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Comparison: Denial and Ruined Orgasms

barefootsub

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I’ll start by saying I am not a fan of denial. I cum daily, but will mix in some ruined orgasms to miss that pleasure. I have thought about doing a week (or more) of only ruins, but wanted to get some info from my kinky friends first. Please add more details to your answers if you wish, but I tried to make the questions easy to answer.


1. On a scale of 1-100, rate your typical orgasm (not after denial or ruins).
2. Would you prefer experiencing a week of denial or a week of one ruined orgasm per day?
3. What is the longest period you have been denied from orgasm?
4. Did you still touch yourself and play during your denial?
5. What is the highest amount of ruined orgasms you have had in a row between having full orgasms?
6. How long was it in between full orgasms?
7. How do you feel when you’re in denial?
8. How do you feel after a ruined orgasm?
9. On a scale from 1-100, rate your orgasm after a period of denial. State how long you were in denial for this rating.
10. On a scale from 1-100, rate your full orgasm after a period of ruined orgasms. State how long this period was and how many consecutive ruined orgasms you had.



Thank you!
 
I usually focus more on edging because I don't function well when I'm denied for long periods, but I do short term denial with edges and ruins.

1. On a scale of 1-100, rate your typical orgasm (not after denial or ruins).

After experiencing orgasms after 1000+ edges I'd rate the average orgasm 60

2. Would you prefer experiencing a week of denial or a week of one ruined orgasm per day?

I would prefer a week of denial over daily ruins.

3. What is the longest period you have been denied from orgasm?

11 days not counting ruins, 3 counting ruins

4. Did you still touch yourself and play during your denial?

Yes, I usually edge a lot when I'm denied. If I can't edge I still prefer being able to touch most of the time. I get bored if I can't touch.

5. What is the highest amount of ruined orgasms you have had in a row between having full orgasms?

The most was 3 after nearly a week of edging and denial.

6. How long was it in between full orgasms?

11 days

7. How do you feel when you’re in denial?

Horny most of the time, I really can't think of much else when I'm denied.

8. How do you feel after a ruined orgasm?

Frustrated, sometimes they affect my mood really badly. I really don't enjoy them which is why I usually use them as a punishment.

9. On a scale from 1-100, rate your orgasm after a period of denial. State how long you were in denial for this rating.

After 2-3 days it's at 75, if I also edge somewhere between 20-50 times it goes up to 80-85, anything above that is definitely 100. It usually takes 2-3 orgasms before it goes down again if I really edge a lot and stay denied for longer, and also takes longer for everything to feel normal again/to get less horny.

10. On a scale from 1-100, rate your full orgasm after a period of ruined orgasms. State how long this period was and how many consecutive ruined orgasms you had.

20 after 3-4 days without any orgasms before 3 ruins.
 
1. On a scale of 1-100, rate your typical orgasm (not after denial or ruins).

60...I would say most orgasms by masterbation are about this. Through sex, much higher, maybe 80.

2. Would you prefer experiencing a week of denial or a week of one ruined orgasm per day?

A week of denial

3. What is the longest period you have been denied from orgasm?

10 weeks

4. Did you still touch yourself and play during your denial?

yes, including edging. Find nl touch very difficult

5. What is the highest amount of ruined orgasms you have had in a row between having full orgasms?

not sure, maybe 10

6. How long was it in between full orgasms?

probably a few weeks but wasn't counting

7. How do you feel when you’re in denial?

usually the longer it's been, the hornier and more daring/willing to test limits I get

8. How do you feel after a ruined orgasm?

it can reduce the horniness of denial. I know for some it makes it worse.

9. On a scale from 1-100, rate your orgasm after a period of denial. State how long you were in denial for this rating.

probably up to 70...but often no stronger than without denial

10. On a scale from 1-100, rate your full orgasm after a period of ruined orgasms. State how long this period was and how many consecutive ruined orgasms you had.

I think probably less intense maybe 40-50 but not really tested this
 
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