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Sad News - In Memory of Happy Me

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Last night I reconnected with one of my favorite members from getDare, @Cstelle. I was given the very sad news that one of the sweetest mods, and most joyful people that I knew, Happy Me, sadly passed away on Christmas morning after a long battle with a dreadful disease.

Because of her health, she had found it incredibly difficult for her to participate in life on getDare, but she regularly spoke of her time on the site, and those she had met there with love and gratitude. She was a dear friend to many of us, and for me personally, she was always a mentor and even helped train me as a mod.

Her chosen username was not ironic, she really was one of the happiest, joyful people that I knew, even through all of the hardships she had to endure on a daily basis.

I am so sad to hear of her passing, and am even sadder to have to share this news in this manor when those who knew her are also mourning the loss of their home and kink community. I wanted to make sure those who knew her, had a safe place to grieve and share memories.

Cheers to Happy Me! You have touched so many lives and will never be forgotten. We hope that you are pain free and spreading your joy with all of those around you, wherever you are.
 
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This is very sad news. Happy Me was the first person that spoke to me on getDare, we had long chats about anything and everything. I had hoped things were going better for her but hadn't heard anything in a long time.

You will be missed Happy Me.
 
She truly was a Happy Me, and always so cheerful and wonderful to everyone. Life didn't treat her the same way - and the terrible illness got in the way - but she always remained so positive and fun to interact with.

We spent quite some time together, and it's been a pleasure having her in my life - she'll be missed for sure!
 
This is very sad news indeed, I interacted with her a bit on GD many years ago, I knew she was ill though I never knew the details...she was indeed a very special person and I am very sad to hear of her passing, she's then kind of person that would fill a site like this with colour and fun, who would be incredibly thoughtful and caring, may she be resting in peace and in a happier place
 
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