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Butterfly

Butterfly

The Bratty Glitteress
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Location
Canada
Gender
Female
Hi friends! I am 35 and live in Canada with my husband and our furbabies. I have been exploring kink since I was 16 and had my first Dom at the age of 18. I now identify as a switch. I am also poly.

Ask me anything!

I would love to share my story.
 
Hey Butterfly!
My main question as I am infinitely curious here! What was your motivation to create this site?
From what I see there were definitely some issues on GD, but I am curious what spurred you into action here as I think it may help to shape the ethos of this site and to know how to build something more positive going forward!
 
Bloxo said:
Hey Butterfly!
My main question as I am infinitely curious here! What was your motivation to create this site?
From what I see there were definitely some issues on GD, but I am curious what spurred you into action here as I think it may help to shape the ethos of this site and to know how to build something more positive going forward!
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I am not going to speak ill of any other forums or websites, but I wanted to have a safe, inclusive space. Once upon a time another there was another space on the internet that felt like home. It hasn't felt that way for a long time for me. Recently a few things took place that made me decide to leave for good. I was heartbroken. Over the years I have dreamed of creating my own kinky space, and all of the stars aligned to allow me to make that happen.

I want this space to be positive, safe, and fun. A space where you can find yourself, find others, and learn and explore kink. I want to have active and happy members and mods. I want to have great communication.

I don't know if this will take off or go anywhere, but all I can do is try!
 
On my thread you said that forced wetting is a huge fantasy of yours. Why is this, and what sort of scenario's do you want to happen with forced wetting?
 
What interesting thing can you tell me about yourself that I don't already know?
What is your next pedicure color going to be?
How did you come up with this sites logo and style?
 
What are you top 5 times you have orgasmed, if you remember them? What was the scene like or what led to them?
 
Guv'nor said:
On my thread you said that forced wetting is a huge fantasy of yours. Why is this, and what sort of scenario's do you want to happen with forced wetting?
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I wrote a bit about a scenario regarding forced wetting in a recently posted blog. In short, bathroom control is a huge turn on for me. It is almost like the ultimate control. I can live without an orgasm and could be stubborn and just not ask for one, but I can't live without going to the bathroom. I have to pee. So needing to ask permission and being told no, until I am so desperate that I lose control of my own body .... that is powerful!
 
Jaro said:
What interesting thing can you tell me about yourself that I don't already know?
What is your next pedicure color going to be?
How did you come up with this sites logo and style?
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Honestly I have no idea what is interesting that you don't know ... I am fairly open and also very uninteresting haha. Maybe like I like to drink milk at bedtime?

I think I will probably do rainbow as we are getting close to pride month.

I wanted it to be whimsical so I thought maybe a fairy on her knees. I used AI to help me find something that I liked. Then I just found some fun font. As for style, I love purple and blue together and thought it would work nicely for a whimsical, fun kink site.
 
ObsidanDusk said:
What are you top 5 times you have orgasmed, if you remember them? What was the scene like or what led to them?
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This question is super hard! I will try my best to mention some of my top orgasms.

1. One of my top orgasms is the first one that Mr. Devious led me in through online play. I was in the bathtub and I was actually feeling pretty sick (with a cold). He had me use just my fingers and very slowly bring myself to an orgasm. I think it was just the circumstance, the excitement of us being together, it was amazing.

2. For this one I think I will just mention one of my favorite ways to cum! Mr. Devious used to use a glass dildo in my ass, a silicone dildo inside me, and the wand vibrator on my clit. He would edge me over and over while fucking me with the toys, and then I would explode! So amazing!

3. Orgasms with ice inside me! This is another general one but when Mr. Devious and I first started playing, we used ice a lot. He would put ice inside me, use a dildo in me, and then use the wand. When I edged and finally had my orgasm, the cold water would gush out of me and it was just the most amazing sensation. The one that I remember being the most intense was the first time that Mr. Devious and I got to do this together in person.

4. Just a few weeks ago I had an orgasm with my boyfriend. His hand was inside me and the wand was on my clit. He continued to edge me for about 30 minutes before finally making me cum. The constant stroking of my gspot was amazing. It was so intense that I couldn't stop shaking after. I also realized that I had my period (thank goodness for towels) and I think that probably really contributed to it.

5. I once had an orgasm with an online Dom while releasing an enema (sitting on the toilet). That was crazy intense and very embarrassing which I think really contributed as well.
 
Hi hi, Butterfly!

How long have you known that you are a brat? Like, since you started your exploration or was it something you learned over tiem?
 
Sky said:
Hi hi, Butterfly!

How long have you known that you are a brat? Like, since you started your exploration or was it something you learned over tiem?
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I think I have always just been bratty but I didn't know that it was actually a role! Even in my vanilla life I am a brat haha. My old boss who was a minister used to call me "brat" at work!
 
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Butterfly said:
Honestly I have no idea what is interesting that you don't know ... I am fairly open and also very uninteresting haha. Maybe like I like to drink milk at bedtime?
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I did not know that and that is unusual enough to be interesting!
 
Have you ever played any (non kink) role playing games?

What are a few of your more memorable times with Jaro? Yes, it is open ended because anything can be memorable in its own way. LOL

What are 3 of your more memorable moments with Mr. Devious?

What is something embarassing that happened to you but you now can laugh about?
 
Sky said:
Have you ever played any (non kink) role playing games?
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No, I dont think I ever have.
Sky said:
What are a few of your more memorable times with Jaro? Yes, it is open ended because anything can be memorable in its own way. LOL
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Oh! Definetly some of the times that he has been here to visit me.
1. Going to a play party and mind fucking him into thinking he was going to be used to give blow jobs to random strangers
2. Going to the shooting range together. Also visiting the top of the mountain in Banff.
3. Having another one of my friends come over and we tied him up and zapped and hit him while singing very loudly to Disney music.
4. Meeting a friend in a hotel room and making Jaro get fucked in the ass and give a blow job.
5. The spy cam weekend that we did (not together in person for this one)
Sky said:
What are 3 of your more memorable moments with Mr. Devious?
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1. Our wedding
2. We did an interogation scene that was so freaking hot!
3. Going to meet our friends from getDare at a kink con in Ohio.
Sky said:
What is something embarassing that happened to you but you now can laugh about?
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I once went to see Frozen in the theaters and I tripped and fell and dropped my popcorn and soda all over me. I had to sit through the movie, in a very full theater soaking wet. It is funny now, but at the time I was mortified.
 
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Hey Butterfly! Are your fur babies cats or dogs (or anything else)? And what are their names? Big animal lover over here!
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We have a puppy named Meatball! and his kitty sisters are the pasta cats. Their names are Fettucine, Penne and Spaghetti.
 
Blank said:
what is your fave game?
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If we are talking about board games, then monopoly is a favorite. I also have a version of life called Life: Twists and Turns that I absolutely love. When it comes to video games I really enjoy Animal Crossing and I do like the mario games.
 
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