Edge Play

[Butterfly]

First, let me define what I mean by edge play:

Edge play is not the same as edging. Edge play is about pushing psychological and physical limits. Taking risks. Examples can include: rough body play, consensual non consent, gun play, knife play, needles, water sports, scat, rainbow play (vomit), breath play, rape and kidnapping play, interrogation, mind fucks, fear play and blackmail.

Questions:
1. What types of edge play have you engaged in?
2. What types of edge play do you want to engage in?
3. What types of edge play do you like to fantasize about, but are not likely to engage in for real?
4. How do you define the line between fantasy and reality when it comes to edge play?
5. Do you have a different process when it comes to negotiation or communication for an edge play scene?
6. Do you ever feel judged for your interest in certain type of edge play kinks?

 

[Jaro]

I have done blackmail with you in the past. That was pretty extreme and scary. However I knew I could trust you and we know each other very well so I still think it was pretty safe.
I'm happy I have experienced that but I'm also happy we no longer do it.

Another thing I remember that was really extreme was when I had to roll naked in my own poop. That was so much worse than I even imagined it to be!
Again, still glad to have done it but never want to do it again.

 

[Thunderfly]

I have done some high risk play.
1911 with a full magazine but not a around in the chamber. But my finger was still on the trigger. I did like it but If I ever do it again I would prefer the magazine to be empty.
Water sports, yes lots.
Rape role play, one time with a ex, she was just kink in the bedroom. It didn't go well. We ended up rolling on the floor laughing our asses off.
But one thing I don't and will not do again if full orgasm programming, yes it's great. But it's high risk and you shouldn't underestimate the power. Yes it's great you can make your Sub orgasm just by vocal commands. But it's the most dangerous thing you can do with a sub in my mind. I could say more but maybe in a different story.