Ask Me Anything

[ObsidanDusk]

Hey all! I'm a 30 something guy from Canada. Been into kinky for all of my adults life!

AMA!

 

[Jaro]

Hi and welcome to the site!

What is your number 1 kink and what do you like about it?

 

[jml3030]

Hey all! I'm a 30 something guy from Canada. Been into kinky for all of my adults life!

AMA!

What would you say is the weirdest thing you've tried, and did you like it?

 

[ObsidanDusk]

Hi and welcome to the site!

What is your number 1 kink and what do you like about it?

I really like sensory deprivation mixed with my other likes. The feeling of not seeing or hearing but just feeling what is happening is great. Also I really like anal Stretching!

 

[ObsidanDusk]

What would you say is the weirdest thing you've tried, and did you like it?

I dono what would be considered weird haha. I did sleep with someone once that was a Furry that wasn't for me. I wouldn't say that it was weird or anything but it was very outside of my wheel house. I didn't hate it but it wasn't for me.

 

[Butterfly]

1. At what age did you lose your virginity?
2. What is a fantasy that you want to fulfill?
3. If you could only eat one type of food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
4. How many books have you read so far this year?

 

[ObsidanDusk]

1. At what age did you lose your virginity?
2. What is a fantasy that you want to fulfill?
3. If you could only eat one type of food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
4. How many books have you read so far this year?

1. Uhhh I think 16? maybe 15? I feel like you have asked me this before and I honestly don't remember the exact age. Some time in high school.

2. Oh my this is a hard one. I thin sensory deprivation and being used by a group is super big fantasy of mine.

3. This is honestly the hardest one. I think I'm kinda gonna cheat on this one and say pasta because I feel like there is so many different types and I really like pasta.

4. My app says 34. But I there was a 10 book series I read off the app.

 

[Guv'nor]

I see that you are curious about genital piercing

What interests you about it?
What piercing would you get, and why?

 

[ObsidanDusk]

Hi and welcome to the site!

What is your number 1 kink and what do you like about it?

Sorry I missed this one!

I think loss of control / sensory deprivation as a Dom or Sub. I really like it when a sub gives up control and just goes with what I have planned for them. I also really like giving up control when I'm being a Sub I like to able to just let the other person do whatever they want with me.

Edit: Apparently I'm an idiot and didn't miss this earlier lol

 

[ObsidanDusk]

I see that you are curious about genital piercing

What interests you about it?
What piercing would you get, and why?

I think probably a prince albert. I've always had a fantasy to have that piercing used in a chatity cage but also just in general I think it's super hot. Not sure I would ever get it done though.

 

[Butterfly]

1. Would you rather have your safeword be “Banana Pancakes” or “Wigglebutt Supreme”?
2. Would you rather accidentally moan during a Zoom call or send a spicy pic to your group chat by mistake?
3. Would you rather have a Dom/me who insists on speaking in pirate voice or one who only gives orders in haiku form?
4. Would you rather be spanked with a rubber chicken or a pool noodle?
5. Would you rather have to wear a latex suit to brunch or show up to a dungeon night dressed as a giant teddy bear?
6. Would you rather your sex toy collection be discovered by your parents or by airport security?
7. Would you rather be called “Snuggle Monster” during a scene or have to use baby talk the entire time?
8. Would you rather be tied up and tickled with a feather or teased with ice cubes until you beg for warmth?
9. Would you rather have to say “Thank you, Daddy Shark” after every orgasm or do the Macarena as aftercare?
10. Would you rather have lube that smells like cotton candy or spanking sessions that end with a kazoo fanfare?

 

[Butterfly]

I think probably a prince albert. I've always had a fantasy to have that piercing used in a chatity cage but also just in general I think it's super hot. Not sure I would ever get it done though.

Ps. If you get it done, can I please come watch!

 

[ObsidanDusk]

Ps. If you get it done, can I please come watch!

yes of course ill need someone to hold my hand.

 

[ObsidanDusk]

1. Would you rather have your safeword be “Banana Pancakes” or “Wigglebutt Supreme”?
2. Would you rather accidentally moan during a Zoom call or send a spicy pic to your group chat by mistake?
3. Would you rather have a Dom/me who insists on speaking in pirate voice or one who only gives orders in haiku form?
4. Would you rather be spanked with a rubber chicken or a pool noodle?
5. Would you rather have to wear a latex suit to brunch or show up to a dungeon night dressed as a giant teddy bear?
6. Would you rather your sex toy collection be discovered by your parents or by airport security?
7. Would you rather be called “Snuggle Monster” during a scene or have to use baby talk the entire time?
8. Would you rather be tied up and tickled with a feather or teased with ice cubes until you beg for warmth?
9. Would you rather have to say “Thank you, Daddy Shark” after every orgasm or do the Macarena as aftercare?
10. Would you rather have lube that smells like cotton candy or spanking sessions that end with a kazoo fanfare?

