Ask a Butterfly Anything!

[Sky]

Favorite color?
Favorite word?
When was the last time you laughed?
Enjoy any good movies lately?
If you had a cheeto, would it be puffy or crunchy?

 

[Butterfly]

Favorite color?

Pink or anything glittery

Favorite word?

No! But only when I am saying it to others

When was the last time you laughed?

Earlier today I laughed while talking about farting with @ObsidanDusk

Enjoy any good movies lately?

I am not a huge movie person but the last movie that I watched was Snow White and I actually thought it was pretty good.

If you had a cheeto, would it be puffy or crunchy?

I like both equally I think. Right now though, I am going through orthodontic treatment so I think I would go with the puffy because crunchy is hard to eat for me currently .

 

[Guv'nor]

In your opinion, what is the sexiest outfit that a man can wear?

 

[Butterfly]

In your opinion, what is the sexiest outfit that a man can wear?

Oh! For me that can be two different things and they are kind of at both ends of the spectrum haha. Either a pair of sweatpants and a white t-shirt. Super casual! OR a very well fitted suit.

 

[MessyAshy]

What is the most illegal thing you've ever done?
What is your preferred breakfast like? Savoury, sweet, light, heavy, none at all, coffee, tea?

 

[Butterfly]

What is the most illegal thing you've ever done?

I once accidently stole something from a store. It fell into my purse and I didn't realize it until I was home.

What is your preferred breakfast like? Savoury, sweet, light, heavy, none at all, coffee, tea?

On a day to day basis I don't really eat breakfast. But when I am in the mood, I love to have a big breakfast with hashbrowns, bacon, eggs, sometimes a waffle or french toast with butter and syrup. I am not a big coffee or tea drinker but I would probably have a glass of milk with it in an eeyore mug!

 

[Guv'nor]

Describe your ideal burger and fries

What style of hair do you prefer on others?

Have you ever peed in public as an adult? Why did you do it and where?

 

[MessyAshy]

1. How did you discover kink?
2. Have you ever tried a kink you thought you would enjoy only to have it not be enjoyable?
3. Reverse, have you ever tried something you thought you wouldn't be into and enjoyed it?
4. How many marshmallows can you fit in your mouth?
5. What is your favorite holiday?

 

[picaboo]

Hi!

Were you always poly or was that something that came later after exploring kink?

Was being in a poly relationship something you decided you originally wanted or was it something a partner bought up?

I know there's things about other sites that happened that caused you to feel uncomfortable and since a lot of us are from those other sites anything we can do to help keep up your vision and not let it spyroll into the things you wanted to leave behind?

 

[Butterfly]

Describe your ideal burger and fries

I like a thinner burger, or like a smash burger. A lot of the time, if it is a good patty then I dont actually eat any sauce on it, just cheese.
But when I do dress up my burger, I like lettuce, cheese, chopped onions, ketchup, mustard and mayonaise.

What style of hair do you prefer on others?

I honestly don't have any preference for hair on other people. I do really enjoy colorful hair, but I know it isn't for everybody.

Have you ever peed in public as an adult? Why did you do it and where?

Yes, I once peed in the ocean. Mr. Devious and I were in Mexico and we were up to our knees in the ocean. I really had to pee so I just did.

 

[Butterfly]

1. How did you discover kink?

1. I actually discovered BDSM while watching an episode of CSI. There was an episode where a guy died from asphyxiation at a BDSM club. That is the first time I remember being turned on. I started doing a lot of research after that.

2. Have you ever tried a kink you thought you would enjoy only to have it not be enjoyable?

Hmmm I am struggling to think of something for this one. I guess I can say that I used to really like the idea of speech restrictions, but with experience, I have grown to find them too annoying.

3. Reverse, have you ever tried something you thought you wouldn't be into and enjoyed it?

Spanking was a huge one for me. It was at one point a limit because I had a lot of trauma in my past related to this. But it actually really turned out to be something that I really like the feeling of. And so far, the only thing that has got me to subspace.

4. How many marshmallows can you fit in your mouth?

I think I could probably fit 4.

5. What is your favorite holiday?

Christmas!!!!

 

[Butterfly]

Hi!

