Do you have a favorite technique that seems to get the job done quickly?
Giving blowjobs to me has never been about getting it done quickly, or even getting it done. A good blowjob is meant to feel great even long before orgasm comes around, and what that means depends on your partner! I never found a technique that works as well on everyone, but generally the more I do the better.
That is, suction, lip pressure, deep motion, tongue action. All that has to be kept in mind at all times.
Little things add to the sensation, like giving the tip an extra swirl with your tongue when on the back end of a stroke, while caressing the shaft when it's deeper inside. Swirling or bobbing your head sideways also helps. Some like soft moans, eye contact while others can't stand it. Not staying fixated on simply blowing is a good idea, too. Take it out some time, give it lots of kisses and perhaps caress their balls before letting it slide back in. Make it especially wet if they like, throw in some dirty talk - or try doing so while being meat gagged lol.
Do you use your hands? flavored lubes? toys? to enhance your blow job skills? What position do you find most comfortable while giving a blow job?
I tend not to use my hands, that is not on the dick itself, some like their balls fondled while being blown so that is what I then try. Never used toys in a blowjob or lube, but flavored condoms are awesome! I only give blowjobs that way, and still looking for banana flavor. Most comfortable position has to be kneeling on a soft pillow or mat. Not just for the position but if you go at it for a long time your neck is going to hate you. Get in a position where you can leverage your whole body - think of it like CPR but far lower. Of course that does not matter much when your partner is doing the motion.
What do you do when your jaw/tongue get tired?
That has never happened. The neck on the other hand has not liked some of the bopping motion, The answer is simple: Do another motion or do a sensual pause - hold, smile, breath a little, let the air flow do some stimulation.
Do you do anything to help yourself prepare?
Brush teeth and wait a while for the taste to go away, also I need to be in a submissive state or it just won't happen. Even then I need to mentally prepare, so it will never happen spontaneously.
Do you have your partner do anything to prepare?
Should be obvious but they have to wash themselves beforehand, and wearing a condom is a must.
Where do you like your partner to cum?
I like to see it happen, right in front of me. If I trust the partner a lot, I let them cum on my face, but never the mouth. Cumming on other parts of my body, like back or belly is fine, too but I expect a cleanup immediately after. Cum is one thing I won't get messy with, other than my own.
If they cum in your mouth, do you spit or swallow?
Spit, safeword, and probably never play with that partner again.
Do you like giving blow jobs?
Only in submissive state, then I love it, with the right partner of course.
For the receiving part
Do you have a favorite technique that somebody has used on you?
There is the savoring and the performance blowjob. Savoring is really pleasurable but doesn't get me to orgasm nearly as fast: I am less about suction, more about wetness, heat, and gentle caress. Closing lips around my shaft is optional but I want a lot of saliva, tongue action and subtle motion.
Performance mode: Rapid repetitive motion, lips closed firmly, moans and carefully regulated wetness. Spit out excess saliva to make it messy.
How quickly do you cum from a blow job?
Can be drawn out almost indefinitely. Fastest I recall must have been a couple of minutes.
Do you like when the giver uses hands? teeth? tongue? lube?
Again with the lube, that is something I had never considered. Never happened to me.
Teeth? No. I would imagine a fun sensation be hidden there but some cautionary tales make me shudder at the thought.
Tongue: Yes, please. Hands: Not on my dick.
What are some things that you have HATED from past blow jobs?
I really have no complaints. It is not like I have many expectations, to me it is just another sensual experience.
What position do you like to be in while receiving?
There is the me seated, partner kneeling position. I love the ability to observe and caress from a comfortable position. I also love the 69 position, not so much for giving oral, but for feeling my partner close to me, more options for caressing them, or using tools and toys. Thirdly, pretty much any position I can get tied up in. Rope improve everything.
Is there anything you do to prepare for a blow job?
Just the regular hygiene protocols.
Where do you like to cum?
Preferably not at all. If it is part of a scene, there is many options. On my own body, or on my partner. What's particularly hot is in their mouth or hand, and we play around with my cum afterwards. If we are in a kissing dynamic, even better.
Do you like receiving blow jobs?
Only when initiated by or explicitly wished for by my partner. I myself don't enjoy giving oral outside of a submissive position, and even then I am repulsed by some aspects of it, so I do not expect my partner to give me any more.
Let's add one more to the list, for givers, and for Jaro (and anyone else on a similar journey) to read:
How did you learn to give blowjobs, and improve them?
It took me a long time to figure out why I felt the way I did about giving blowjobs. It felt great, but also awful. I thought it was my technique so I did a lot of research, tried lots of different motions. I think the most important thing is to learn to read your partner and respond to it, as well as having a bag of techniques to draw on. It also helped to be more conscious about what I liked be done to me and trying to replicate. Practicing on partners that also give blowjobs is a great way to get feedback, too.
