FOUND: One MIA Butterfly

Hi friends,

It has been a HOT minute since I was last here and I apologize for that. Life has been HARD and overwhelming and I have been super struggling a lot of the time. This site is a passion project of mine and honestly, I had not one ounce to spare to give to it, and that makes me sad. Because of this, the site has gone into hibernation mode.

So what has had me MIA?

My dad has been really sick since July and it has been a roller coaster. He has almost died multiple times. One day he is ok, and the next he is back in the ICU. We never know which way things will go. The ups and downs, making decisions, family drama ... the mental/emotional load has been taking a major toll.

I also have been dealing with some of my own medical things and will be having a surgery right next to my brain in January. This is good news, but still a bit scary. There are some other things too, but they are being managed.

Since neither of these major stresses are going to be resolved anytime soon, I really would like to try and put more time and energy into Kinky Wonderland. This place means so much to me. Kink means so much to me. Plus .... I might have somebody new in my life to explore the site with, and that is exciting (more details to come soon).

I thank each and every one of you who are reading this right now, thank you for not jumping ship. I hope you will stick around and help the site come out of hibernation.

Now .... what can we do to awaken the site?

 

[Azyliux]

Sorry to hear that life has been tough on you. And while you don’t see your stresses going away soon, I hope you find ways to reduce their toll on your life and that things get easier.

I admit I haven’t checked in here myself for a long time. I have been searching around for a vibrant and healthy kink community for a while now without much luck. I’m active in a few but none feels quite right or has the critical mass to bring me back on a daily basis. I would really love to see this site reawaken and become the vibrant place I think it could be and I’m sure you dream of.

I wish you the best of luck!

 

[Butterfly]

Sorry to hear that life has been tough on you. And while you don’t see your stresses going away soon, I hope you find ways to reduce their toll on your life and that things get easier.

I admit I haven’t checked in here myself for a long time. I have been searching around for a vibrant and healthy kink community for a while now without much luck. I’m active in a few but none feels quite right or has the critical mass to bring me back on a daily basis. I would really love to see this site reawaken and become the vibrant place I think it could be and I’m sure you dream of.

I wish you the best of luck!

Thank you so much. I am working on finding ways to lessen the stress and I do have a great therapist and doctor who have been super helpful.

I am glad to see you pop back in. It took me years and years to find a community that felt like home. Unfortunately that changed over the last few years, so I would love to see this become that community for both you, and I.