Likes: Humiliation- Probably my favorite for its versatility. It encompasses so many other kinks- crossdressing, bodywriting, messy, exposure, so many more relate to this category)
Orgasm control- I love the idea of someone else having power of my pleasure, and possibly using this against me to make do things I wouldn't ever do otherwise.
Messy- Love the humiliation aspect and the different textures and temperatures and sensations. This is also one of my favorite to give as a Dom I love the visual and seeing the reactions.
Cum play- Another that relates to humiliation, but I like being forced to cum in unusual ways and play with it, wear it, eat it.
Disgusting- I have to be in the right mood but again the humiliation aspect.
Pee- Wetting clothes or peeing on self or possibly being peed on is degrading and hot.
Games/bets/challenges- I'm super competitive and love making wagers and always play to win even if I am mostly sub. Having to suffer consequences for losses is added humiliation. I love the thrill of high stakes risks but legitimately hate losing.
Trying new things- I'm adventursome and love new ideas, the status quo is boring.
Dislikes: Public- The risk of involving others without their consent is problematic for me. Hidden public with low chance of being caught is okay in the right situations and even exciting, but it's a fine line.
Corner time- It's just boring to me. I'm very efficient in managing my time and am generally impatient, so it's not hot at all, just annoying.
Shaving- I'm a bit hypocritical on this one because I prefer my ladies to be shaved, lol. I'm a gorilla in my natural state, and actually think I probably look better shaved but just hate the process of actually doing it, and the itchyness as it returns.
Exposure- I like the humiliation aspect, but fear the social consequences.
Drinking pee- Just gross, and not in a way that turns me on, but can be hot if ordered to do so by someone I really like.
Anal- I've tried, seems everyone likes this, but it's just painful and uncomfortable to me, I've tried everything because it seems most Dommes really like this, but...I can't take much and I don't get anything out of it.
Forced bi- I'm not at all attracted to, or submissive, to guys. It is sort of the ultimate humiliation to me though, so I'm open to it for the right person.
Writing lines- See corner time above and add in the fact that my handwriting is notoroiously atrocious.
Pics/cam- I put this as a dislike, but I actually kind of enjoy it with someone I know and trust, but for random short-term encounters it's more like the exposure kink listed above. That said, I've found I'm more interested in it lately.
Blackmail- I've been really curious about this one lately, so putting it as a "dislike," but it's sort of like public, there is a fine line...I have to be able to trust the person to respect my limits but at the same time I would want the fear of exposure to be real, it seems an impossible balance to strike.
Limits: Illegal- Should be obvious- I'm not willing to risk going to jail and/or ruining my vanilla life. Something involving jaywalking, speeding, etc is probably fine...even public nudity with very low chance of being caught, but running naked through downtown is a hard no.
Permanent/long term harm- No tatoos, piercings, brandings, serious injuries, etc.
Financial- To each their own, but I'm not paying you...If we develop a real relationship then sure, I'll buy you birthday gifts, take you to dinner etc just like any relationship, but the transactional aspect of femdom or pay to play relationship just ruins the whole dynamic for me.
Vomit- See above how I like disgusting? There are degrees, this crosses the line.
Scat- Same as vomit. That said, I might be willing to slightly push this one, but not in the form of eating or anything.
Pee hole insertions aka sounding- I don't trust myself enough to do this without causing serious harm, so...nope.
Blood- I'm not squeamish about blood and am open to pushing this one a little if occurs naturally through scratching or spanking or whatever in small amounts, but...I'm not intentionally cutting myself or others.
Needles- I'm fine with this in a medical setting, but unless you're an actual medical professional....nope.
Involving others without consent- Shouldn't have to be said, but....
People i know irl finding out- I like to keep my worlds separate.
Orgasm control- I love the idea of someone else having power of my pleasure, and possibly using this against me to make do things I wouldn't ever do otherwise.
Messy- Love the humiliation aspect and the different textures and temperatures and sensations. This is also one of my favorite to give as a Dom I love the visual and seeing the reactions.
Cum play- Another that relates to humiliation, but I like being forced to cum in unusual ways and play with it, wear it, eat it.
Disgusting- I have to be in the right mood but again the humiliation aspect.
Pee- Wetting clothes or peeing on self or possibly being peed on is degrading and hot.
Games/bets/challenges- I'm super competitive and love making wagers and always play to win even if I am mostly sub. Having to suffer consequences for losses is added humiliation. I love the thrill of high stakes risks but legitimately hate losing.
Trying new things- I'm adventursome and love new ideas, the status quo is boring.
Dislikes: Public- The risk of involving others without their consent is problematic for me. Hidden public with low chance of being caught is okay in the right situations and even exciting, but it's a fine line.
Corner time- It's just boring to me. I'm very efficient in managing my time and am generally impatient, so it's not hot at all, just annoying.
Shaving- I'm a bit hypocritical on this one because I prefer my ladies to be shaved, lol. I'm a gorilla in my natural state, and actually think I probably look better shaved but just hate the process of actually doing it, and the itchyness as it returns.
Exposure- I like the humiliation aspect, but fear the social consequences.
Drinking pee- Just gross, and not in a way that turns me on, but can be hot if ordered to do so by someone I really like.
Anal- I've tried, seems everyone likes this, but it's just painful and uncomfortable to me, I've tried everything because it seems most Dommes really like this, but...I can't take much and I don't get anything out of it.
Forced bi- I'm not at all attracted to, or submissive, to guys. It is sort of the ultimate humiliation to me though, so I'm open to it for the right person.
Writing lines- See corner time above and add in the fact that my handwriting is notoroiously atrocious.
Pics/cam- I put this as a dislike, but I actually kind of enjoy it with someone I know and trust, but for random short-term encounters it's more like the exposure kink listed above. That said, I've found I'm more interested in it lately.
Blackmail- I've been really curious about this one lately, so putting it as a "dislike," but it's sort of like public, there is a fine line...I have to be able to trust the person to respect my limits but at the same time I would want the fear of exposure to be real, it seems an impossible balance to strike.
Limits: Illegal- Should be obvious- I'm not willing to risk going to jail and/or ruining my vanilla life. Something involving jaywalking, speeding, etc is probably fine...even public nudity with very low chance of being caught, but running naked through downtown is a hard no.
Permanent/long term harm- No tatoos, piercings, brandings, serious injuries, etc.
Financial- To each their own, but I'm not paying you...If we develop a real relationship then sure, I'll buy you birthday gifts, take you to dinner etc just like any relationship, but the transactional aspect of femdom or pay to play relationship just ruins the whole dynamic for me.
Vomit- See above how I like disgusting? There are degrees, this crosses the line.
Scat- Same as vomit. That said, I might be willing to slightly push this one, but not in the form of eating or anything.
Pee hole insertions aka sounding- I don't trust myself enough to do this without causing serious harm, so...nope.
Blood- I'm not squeamish about blood and am open to pushing this one a little if occurs naturally through scratching or spanking or whatever in small amounts, but...I'm not intentionally cutting myself or others.
Needles- I'm fine with this in a medical setting, but unless you're an actual medical professional....nope.
Involving others without consent- Shouldn't have to be said, but....
People i know irl finding out- I like to keep my worlds separate.