Honorifics

[Butterfly]

What honorifics have you used in the past?
What are your favorites or least favorites to be called? or to call your partner?
Are any honorifics really special to you? Why?
Is there any honorifics that you refuse to use? Why?

 

[The Brat Princess]

Princess has most certainly become my most favorite after fighting it for a while lol. It suits my switching perfectly. It can be used in a respectful and honoring way and yet when flipping to subby space it can have the perfect level of humilitating and demeaning that speaks to my soul... eeppp I really appreciate how it works well in both dynamics, just like me (: its perfect.

Honorifics for me do hold an important place, I feel they are something that is a sign of the bound built. As a result of that I see it as a personal choice within which are used.

 

[Jaro]

Personally I really do like Mistress. I know you don't so I adress you as Miss or Princess, which are also good.

I've also used Goddess in the past, which I really liked.

I really do like using honorifics and I like the more formal and worshippy sounding ones.

 

[baloo]

I can work with pretty much any subby honorific, I like degradation so that helps a lot. What I cannot stand is honorifics for me as a dominant, that just doesn't work for me at all.

 

[Guv'nor]

What honorifics have you used in the past?
Sir, Master, Guv

What are your favorites or least favorites to be called? or to call your partner?
Favourite: Sir or Guv
Least: Master

Are any honorifics really special to you? Why?
Guv, as it is the name I chose

Is there any honorifics that you refuse to use? Why?
Yes. Dont call me Dom, as I know my role and it seems to casual (even for me). Dont use any military rank names, or boss, as I am neither of those things. God/Daddy, I am definitely neither of those things and Daddy brings back memories of a previous relationship that I sometimes struggle with.

 

[Butterfly]

What honorifics have you used in the past?

Sir and Daddy are my go tos for my D
I have been called Princess, Goddess, Miss, Mistress, Queen and Ruler

What are your favorites or least favorites to be called? or to call your partner?

Sir is the one I use the most

Are any honorifics really special to you? Why?

Daddy is super special to me. Only a few get called that.

Is there any honorifics that you refuse to use? Why?

Master makes me feel icky

 

[Rainy13]

What honorifics have you used in the past?

Sir

What are your favorites or least favorites to be called? or to call your partner?

I like Sir a lot for Deschut, it’s very fun. I’m not keen on daddy and Master feels a bit much/ hard to feel serious with it maybe one day it will feel more appropriate but for now kinda shuts my sub brain off.

Are any honorifics really special to you? Why?
Is there any honorifics that you refuse to use? Why?

I really love ‘scuba Steve’ - an utterly ridiculous and unrelated honourific suggested in a bratty joke meme on a list of honourifics - I opted for the most ridiculous one and have a lot of fun generating consequences when I drop it in (or construct a visual image using Deschut as a basis to create this alter ego - ) - maybe I like the name less than I enjoy the consequences for using it…

But more seriously I LOVE using Deschuts proper honourific of Sir. Makes me feel all kinds of subby fuzzy to have him as my Sir and to recognise that.

I think I’ll never use daddy - just feels wrong for me personally

Potentially Master may be something that feels appropriate but just feels too self important that currently I struggle to take that one seriously.

 

[LittleBear]

What honorifics have you used in the past?

Miss, Mommy, Mistress, Goddess and Big Bear

What are your favorites or least favorites to be called? or to call your partner?

Miss or Mommy are probably my favourite

Are any honorifics really special to you? Why?

Mommy is really special to me. It just feels like someone is really caring for me. That's where big bear came from. She was uncomfortable with being Mommy but it helped me feel the comforting feeling

Is there any honorifics that you refuse to use? Why?

I can't think of anything specific but anything too degrading I think I'd have to pass on. It's just not me

 

[SilkAndSour]

What honorifics have you used in the past?
Master or Daddy, i always thought that it would be Sir, but it just doesnt feel as sweet as the other two.

I like to be called Owner (ie of a Puppy), or Mommy, Miss, Ma'am

What are your favorites or least favorites to be called? or to call your partner?
Just Dom feels weird
Anything with God*ess, Queen/King, Domme..

Are any honorifics really special to you? Why?
I like Master/Daddy cos it makes me feel safe and comfortable. Im not necessarily a little, but just being taken care of while taking my likes into aspect such as humiliation and degradation is for me a huge turn on, way to trust, and give up my control.

I like to be called Owner (ie of a Puppy), or Mommy - not sure why but probably cos i like to care about people even in real life and am very empathetic, although i also like to give out punishments, especially embarassing ones


Is there any honorifics that you refuse to use? Why?
(No offense to anyone that does like this, this is just my opinion)
Anything with God*ess, Queen/King, Domme..

Although im quite new in the Kinky lifestyle, i think that a Title needs to be deserved and earned which ever it is. Exactly out of this reason i dont like to be called Domme. Rather something that the sub feels comfortable with. This is just me, but i also dont like to be asked how someone should call me without any prior communication. How can i say to someone to call me Mommy or Owner and they are not even into it, or our Kinks dont even allign.

God*ess, Queen/King and similar remind me of pay to play, which is in my opinion the worst kind especially if you dont even warn people about it.

Just wanted to throw my 5 cents out after little Bear thankfully opened this back up

 

[fieldman]

I like Sir. Straightforward and fits pretty much any situation fluidly and smoothly.

Master does none of those things.

Daddy gives me the ick. Nothing against DDlg at all, but that specific title just doesn't work for me regardless of what we're up to.