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Cumming without a vibrator

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I can count on one hand the number of times that I have cum without a vibrator or some sort of toy on my clit. My very first orgasm was with a vibrator and I fell in love with it. This is fine for me, the vibe gets the job really quickly. But I do feel like I am letting my partners down a bit? I know that a lot of woman aren't able to cum without clit stimulation but they can still use their hands and get the job done. How would you feel in this situation?
 
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I can count on one hand the number of times that I have cum without a vibrator or some sort of toy on my clit. My very first orgasm was with a vibrator and I fell in love with it. This is fine for me, the vibe gets the job really quickly. But I do feel like I am letting my partners down a bit? I know that a lot of woman aren't able to cum without clit stimulation but they can still use their hands and get the job done. How would you feel in this situation?
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I use a vibe most of the time as well, I have done it without for a long time as well.. I don't see why it would be letting your partner down. Generally speaking it should be fun for both sides, and let vibes be a great tool for that. You could tall about it with any possible partners you might have to see how you could do it without if you feel it's necessary. Maybe you could try getting close with the vibe, and doing the last bit by hand? But I just think generally vibes are a great tool with a wide range of use. I would just ask to use the vibe at least in som way, because it just makes it more pleasurable for me. But ofcourse if the partner really has a problem with this, you could always talk about it.
 
On average, whether I'm using a vibrator or my hand, it takes me at least an hour to orgasm. I've always been kind of self-conscious about that, although I'm personally a virgin and have never had any sexual partners to worry about disappointing. The way I see it, though, it's kind of a blessing in disguise. If someday I ever do have sex, my partner can look forward to enjoying several rounds. 😆

If you feel like experimenting, I would suggest trying maybe a butt plug or something. I've personally found that adding a bit of anal stimulation while I'm masturbating can help me orgasm much faster than I would normally.

Either way, there's no need to feel bad about it. We all have different needs.
 
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