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Overdue advice

MessyAshy

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Joined
Apr 11, 2025
Location
Belgium
Gender
Male
Pride
Bisexual Bisexual
What is one piece of advice you wish you could give to your 16 year old self?
 
This isn't kinky at all but I would want my 16 year old self to know that I deserve to be happy and that nobody else is going to do that for me. I have to be the one to take the steps to make myself happy.
 
Don't worry so much what other people think of you. Also don't worry about trying to fit in and conform.. It's okay to be different!
 
Invest in bitcoin.
Honestly, any other advice I could give is just too complicated, and past-me would likely not come to the understanding I have now.
 
Invest in bitcoin.
Honestly, any other advice I could give is just too complicated, and past-me would likely not come to the understanding I have now.
That’s the best advice I’ve seen yet, my 16 year old self would have seriously wondered what the hell Bitcoin was though, I was still 3 years away from my first experience of seeing the internet.
 
I would tell myself that I need to focus on what makes me happy and comfortable. Trying to please everyone else at the expense of myself will only tear me apart and leave me feeling hollow and empty. That it is ok who I am because I am awesome and there are spectacular people who will see that and be happy to know the real me.
 
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