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Bye GD [EDIT : ban lifted]

UPDATE : I appealed my ban and it has been lifted :giggle:
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I just discovered I was banned from GD. Even tho I kinda expected this, I also didn't expect it, because I technically didn't do anything wrong, I only sent the link one time in PMs, so much for spam...

It really broke my heart, I cried (I'm still crying). I don't think it's so much not being able to use the platform anymore - tho that sucks too, as much as it is saying goodbye to a whole chapter of my life (and not by choice), one that has been so important and life changing, the experiences I had, the people encountered there were drastic for me and changed a lot of things.

I hope the Admins of GD get back to their senses and cease this madness, most people joining here just wanted to try somewhere else for fun it's not the vendetta they probably think it is, not everyone wanted to be taking sides or being targeted, I hope the people I've invited won't face the same faith as I would feel guilty for the loss of their account :[

At least I was able to save a bit of my blog posts which have most the memories as they were still there, but being banned the page styling wasn't there so I couldn't even save them properly, in retrospect I should have probably saved them before in anticipation for this, usually I'm better prepared, just too much going on in life right now.

Oh well.
 
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It is truely awful to see this happen. I feel for everyone that has had such an important section of their life pulled away from them, for Butterfly also for the guilt she must feel. This whole situation is awful, there are already so few places where kinksters can feel safe to share so much of what they enjoy without the usual judgment that comes from those that lack the understanding and choose not to learn but rather judge. To have one of those safe spaces pulled away.... I cant even imagine. I hope that one day it can be seen that both places can co exist without harming eachother and that there is not a battle going on. To you Plucky and everyone else that has gotten caught up in this I want to send a big digital hug (unless you dont concent to a hug then I will send you support :))
 
It's possible that they've got some kind of autoban thing going on that checks for the URL, rather than someone going through every PM from every person manually looking. I don't know if GetDare has any kind of ban appeal process, but it might be worth a try if it does?
 
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It's possible that they've got some kind of autoban thing going on that checks for the URL, rather than someone going through every PM from every person manually looking. I don't know if GetDare has any kind of ban appeal process, but it might be worth a try if it does?
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Well the only link I sent there was one week ago at least so it doesn't feel so automated :[

I wrote an appeal I tried to send through the contact us form, but I don't know if it even worked since it gave me some error message 🤷‍♀️
 
I'm sorry to hear that it seems like Depp really has it out for a tone talking about this site. I wonder how long till he just starts coming to this site to see who's on it and belan them on GD if they have the same name.
 
I sent the link several times before I was banned...but I think a warning would have been the way forward, they have already lost a lot of good members because of this and I wonder indeed how long the site may last, as they were saying just the other day they didn't have the money to keep it going...
To me the site is in a bit of a death cycle, I hope that will only benefit this site as people become more active here.
Sorry to hear this has happened to you as well, but it's members like you who really kept people active on there...GetDare is dead, long live Kiny Wonderland, the new monarch in this space!
 
It's crazy that GD have banned member just for talking about this site in PMs.
They need to embrace the competition not punish members for talking about it. It's not like GD is the only Kink site.
 
I'm seriously disappointed in the SysOps decision to ban people for a minor infraction. If you ask me, a warning or probation would've been more than enough. I get that GD has its own rules and all, but it's kinda unrealistic to expect everyone to know that even private messages between friends are being monitored. Like, what's next? It feels like the vibe is, "if you're gonna leave, then leave and don't come back" - you know, burning bridges and all that.
 
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Awh man that's a pity, love reading people's stories and experiences, esp with introspection like yours! Shame to lose personal things 😮‍💨

Hope we all post many more here 😆😊
 
I am so sorry that this is happening to so many people. I am still heart broken about needing to leave myself.

I am so glad you were able to appeal your ban. There is a lot of unfairness happening. I don't see it as a vendetta. Even me making the site is not out of revenge. It is out of the need for a space that is welcoming, fun and safe for exploring kink. GD just wasn't that place for me anymore.

I truly feel guilty for those who are being punished for coming here to explore but I truly feel both spaces can offer something and they can exist together.
 
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I am so sorry that this is happening to so many people. I am still heart broken about needing to leave myself.

I am so glad you were able to appeal your ban. There is a lot of unfairness happening. I don't see it as a vendetta. Even me making the site is not out of revenge. It is out of the need for a space that is welcoming, fun and safe for exploring kink. GD just wasn't that place for me anymore.

I truly feel guilty for those who are being punished for coming here to explore but I truly feel both spaces can offer something and they can exist together.
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Regardless of what happens in the future you don't have to feel guilty for things you have no control over, you did nothing wrong by creating a site a site of your own, especially after losing your "home". I hope that things will calm down after a while, maybe everyone can get along, sometimes conflicts just need time.
 
Pluky said:
Regardless of what happens in the future you don't have to feel guilty for things you have no control over, you did nothing wrong by creating a site a site of your own, especially after losing your "home". I hope that things will calm down after a while, maybe everyone can get along, sometimes conflicts just need time.
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Thank you ❤️
I've considered reaching out to Depp personally but I just don't know if my heart is ready for that.
 
Butterfly said:
Thank you ❤️
I've considered reaching out to Depp personally but I just don't know if my heart is ready for that.
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Take your time, but it would be ideal if a calm conversation was to be had indeed, but everyone probably needs time to process emotions first.
 
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