Bruising

[Butterfly]

What are some tips and tricks to maximize marks when doing impact play?

I am seeing Jaro in October and he wants to have lasting bruises, but I have hit him so many times on his ass and thighs and it barely leaves marks.
What are your favorite implements? Can I do anything before or after to impact the possibility of marks?

 

[Butterfly]

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[Rainy13]

Haven't tried this so beware - using just knowledge of the body and bruising process - maybe add warm compresses prior to spanking - increased vasodilation - Increased liklihood of causing more bruising?

 

[Butterfly]

Haven't tried this so beware - using just knowledge of the body and bruising process - maybe add warm compresses prior to spanking - increased vasodilation - Increased liklihood of causing more bruising?

That is good to try! I have actually been told to try a cold compress so maybe I have to do an experiment and try both

 

[Rainy13]

That is good to try! I have actually been told to try a cold compress so maybe I have to do an experiment and try both

Interesting; as far as I’m aware a cold compress would lessen bruising (hence it being recommended injuries to reduce extend of swelling and bruising) - which is why I thought a warm compress may be a safe and easy option - guess it could be good to formulate an experiement - same spankings under the conditions of 1- applied warm compress before +\- after, cold compress, and no compress… I mean seems a great plan to get a little scientific with spanking a spank-ologist if you will

 

[Butterfly]

Interesting; as far as I’m aware a cold compress would lessen bruising (hence it being recommended injuries to reduce extend of swelling and bruising) - which is why I thought a warm compress may be a safe and easy option - guess it could be good to formulate an experiement - same spankings under the conditions of 1- applied warm compress before +\- after, cold compress, and no compress… I mean seems a great plan to get a little scientific with spanking a spank-ologist if you will

We could even do one cheek with cold and one with hot.

 

[CarnalSensuality]

Keep us updated on this!

> wants lasting bruises

Well, there's wanting and there's what's possible! Some people bruise easily - with a touch - on some parts of their bodies, while others can't without some heavy severity, or possibly at all. So unless Jaro has previously had lasting bruises, there's a chance that isn't possible.

For lasting bruises, my initial intuition is to use warmth as prep and cold as aftercare: warmth will get the blood flowing, getting it into the area and could make it more sensitive to pain. Then do anything You like to Jaro. Afterward: cold will both reduce felt pain (delay it), but could also restrict blood flow, thereby having a chance to 'trap' more blood in the area for longer. Maybe teach it how to linger..?

As for implements, there are many. There was one kink night at a bar where this Dom was spanking people with a STOP sign. A 4-foot metal octagon on a 4x4 wooden beam. It was wild even to think of, let alone witness! More generally paddles with holes can produce the most wide-spread effects, and for some, bruising, if the person likes thumpy-with-some-sharp-accents.

Unfortunately I'm not skilled in marking an ass... well, not strictly true. I don't have any practice in reliably marking general/unknown asses. I just keep going until I'm done

But maybe we can learn from other things: not strictly applicable, but during a 'biting' phase I would linger, tasting and licking beforehand, and once I took hold with my teeth I would effectively 'massage' her with my teeth - both going deeper, giving the skin and muscle and fascia time to relax into it for several minutes, and thereby mark with deeper colors and physical impressions for much longer than a brief nip would...?

Happy experimentation! Keep notes!

 

[Butterfly]

Keep us updated on this!

> wants lasting bruises

Well, there's wanting and there's what's possible! Some people bruise easily - with a touch - on some parts of their bodies, while others can't without some heavy severity, or possibly at all. So unless Jaro has previously had lasting bruises, there's a chance that isn't possible.

For lasting bruises, my initial intuition is to use warmth as prep and cold as aftercare: warmth will get the blood flowing, getting it into the area and could make it more sensitive to pain. Then do anything You like to Jaro. Afterward: cold will both reduce felt pain (delay it), but could also restrict blood flow, thereby having a chance to 'trap' more blood in the area for longer. Maybe teach it how to linger..?

As for implements, there are many. There was one kink night at a bar where this Dom was spanking people with a STOP sign. A 4-foot metal octagon on a 4x4 wooden beam. It was wild even to think of, let alone witness! More generally paddles with holes can produce the most wide-spread effects, and for some, bruising, if the person likes thumpy-with-some-sharp-accents.

Unfortunately I'm not skilled in marking an ass... well, not strictly true. I don't have any practice in reliably marking general/unknown asses. I just keep going until I'm done

But maybe we can learn from other things: not strictly applicable, but during a 'biting' phase I would linger, tasting and licking beforehand, and once I took hold with my teeth I would effectively 'massage' her with my teeth - both going deeper, giving the skin and muscle and fascia time to relax into it for several minutes, and thereby mark with deeper colors and physical impressions for much longer than a brief nip would...?

Happy experimentation! Keep notes!

That is all great for us to note! I look forward to trying some of these when I see him in person next, and even on myself.

 

[CarnalSensuality]

That is all great for us to note! I look forward to trying some of these when I see him in person next, and even on myself.

Of course it wasn't until after I wrote it that I realized: if You're doing a regular warm-up (lighter impacts for a while) before the main event as usually suggested, the warm-pack prep may not be necessary...