1. I feel like Wigglebutt Supreme is hilarious for some reason so that one.
2. Moan but honestly these are both horrifying.
3. Yarr matee sign me up for walking the plank ye skallywag
4. Rubber chicken sounds painfully and funny count me in.
5. Latex has been a huge fantasy of mine lately so that one if it was just us for brunch of kinky people. If not teddy bear.
6. Airport security I guess both of these suck lol.
7. Snuggle monster 100%
8. hmmmm Probably ice cubes tickling isn't really a turn on for me.
9. Thank you, Daddy Shark.
10. OMG KAZOO FANFARE! ZOO ZOO

Some of these were so hard lol. Like I don't want of them hard.

 

[Butterfly]

1. When did you know you were in love with me?
2. What is your favorite memory of the two of us together?
3. How many people have you farted on in your lifetime?
4. What is the next pet that you want to get?

 

[ObsidanDusk]

1. When did you know you were in love with me?
2. What is your favorite memory of the two of us together?
3. How many people have you farted on in your lifetime?
4. What is the next pet that you want to get?

1. I think really early on. I dono if I can put a date on it. I waited a while to say it though.

2. This one is so hard I have so many good ones. I really love both times we have been in the hot springs together just relaxing. I also really liked the sex dungeon we rented. Oh actually that vacation was amazing. I dono haha.

3. LOL I think just you hahahaha

4. I think I'm happy with just my crazy cat I do so love her.

 

[Butterfly]

1. Imagine that you could choose when and how you die. At what age would you like to die (no maximum here) and how would you like to go?
2. What character archetype is closest to your personality?
3. What was the happiest moment of your life so far?
4. What is one childhood memory that you remember especially well?
5. Is there a song/movie/food/etc. that strongly reminds you of someone whenever you experience it? Who does it remind you of?
6. What is your ideal birthday? Not the date, but rather your ideal way to spend the day.
7. Are there any smells that bring back memories for you? What are they, and what memories do they elicit?
8. What is the closest you've ever come to dying?
9. Do you have a personal mantra? If so, what is it?
10. What is the most memorable meal you've ever had? (It can be good or bad.) What made it so memorable?

 

[ObsidanDusk]

1. Imagine that you could choose when and how you die. At what age would you like to die (no maximum here) and how would you like to go?
2. What character archetype is closest to your personality?
3. What was the happiest moment of your life so far?
4. What is one childhood memory that you remember especially well?
5. Is there a song/movie/food/etc. that strongly reminds you of someone whenever you experience it? Who does it remind you of?
6. What is your ideal birthday? Not the date, but rather your ideal way to spend the day.
7. Are there any smells that bring back memories for you? What are they, and what memories do they elicit?
8. What is the closest you've ever come to dying?
9. Do you have a personal mantra? If so, what is it?
10. What is the most memorable meal you've ever had? (It can be good or bad.) What made it so memorable?

1. I care a lot less about how I die and how I am when I die. I'm not scared of dying besides out basic human instincts but I am extremely frightened of degenerative brain disease. So probably fairly old and suddenly dying from a heart attack in my bed or something and being all there mentally. Like say 85.

2. I think I would say the Herald. I often bring around change to others and feel like I get their journey going.

3. This is such a hard one. I have lots of happy moments. I think one of the happiest moments for me was sitting on the couch with my Grandmother. I was having the worst day and then I sat there a talked to her about Geography for hours. She pulled out a globe and would tell me about all the countries she travelled to and what they were like and tell me stories. I was having the worst day and It just felt amazing to have the loving caring person sitting there talking to me about the world. It turned from a shitty day I would never remember into one of the happiest. I think a lot of the happiest memories of my life were spending time with her. I miss her every day.

4. I have lots of childhood memories I remember especially well. One that comes to mind off the top of my head is one of my birthdays I just invited one friend who was my best friend at the time and we just played super smash brothers and ordered pizza. I remember the whole day. I didn't love my childhood but lots of strong memories I'm stuck with.

