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Best and Worst Rules?

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Butterfly

Butterfly

The Bratty Glitteress
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I love rules. They give me such a lovely sense of control over my subs or really makes me feel the control of a Dom who has given me the rules.

I have had some amazing and creative rules, and some absolutely horrid ones. So I wanted to ask, what are the best and worst rules you have had to follow, or seen others follow?

Best
Worst
Hardest
Silliest
Most boring
Most creative
Cheesiest
Messiest

Please share!​
 
Best - I think my favorite rule ever has to be bathroom control. Having to ask permission to use the bathroom just really tickles at my control kink.
Worst - I once had a potential Dom who demanded that I had to respond to him within 5 minutes of him messaging me. It was unreasonable and just caused me to feel like a failure. He didn't care if I was at work, or out with family.
Hardest - One of the hardest rules I ever had was edging a certain of times during the day. Denial is really hard for me mentally so this fucked me up at times.
Silliest - For this one I am going to use my Domme hat and say that the silliest rule I ever assigned to somebody was anytime that I said "Fuck a duck" he had to quack.
Most boring - For me this was a meditation rule. I just really struggle with this.
Most creative -Oooh I love creative rules! Again I am going to go with one that I assigned. I once assigned a rule for 24 hours that my sub was not allowed to use his right hand unless his tongue was sticking out.
Cheesiest - The rule that always felt the cheesiest was looking in the mirror and telling myself that I love me. But it works ...
Messiest - Another really awful rule that I had was that a Dom refused to let me use toilet paper without permission. And he never gave permission when I just went pee. This always made me feel messy and gross and it lasted 3 days and then our time together was done because I just couldn't get on board.
 
Wow, Butterfly, yours are great! So, in my limited experience:

Best: cumming in different places/different outfits. The variety is great.

Worst: lock your cock up indefinitely. No creativity, no effort, the giver disappears.

Hardest: ruining multiple times in a day. That edge is hard to ride!

Silliest: Um, I got some messy clown dares, not exactly rules, but I think they fit. Think whipped cream bikinis.

Most boring: I once had to kneel on dry rice for an hour.

Most creative: I had to do a bunch of fancy named positions every hour, that was fun!

Cheesiest: Go to bed. I've gotten that one more than once.

Messiest: Do all your peeing in a pint glass and pour it all over yourself. I did it again another day and drank it, and liked that better.

Thank you for coming to my Ted talk!
 
Ive enjoyed giving rules that are typically requiring some extra thinking, some form of combination of activities - it keeps the sub on edge and thinking about having to follow it at random moments!

Examples ive used is only being allowed to use the bathroom in the first 5 minutes of an hour. Or not allowed to wear a specific color on a day in the week!
 
Best rule is probably the only one still on going: no cumming without permission. Even though I don't want to cum that much, I still love how Miss controls my orgasms.

I also really loved the rule when I was only allowed to wear panties.

Worst rule I have had was the drinking 2 liters of water every day. I always needed to remember that and keep track of that and I was never that thirsty .

Hardest was probably when I had to ask permission to pee. I remember times I really needed to go and I couldn't and that sucks. Especially at work! Thankfully we didn't do it that often and at work there were other ways.
While hard it was also pretty fun though.

Silliest we once had a rule that both Miss and I referred to my penis as HER penis. That was awkward especially when she was talking about HER penis. We didn't do it very long. Although I still think my penis does belong to her.

Creative I'm not sure it was really a rule but I have had to dress up or decorate my cock and balls in different ways. That was pretty fun and there's quite a few things I could do with it.

I'll post more if I think of more
 
Jaro said:
Creative I'm not sure it was really a rule but I have had to dress up or decorate my cock and balls in different ways. That was pretty fun and there's quite a few things I could do with it.

I'll post more if I think of more
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I also think it was pretty creative to make you watch FRIENDS or when Icey made you watch Buffy
 
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