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Apps, Games and interaction!

Bloxo

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Location
Poland
Gender
Male
I am curious how people communicate outside of sites nowadays!
Often when you start chatting with someone you decide to take your play offline so you can have a more interactive conversation, maybe play some games on specific apps or sites...
Back in the day I would use KIK, especially as it had the dice roll feature...since that app seems totally crap now, I am curious what people are using to play games with each other, or just to talk to each other?
Which games sites do you frequent when making bets?

My contribution: https://battleship-game.org/en/ - great way to play Battleships with each other :)
 
Hey Bloxo, I almost exclusively use Discord! I love so many of its features, and a number of people I have been chatting with were willing to get a Discord account to chat in a more meaningful way.

(Don't get me started about KIK. 🤬)
 
Ugh Kik is the absolute worst these days. I still have it downloaded as I do have a few people who will periodically message me there but otherwise I try to ignore it.

I also use Discord almost exclusively. I am not really too concerned about privacy or else I would maybe use Signal or Telegram but I like that Discord can be used on my phone, a desktop app or even just in my browser so I can use it on my work computer without downloading anything onto the computer.
 
When I first met Miss Butterfly we used Google Hangouts. It is now discontinued and we since use Discord. Not really anything else kink wise. I have never in my life used KIK.

I don't really use any specific websites for playing kink games.

I do often use https://www.random.org/ mostly for the random number generator and dice roller. This is often handy for online tasks.
 
IRL / serious : Gmail, Whatsapp, facebook

Non kinky leisure : Discord, Steam

Kinky : Kik, Obedience, for calls Whatsapp
 
i prefer using signal...and im really happy to read that more and more people using it...

kik is still on my phone...but (and i dont think i need to tell anyone 😅 ) this app isnt really fun...

and btw : first post! hello everyone 🙋🏼‍♂️
 
I am curious how people communicate outside of sites nowadays!
Often when you start chatting with someone you decide to take your play offline so you can have a more interactive conversation, maybe play some games on specific apps or sites...
Back in the day I would use KIK, especially as it had the dice roll feature...since that app seems totally crap now, I am curious what people are using to play games with each other, or just to talk to each other?
Which games sites do you frequent when making bets?

My contribution: https://battleship-game.org/en/ - great way to play Battleships with each other :)
I have pretty much always switched from kik to discord with any subs that I talked to for more then a day or two. However, if discord isnt something you want to use, element x is really great.
 
It is so awful. I wanted to send a message and had to watch 3 ads first!

Hello and welcome!
i know those three adds too 😅 but for me the app always freezes after the first or second one and then has to be restarted...and then the whole thing starts all over again...

thats really not an option...ive never understood why everyone uses this app...but you cant get very far on GD without this crap...hopefully it will be different here 😎
 
I posted a list of kink app recommendations. I made another thread because it's focusing more on kink than communication. Hopefully you find this cross-post helpful and not spammy, otherwise I can delete this reply or merge the thread.
 
Tip: When using chat apps, it's helpful to be familiar with bot, security, and privacy features. For example you may want to roll dice, make messages or media disappear, or confirm connections or encryption keys. Also make sure you're not doxing yourself with usernames, profiles, media, etc.
 
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