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Poly, Open, ENM, Mono

What relationship style best describes you?

  • Monogomous

    Votes: 2 28.6%
  • Polyamorous

    Votes: 3 42.9%
  • Open

    Votes: 2 28.6%
  • ENM

    Votes: 1 14.3%
  • Swinger

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Casual

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    7
I'm not sure if I really understand the difference between 'Open', 'Polyamorous' and 'ENM'. All imply having relationships with more than one person and I would hope they are all done ethical.

'Casual' means casual sex but no romantic relationship?

I am not sure which one resonate with me honestly. I think I'm open to all of them so.... 'Open' ?

I personally don't see a reason why a relationship should be monogamous, so I guess I resonate least with that one.
 
I would describe myself as purely monogamous, not just because I'm old school, but I find anything else unnecessarily stressful. In my eyes, taking care of one person and maintaining the relationship is enough work for me.
 
I'm pretty open. Considering the broad spectrum of kinks, I can't necessarily accommodate all the needs of a partner, and they can't always accommodate mine. I would feel selfish if, for example, I started playing with a switch long term and I'd be like A: I can't dom you and B: you can't get dommed by anyone else because we're devoted to each other now. I think it's only fair that if I can't meet all the needs of my partner, I at least give them the freedom to meet those needs in other ways. Likewise I wouldn't want to be in a position where I have to deny a part of who I am, because that's what my kinks are.
 
I am very much capable of doing most types of relationship, providing there is no sex. But do prefer a more polly based one. I find there is certainly plenty that can be gotten from one person. But not everything can. I can understand exclusivity, but a more open dynamic is just more comfortable.
 
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