CarnalSensuality
Member
- Role
- Switch, sub, slave, Dom, Top, Lover, masseuse, roper/ropee, bondage dummy, bonder... most roles, really.
Feel free to call me Carnal, or if You're feeling subby, "Sir". CS in messages is perfectly cromulent.
Well, I jumped into the deep end and started posting and.. now that it's been a week I feel like I should introduce myself. Though.. no idea what to say.
I've been around the kink scene since I first tasted freedom when I started attending college. But I've rarely been _in_ the kink scene. There were 2 years when a welcoming group kept me in and around all our local events, but several events changed that dynamic and I tried exploring elsewhere. I have come across some very cool people in several states, but things usually go sour as they move on with their lives and I'm no longer local. Erotica, primarily literotica.com, tied-and-true-tales.com (now only archived), and one early Tumblr, have kept the dream alive as I go through another dry spell.
It was easy for me to be a sub at the beginning, and with the right encouragement it can be very, VERY easy for me to feel subby even now. I am being more surprised by when and how my Dom-ness suddenly arrives at the party, and not at all sorry - as long as I'm around a switch or someone who at least doesn't mind an unexpected surprise.
I've always idealized being a switch - at first it was so both parts could come out and, literally, play. But since then I realize I am looking for someone(s) with whom I can be fully myself, where we can negotiate - in the moment when necessary - and flow through perhaps ALL aspects of D/S, B/D, S/M, and T/s as our energies take us. For example: a scene might start with one Dom/Domme, flip to the other, have us mutually primal, and end up somewhere completely different. It is fun - and a little scary - to consider considering the limited success I've had with 'normal' kinky relations
I appreciate clarity, negotiations, and spontaneity. I won't fault You for wanting to communicate, for being specific, even if something seems pedantic or repeated.
I am willing and able to be a Service Top or bottom, perhaps for one scene, perhaps as a way to start negotiating and feel out potential dynamics.
Otherwise, I have a ton of interests and at least some skills. I'm decent with impact play - wide varieties, most prefer my hands or a switch. I'll need to practice to bring my rope skills back up. I do some great massages - Swedish or therapeutic. I'm willing to help You move, get that thing off the top shelf, or help You open a can of pickles
Just ask.
Also: always looking to receive a really solid thumpy flogging.
Well, I jumped into the deep end and started posting and.. now that it's been a week I feel like I should introduce myself. Though.. no idea what to say.
I've been around the kink scene since I first tasted freedom when I started attending college. But I've rarely been _in_ the kink scene. There were 2 years when a welcoming group kept me in and around all our local events, but several events changed that dynamic and I tried exploring elsewhere. I have come across some very cool people in several states, but things usually go sour as they move on with their lives and I'm no longer local. Erotica, primarily literotica.com, tied-and-true-tales.com (now only archived), and one early Tumblr, have kept the dream alive as I go through another dry spell.
It was easy for me to be a sub at the beginning, and with the right encouragement it can be very, VERY easy for me to feel subby even now. I am being more surprised by when and how my Dom-ness suddenly arrives at the party, and not at all sorry - as long as I'm around a switch or someone who at least doesn't mind an unexpected surprise.
I've always idealized being a switch - at first it was so both parts could come out and, literally, play. But since then I realize I am looking for someone(s) with whom I can be fully myself, where we can negotiate - in the moment when necessary - and flow through perhaps ALL aspects of D/S, B/D, S/M, and T/s as our energies take us. For example: a scene might start with one Dom/Domme, flip to the other, have us mutually primal, and end up somewhere completely different. It is fun - and a little scary - to consider considering the limited success I've had with 'normal' kinky relations
I appreciate clarity, negotiations, and spontaneity. I won't fault You for wanting to communicate, for being specific, even if something seems pedantic or repeated.
I am willing and able to be a Service Top or bottom, perhaps for one scene, perhaps as a way to start negotiating and feel out potential dynamics.
Otherwise, I have a ton of interests and at least some skills. I'm decent with impact play - wide varieties, most prefer my hands or a switch. I'll need to practice to bring my rope skills back up. I do some great massages - Swedish or therapeutic. I'm willing to help You move, get that thing off the top shelf, or help You open a can of pickles
Just ask.
Also: always looking to receive a really solid thumpy flogging.
