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Today was the poopy cherry on an already bad week. I am struggling mentally as everything professionally is so damn difficult, everything is negative and I am mentally worn out by it. It doesnt help that I am also tired of the team I am working in.

Hoping to get some space tonight so that I can hopefully feel better
 
Saturday was awful and my moods were crazy grouchy, I ended up sleeping most of the day in the end

Sunday was better and I got a few jobs done, yay!
 
Rainy13 said:
I hate my brain. I hate being so stupid. I’m so tired of not being able to do such a basic thing to the point of ruining everything I’ve worked for. I’m so tired of this now 😖
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You are not stupid, you are likely being worked hard and are tired. Be kind to yourself, and be patient with yourself 🫂
 
Feeling a bit dejected and despondent at the moment, with giving out dares by request and not receiving many acknowledgements that I have created it and only 1 (excellent) report so far. Also feel a bit invisible due to having no responses to any messenger threads I have posted in recently, and a bit invisible unless someone wants something from me. I know that probably isnt true, but its how my mind is processing it at the moment annoyingly.

Meh, roll on tomorrow.
 
Guv'nor said:
Feeling a bit dejected and despondent at the moment, with giving out dares by request and not receiving many acknowledgements that I have created it and only 1 (excellent) report so far. Also feel a bit invisible due to having no responses to any messenger threads I have posted in recently, and a bit invisible unless someone wants something from me. I know that probably isnt true, but its how my mind is processing it at the moment annoyingly.

Meh, roll on tomorrow.
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I can completely understand the frustration of not getting reports from people. It is one of my biggest deterrents for giving out anything custom.

I am sorry you are feeling that way. Our minds can really play mean tricks on us. Please know that you are valued <3
 
Butterfly said:
I can completely understand the frustration of not getting reports from people. It is one of my biggest deterrents for giving out anything custom.

I am sorry you are feeling that way. Our minds can really play mean tricks on us. Please know that you are valued <3
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Thank you! It is definitely the worst part of it, but when it goes well it is brilliant. Its a double edged sword sadly

Thank you, minds can suck at times. Thank you, you are very kind and valued too ❤️
 
Rainy13 said:
I’m home after an awful night shift, I feel so unsupported and used and alone and bad. I’ve never felt so bad after a shift. I love my job but right now I just don’t want to go back.
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I am so sorry lovely. You deserve to be treated way better than that. Just please know that you make a difference every single day, even on the bad days.
 
I struggle with this everyday of my life. No matter what I do it's never right. The only reason I wear female clothes is because I don't have a female in my life and I probably won't either. I have been told by females at bars that I would be better off committing s**cide
 
Lately I've been feeling... I guess stretched thin? Like I've had to expend too much of myself and there's not enough of me for where I'm needed. I'm constantly worn out and I think part of it is needing to be at work for so much time.

Sometimes I use kink as a coping mechanism, other times because I just genuinely happen to enjoy it. But at the end of the day, I just wish I felt rested when I woke up in the morning. :(
 
IdaKiaria said:
Lately I've been feeling... I guess stretched thin? Like I've had to expend too much of myself and there's not enough of me for where I'm needed. I'm constantly worn out and I think part of it is needing to be at work for so much time.

Sometimes I use kink as a coping mechanism, other times because I just genuinely happen to enjoy it. But at the end of the day, I just wish I felt rested when I woke up in the morning. :(
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I can totally relate! Sometimes it’s really hard to prioritize sleep and even when we try to sleep we can’t. Hang in there!
 
IdaKiaria said:
Lately I've been feeling... I guess stretched thin? Like I've had to expend too much of myself and there's not enough of me for where I'm needed. I'm constantly worn out and I think part of it is needing to be at work for so much time.

Sometimes I use kink as a coping mechanism, other times because I just genuinely happen to enjoy it. But at the end of the day, I just wish I felt rested when I woke up in the morning. :(
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It sounds like you are experiencing burnout IdaKiaria. Burnout can feel like a slog or like you are pushing away a boulder that doesn't budge. I completely understand the draw of using kink as a way to escape, and was literally just talking to another about this, but without self-care on top of kink, balance is at risk.

Is it realistic for you to take a brief leave from work to help reset your energy?

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