5. Blink-182 I miss you. This song was on the first album I ever fully listened to. My cousin gave it to me. I've probably heard that song more than any other song in the world and I think of my cousin every time. Such an awesome cousin.

6. I feel like this changes every year. I don't love huge parties but I do love spending time with people I'm close with. I think perfect birthday would be renting a nice play with a pool or hot tub and just "partying" and spending time with people I care about. I also love the idea of going away somewhere like a resort or whatever with a bunch of people for my Birthday.

7. There is smell of soft soap that reminds me of my grandmother every time I use it. It always brings me back to when I was child she would run a "bath" for my hands in the sink to wash in and use that soap. The other one is I used to go to this store to play games when I was a kid. The owner would go outside to smoke then come back in. The store always had this slight linger smoke smell. It wasn't overwhelming and never really stuck to clothing a bit after leaving but that slight smoker smell always brings back fond memories.

8. I have a few too many here. Probably the worst was when I was driving like 170-180 K/H and took a turn and flipped the car. If I had hit anything too bad I would have for certain been dead. Thankfully the car just sorta corner hit a tree and spun and flipped me and I was just badly bruised for a while. I didn't even break a bone. It could have been really bad though. Way too many for this section though. I've grown up though promise!

9. Not really. Although I did write a poem when I was younger and it's tattooed on my calf. "The beholder of knowledge is lead to despair. Where clouded eyes of blindness lead to joy. For fate is cruel on her most pleasant day."

10. Memorable. One of the first times I ever had ramen. It was like heaven in my mouth. A friend and I were trying new foods we had never had before and went to this little place downtown and tried it. I have very fond memories of it.

 

[Butterfly]

1. You have one year to live: how do you spend it?
2. Think of the best teacher you've ever had. What did they teach, and what made them so special?
3. What is something you never thought you'd be able to do, until you actually did it?
4. If you could go back and relive one day in your life without changing anything about it, which day would you revisit?
5. If you had the power to completely eradicate one disease, which would you choose to abolish?
6. If you had the power to completely solve one social or political issue affecting the world today, which would you choose?
7. What was the scariest moment of your life thus far?
8. If you lived in a colonial or Medieval village, what would your job be?
9. Have you ever desired or longed for something, but once you got it, discovered it was overrated?
10. What is something you've done that you recommend everyone do before they die?

 

[ObsidanDusk]

1. You have one year to live: how do you spend it?
2. Think of the best teacher you've ever had. What did they teach, and what made them so special?
3. What is something you never thought you'd be able to do, until you actually did it?
4. If you could go back and relive one day in your life without changing anything about it, which day would you revisit?
5. If you had the power to completely eradicate one disease, which would you choose to abolish?
6. If you had the power to completely solve one social or political issue affecting the world today, which would you choose?
7. What was the scariest moment of your life thus far?
8. If you lived in a colonial or Medieval village, what would your job be?
9. Have you ever desired or longed for something, but once you got it, discovered it was overrated?
10. What is something you've done that you recommend everyone do before they die?

1. The way I currently spend my time. Maybe just work a little less and anything I don't currently like doing just stop doing it.

2. High school comp sci teacher. He was the best. Made me really fall in love with coding and robotics.

3. This is a hard one. I'm not much for self doubt. Perhaps how much I read. When I was younger I had a devil of a time learning to read quickly and properly.

4. Probably first day I ever drove a car alone. It was amazing.

5. I think the most common brain related illness. I would have to look at stats. I think people dying from disease is awful and perfect world no one would but it's part of life. Degenerative brain disease though is awful and I would eradicate it first. Along with other illnesses that cause degenerative function. People dying is part of life but the suffering in your own body is cruel.

6. I think people hating other people for the way they live and who they are. Be it hating people because of skin colour, sexuality, race, or whatever. Let people be them.

7. Honestly I don't know. I saved a child from drowning when I was younger. It wasn't scary in the sense that I was worried about myself but I was certainly worried about them and the situation really opened my eyes as a teenager.

8. Oh totally a blacksmith or like someone who makes cool shit.

9. So many fucking times. Wanted an electric scooter when I was kid. It was alright. Same with a pair of sun glasses. Lots of things I've really wanted then gotten them and been like eh..... Most recently a tablet I think. I just would prefer a laptop.

10. Volunteer for something that matters to you. I've done lots from teaching children to helping old folks. Small things can make such a different to someone struggling. Something more fun would probably be trying a role playing game with a fun group of people. So many people look down on it and think they wouldn't have fun but I think they would be very surprised once they try it.