Were you always poly or was that something that came later after exploring kink?

No I was completely monogamous and never really considered being poly until Mr. Devious and I first met and started to date. While we were in our dynamic, we used to play with other people together a lot. We then also took on a sub together.

Was being in a poly relationship something you decided you originally wanted or was it something a partner bought up?

Moving from playing with others to being truly poly was something that I initiated after we moved in together and I knew that Mr. Devious couldn't be the Dom that I needed.

I know there's things about other sites that happened that caused you to feel uncomfortable and since a lot of us are from those other sites anything we can do to help keep up your vision and not let it spiral into the things you wanted to leave behind?

For me it comes down to the people we have here. I want to have a fun, safe space to explore our kinks. I want to build a community where people feel supported and included. And on the back end, I need to have good communication with my team. I don't think there is anything specific that I can request of people other than to be kind, be active and enjoy your time here!

 

[Sky]

Motorcycle or moped?

Skiing or snowboarding?

Scifi or romcom?

Fantasy or horror?

Poker or cards against humanity?

 

[Butterfly]

Motorcycle or moped?

I would probably never ride either, but a moped is probably safer for me.

Skiing or snowboarding?

I am banned from trying both.

Scifi or romcom?

romcom all the way!

Fantasy or horror?

Fantasy if I had to choose, though I am not a big fan. I REALLY don't like horror though.

Poker or cards against humanity?

Cards against humanity!

 

[Sky]

Popcorn or string cheese?

String cheese or doritos?

Doritos or nachos?

Nachos or pasta salad?

Wet noodle or silly string?

Slinky or fidget toy?

Clear jar of known sprinkles or opaque box (same volume) of unknown sprinkles? Quantity of sprinkles is the same. Just you know what you are getting in one vs random coloring / shinyness of the other.

 

[Butterfly]

Popcorn or string cheese?

Popcorn!

String cheese or doritos?

Doritos

Doritos or nachos?

Nachos

Nachos or pasta salad?

Nachos

Wet noodle or silly string?

Silly string

Slinky or fidget toy?

Fidgets!

Clear jar of known sprinkles or opaque box (same volume) of unknown sprinkles? Quantity of sprinkles is the same. Just you know what you are getting in one vs random coloring / shinyness of the other.

Random!

 

[Sky]

What is one of your dream locations to visit?

Note: can be a fantasy place.

Why is this a dream location?

 

[Butterfly]

What is one of your dream locations to visit?

I would love to go on a Disney cruise

Note: can be a fantasy place.

Why is this a dream location?

I think it would be so magical!

 

[Sky]

When was the last time you wished upon a star?

Do you remember what you wished for? If so, what was it?

Have any of your fantasies ever come true? If so, what some of them?

Do you prefer the color orange or the smell of fresh rain?

Do you prefer the sound of spankings or watching a B rated movie that does not have any spanking in it? (Had to specify so you couldnt cheat on it. lol)

Would you rather have someone spray you with glitter by blowing it out of a trumpet or have someone splash you with vanilla pudding mixed with a very heavy dose of glitter? (For the latter, you are outside, but in a private setting, and either naked or in a swimsuit so allow maximum glittery messiness.)

 

[Butterfly]

When was the last time you wished upon a star?

It would probably have been years and years ago.

Do you remember what you wished for? If so, what was it?

I don't.

Have any of your fantasies ever come true? If so, what some of them?

I think most of my sexual fantasies have come true. Then I think of new ones haha.
One of the biggest was being tied up in sensory deprivation for a few hours.

Do you prefer the color orange or the smell of fresh rain?

Fresh rain

Do you prefer the sound of spankings or watching a B rated movie that does not have any spanking in it? (Had to specify so you couldnt cheat on it. lol)

I don't really love the sound of spankings, other than maybe impact play with a flogger. I love the sound of the flogger. But I also don't love movies usually haha. So I will go with spankings.

Would you rather have someone spray you with glitter by blowing it out of a trumpet or have someone splash you with vanilla pudding mixed with a very heavy dose of glitter? (For the latter, you are outside, but in a private setting, and either naked or in a swimsuit so allow maximum glittery messiness.)

Trumpet! I would not want pudding on me at all