Fascinated by public play, but worried I might go too far...

For the last few years I've been fascinated by public play, starting with all the usual stuff, going commando, wearing panties, butt-plugs and so on.

I explored this on another site with a mistress who pushed it more into public humiliation, asking people for embarrassing things, doing or wearing embarrassing things, which though interesting I ultimately found unfulfilling.

However, thanks to the community here and on gD I managed to start pushing myself more into what I was interested in - hidden and semi public play: stripping in my car, driving whilst naked, getting naked in the woods, and one very memorable night in a hotel where one person had me edging in the stairwell, whilst another took me on a naked tour round the stairwell, halls and elevator...

The thought of that last one always gets me turned on, but I'm worried that one day this will get me into trouble. That hotel, though it was very early in the morning, contained some of my colleagues. Driving naked in my local area, someone I know may see me.

Though the risk is part of the rush, and I'm sure I secretly hope that I'll be found by someone (ideally female!) who is very much into it and goes alone with it, I know that's very much a fantasy and the reality is that a naked guy is much more likely to be labelled a pervert, predator, etc. I really don't want to be that guy, but I fear that horny brain is pushing me more towards that possibility.

I'm trying to limit myself to less risky public stuff, and playing online, but I know that the next opportunity I have to push things again (solo hotel stay, home alone overnight) I'll likely be looking to get someone to push me further.

 

[Bareme]

Some helps:

Be mindful of cameras

Keep a pair of sweats in a small backpack

If caught, say you lost a bet

Scout low traffic places - Walmart early am, same for groceries and gas station. Start by opening the stall door, then escalate to taking pics in a sink mirror.

 

[Csuju]

Scout low traffic places - Walmart early am, same for groceries and gas station. Start by opening the stall door, then escalate to taking pics in a sink mirror.

Thanks, I do a lot of these already, but it's good for a reminder.

One thing I have done twice already is stand outside a public toilet block at a nearby park wearing nothing but lingerie. Very scary, and it was during the daytime, but I already knew it was very quiet at that time, and it was easy to duck back into the men's if I had to. Thankfully no one was about for the 30 secs I was out there.

 

[Butterfly]

Maybe you should try a kink event or play party in your area. This might feel like exhibitionism without as much of the risk?

The one thing that I worry about with these types of risks is involving people who don't consent to seeing you naked. Especially in the hotel scenario. Did you consider that they might have cameras in the stairwells?

 

[Csuju]

Maybe you should try a kink event or play party in your area. This might feel like exhibitionism without as much of the risk?

This is something I've been thinking about, though not done - I should look again, though the time I have free to play doesn't tend to line up with events and parties.

Did you consider that they might have cameras in the stairwells?

I did, thankfully it was a very old hotel which had almost no CCTV.

 

[GetdareTEO]

I know that grey zone very well! Although I’m not that concerned about “going too far”, on the contrary, I’d say that I’m impressed every time I push myself to something I would have never thought I would ever dare to do before!

However yes, there are always things to consider.

Cameras: Yes, they are everywhere nowadays I try to be careful, and this is definitely one of the things that still keep me from doing a lot of extremely risky public nudity dares, but it’s mostly to stay out of legal trouble, I’m not so worried about somebody seeing the recordings.

Legal trouble: This is the primary concern for me in all public nudity dares. That’s why I’m fairly cautious with cameras, and will not actively include strangers on purpose (in other words, I will keep pushing my risk of accidentally getting caught, but never engage with strangers on purpose (unless it’s a stranger from KW, who found out that I live in the capital of Denmark, and wants (consent) to be in on the dare ).

Non-consenting strangers: Almost every public dare involves some risk of being seen by strangers who didn’t agree to that, and if they involve public nudity, it comes with the risk of them seeing that too. That is pretty much inevitable for exhibitionists/thrill seekers like us. What I suggest is always be mindful of the impression your dare would make on a stranger, if you DO get caught.

(Anecdote: I did get caught jerking off nude under a street light when I was young, fortunately the couple passing on bikes didn’t sound too traumatized).

I would say stick to very late at night for your wildest adventures, and if any adventure, night or day, involves nudity - make it as little threatening/traumatizing for potential witnesses as possible!
For me, personally, that means that I focus on the NUDITY ITSELF (potentially documented for my online fans ), but not sexual tasks like masturbation or even boners (unless explicitly insisted on by whoever gave me the dare). In the hopes that someone potentially catching a glimpse of me will be less upset by me quietly walking by nude on the pavement on the other side of a large road, than maniacally jerking off with a carrot up my behind while gagged and tied to a bus stop. I even think public nudity in itself is technically legal here (although it requires it not to offend anyone, and some people do get offended easily).

Key takeaway: Always be mindful of your surroundings and how your appearance and behavior might influence them. For their sake more than your own

(Hopefully this won’t offend anyone public nudity and exhibitionism isn’t the easiest kink to navigate).