equipped to find it. I , on the other hand, can easily presss a vibe to my clit.
I would rather give up sex. I generally have had poor sex experiences and so I generally don’t seek out physical intimacy anymore. I feel like with the toys, I’m more in control of what happens, if that makes sense. I also generally rely on my clit to orgasm and the partners I have had in the past have not been the most equipped to find it. I , on the other hand, can easily presss a vibe to my clit.
For me it depends on the partner if i can say it like that. And the way i feel. If the guy knows what he is doing and i can also be myself, then i would at anytime of the day say "sex".
Even if the guy doesnt know, but is trying at least and doing his best, the answer would for me still be "sex" since there are always two people who can take over at some point.
If i have to do everything alone, then toys and not just one since i like to orgasm quite few times.
Even if the guy doesnt know, but is trying at least and doing his best, the answer would for me still be "sex" since there are always two people who can take over at some point.
If i have to do everything alone, then toys and not just one since i like to orgasm quite few times.