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Playing online VS mental problems

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Hey, everyone! 👋

Recently, I found out I have psychological problems, and they are what cause the 'mental breakdowns' you see me have from time to time. I finally realized I need therapy, which I'll be getting soon, and while I do handle the situation better with each breakdown I have, I want to address 2 'categories' of people with this blog: people having mental problems, and the people playing online with them.

To the people with mental problems on this site, I want to say:

HEY YOU! Stop thinking you're crazy or stupid for dealing with whatever you're facing right now! It's ok to not be perfect, struggle with something, need help, and yes, even messing up or outright failing from time to time! Life is a shitstorm, and nobody gets through it all without at least some kaka on their face. We all forgive you! The most important part is that you do! Forgive yourself! Allow yourself to be who you are! Messing up is ok, but not learning from it, blaming yourself, or even go so far as hating yourself for it isn't! And yes, I'm talking to that stupid bitch staring back at me through the mirror too! Stop being angry at yourself and allow yourself this small fuckup before getting back on the horse! Just because something is wrong with you, doesn't mean something is wrong with you! You are beautiful, even when you're ugly. It's not enough to love others, you need to love yourself too! 😘

And to the people dealing with people with mental problems:

Hey you! Do you have any idea how much of a hero you are? Always telling us we DON'T suck, trying to make us feel better when that is the last thing we want. Sorry we make things so hard on you all the time! Wish I could nominate you for that member of the year award that is currently going on, but unfortunately I can't nominate 99% of this website. Because all of you are fucking amazing! Never once did anyone on this website or its predecessor tell me "I can't deal with this" or "I've had it with you or your issues"! If anything, it seems to only make you care for us even more! And when we finally do come to our senses, we do appreciate and love you for it! Hope we tell you this from time to time! 😘

Just needed to get that off my chest! Also, I want to give a special shoutout to my usual victims: the guy so bloated by his ego he wants a girl to destroy it, the cutest doggie in the world that bites off more than he can chew, some guy who loves to shower me with both affection and chocolate sauce, that monster that manipulates a whole marketing campaign to get women to go out shopping in their jemmies, and a loving mommy. God, there's a lot of you! And you are all amazing! Never ever ever change! I will never stop praying you get everything you want in life. This site, no this world needs you! ❤️
 
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I am sorry you have to go through this, but everything you said is very true.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having mental problems, having a breakdown, spiraling or being insecure. And these are just examples. Whatever you or whoever else are going through, it happens. And it's never an issue.

From the Dom side, we are always there to catch you. To build you back up after we put you down. You can always talk to us and we will reassure you with whatever you need.

And for the Doms, the same goes for you. Not only subs drop or can have problems. Doms can have problems too, and there is nothing wrong with talking to your sub about it. They will catch you too. We usually give aftercare, but believe me your sub can do the same for you.

And together, both of you will come out stronger on the other side.

And for the sweet little demon who wrote this amazing text, lots of cuddles and head pats 😋
 
I've fallen so many times, and you've always been there to help me get back up. You've always listened to me. You even created a thread with a system that accommodates my mistakes with Denial and all my preferences.
Why would I let you feel bad?
You make mistakes like everyone else, but the important thing is that you accept them and are looking for ways to fix them.
You're a wonderful person, and I love you so much, don't forget that.
 
goonpup said:
You even created a thread with a system that accommodates my mistakes with Denial and all my preferences.
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I'm VERY proud of that thread. Sorry the site it was on disappeared before you could fail, eh I mean finish. That thread combined love and creativity.

Dungeonmaster said:
And for the Doms, the same goes for you. Not only subs drop or can have problems. Doms can have problems too
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Oh yes, that is my main trigger. "I'm evil" when I hurt a sub's feelings or maybe went too far. I hate myself so much if that happens! At least you should be immune to that one!
 
SweetNSpicy said:
I'm VERY proud of that thread. Sorry the site it was on disappeared before you could fail, eh I mean finish. That thread combined love and creativity.
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That thread was awesome and you did such a great job with it. It showed what kind of person you are. I would have loved to see the conclusion.
SweetNSpicy said:
Oh yes, that is my main trigger. "I'm evil" when I hurt a sub's feelings or maybe went too far. I hate myself so much if that happens! At least you should be immune to that one!
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Believe me, that happens to all of us. It is just how things go sometimes. It does not mean that you are evil. It does not mean that you are a bad person. You catch your sub afterwards and care for them and you both get back on your feet. And I know you would do that.
 
He was about to give up when gD died, else we would have revived it here. But that thread counted on that. Maybe I need a thread where the goal is to have me act like a bitch lol.

My subs actually never needed my aftercare! They'd be like "Thanks, miss! Can I go now? I'm hungry!" I like my men like I like my hot sauce: Extra Strong. 💪👏
 
Well, sorry for commenting on my own blog! You hurt my feelings, I'm hyperemotional 😭😭😭, I think I might leave the site! 🤪 I blame you for thirst! (Oh no, wrong thread!)

Ah well, at least I can poke fun at my issues now. 🏆 You just unlocked a new trophy.
 
Yay a trophy. I'll put that in the case, right next to the golden cookie.
Let me think for a moment, I'll give you an overcomplicated solution for that problem. Or was it a wish I should corrupt? Damn, I'm confused. Either way, you are loved!
 
Thanks! I knew that even earlier this week while I was trying very hard to fuck your mood up. 😅

It was the "Blame person above for a overcorrupted solution to a simple wish VS transgender AI" thread.
 
SweetNSpicy said:
"I'm evil" when I hurt a sub's feelings or maybe went too far. I hate myself so much if that happens! At least you should be immune to that one!
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YOu have never hurted me cutie

Dungeonmaster said:
That thread was awesome and you did such a great job with it. It showed what kind of person you are. I would have loved to see the conclusion.
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The conclusion was that I was broken and needed to stop hahaha. It hasn't got a endid as gd died, but it was getting its ending, I couldn't manage more. Maybe one day I'll ask for another thread hehe


Anyway
SWEET, REMEMBER THIS
WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!!
 
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