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This thread is all about Cock & Ball Torture: ways to put the penis and balls in pain (or make them at least extremely uncomfortable).

Please discuss and leave your tips and tricks. The questions below are only some guidelines on what to think about.

What are ways to torture a penis and/or balls?

What are bad ways?

What are the risks?

What are your experiences with it?

Please teach us about the possibilities and limitations of this vast category of S&M.
 
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I love CBT myself and a few of my favorite methods are the following:

Pulling weight on balls
Tie a piece of string around your balls. If you have a cock/ball strap even better, but make sure to put it only around your balls and not your penis.
Then get a water bottle with a loop to which you can tie the string (or a string from the cock strap. Fill the bottle with water. This is a great way since you can experiment with the weight by how much water you put in (and the size of the bottle.
Stand like that with the bottle dangling from your balls.

Crushing weight on balls
Place your balls, and only your balls, on a flat surface. Use books on a desk to adjust the height so that you can easily place them while standing. To make sure they don't slip and to add to the torture, you can also tie a string and pull them by tying the other end across from you (not allowed here, but I can PM you a picture how I did it).
Then, start placing books on them. Add as many books as you can handle, further crushing your balls.

Piercing penis torture
This method focuses on the penis only but is probably the most diabolical.
Get an empty toilet paper roll and cut it open over the length of it. Place tacks through the roll so that they come out on the inside. Do this over the entire surface of the roll. Now wrap duct tape around it to keep the tacks in place.
Now, wrap the roll around your flaccid penis and keep it in place using two rubber bands on either end (they don't have to be too tight.
Depending on your size you will already feel the piercing but of course, now we want to get you really aroused so watch some porn or do whatever is needed to get you aroused. Enjoy your torture!

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There's just such a terrible fear about having one's cock and balls hurt, particularly when there is nothing you can do about it.

I would love to be tied naked (standing or laying down), and have a Mistress do unspeakable things to my cock and balls. I've been lucky enough to have endured some harsh candle waxing, and probably best of all, being made to eat a girl out while she controlled electrodes on my balls - but still lacking that restraint I crave.
 
Variation on the piercing torture above - I have tack strips made similarly to above from an old KT post idea. Basically, a length of duct tape with tacks pushed through the sticky side (pointing out from the non-sticky side), then another matching strip of duct tape put on sticky side to sticky side.

I find it fun to either wrap the penis in it, or wrap it around the balls, and then put on some tight underwear or jock strap/g string type wear to keep it nice and tight against the body parts. Interestingly, only a few times have a couple of tacks actually pierced the skin.
 
Gothswitch said:
There's just such a terrible fear about having one's cock and balls hurt, particularly when there is nothing you can do about it.

I would love to be tied naked (standing or laying down), and have a Mistress do unspeakable things to my cock and balls. I've been lucky enough to have endured some harsh candle waxing, and probably best of all, being made to eat a girl out while she controlled electrodes on my balls - but still lacking that restraint I crave.
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I can only talk from what i read and heard from others but in my opinion it depends why you want to get hurt.

Is it rather because of giving up the control of yourself and your body, where the dom/me will just make a useless toy out of you?

Or because you think that your dick and eggs are a useless part of your body and only exist to be hurt?

Does it drive you crazy when your dick and balls are all tied up, red and yet the Domme, goes over them with her nails, blows air on them or even an ice cube.. there are so many more examples and im sure im not the only female who enjoys reading those 😈
 
For me it's all about the control. What she does, with her nails, breath, Icy-Hot, a whip, electricity, wax...it makes little difference other than to know that she will do as she wishes, and my cock and balls are only there for her amusement.
 
I feel certain someone with more experience will weigh in about traditional ball busting - kicks or knees into the balls, trampling, etc.

Since I play solo, I tried to replicate the kicking/kneeing in several methods of varying success. The best I have come up with so far is a yoga block. Laying on my back, naked with knees bent and out wide, drop it edge-on onto your crotch. It may take a few tries to really get the degree of shock you are expecting, lol... but it overcomes the issue that the body wants to protect itself so you can't hit hard enough with your own hand.
 
It's not at all that my cock and balls are useless, the complete opposite - they're precious, and from childhood you're taught to protect them because they're sensitive, and as you grow up you understand their importance.

To have their safety and well being out of your hands and literally in the hands of someone cruel who finds your discomfort and humiliation amusing and/or arousing, is exquisite.
 
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It's not at all that my cock and balls are useless, the complete opposite - they're precious, and from childhood you're taught to protect them because they're sensitive, and as you grow up you understand their importance.

To have their safety and well being out of your hands and literally in the hands of someone cruel who finds your discomfort and humiliation amusing and/or arousing, is exquisite.
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I understand what you mean. I just wanted to show you the other side of it (even if its weird to say it like this, since you might have known already). Its also about what clicks for us. The connection with the dom/me, sometimes we want more impact, other we just want to be used. Thats the beauty in it.

Especially seeing a guy enjoy himself by just letting go.
 
SilkAndSour said:
but in my opinion it depends why you want to get hurt.

Is it rather because of giving up the control of yourself and your body, where the dom/me will just make a useless toy out of you?

Or because you think that your dick and eggs are a useless part of your body and only exist to be hurt?
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In my case (as you and I have discussed, but here for everyone else), my kinky side is all about the physical feeling - I want to experience different things like impact, chemical (hot pepper sauce/mint toothpaste/muscle creams), crushing, temperature.

A lot is arousing, some is not - and it's interesting to see what makes the difference and just experience the different sensations
 
I think that's why I crave the restraint as well...though I've thoroughly enjoyed my RL CBT experiences, and there's a different aspect of control where you are forbidden, rather than physically restrained from attempting to shield yourself - at that point, I think, I really would just, as you say, "let go". I can do nothing but endure the torment that my Mistress finds so amusing. Must add, my nipples are equally "open season" for this type of play.
 
I almost forgot to mention.. its also different when you cause the pain to your lovely body parts yourself and when someone else does it. Because same as with whipping or any other kind of pain, you hesitate much more as when someone else has the complete control over what is being done.

I think its beautiful when men just accept that side of them and try to find out the ways which fit them the most. I dont think that it should be feared as long as you are being reasonable in what you do and are aware of the consequences. Thats why its even more important to talk about it.
 
Oh absolutely. That last spank wasn't quite as hard as it should have been, was it? You can pull harder on that nipple chain if you tried. That electro unit's got plenty more juice in it.

The utter fear of having those aspects controlled by another puts RL play head and shoulders above solo games.
 
Yes, it has taken some thought and experimentation to find ways to overcome that hesitation, when it's all me...

And I'm certain that there's a whole mental aspect of giving up control that I don't have in my situation, with no way to replicate alone.
 
Risks: There's a good reason for the hard cups in some major sports... First of course is a good hit there pretty much knocks you out of other activity for a while.... Ruptures are possible with impact or crushing (I think, I'm not a doctor), skin perforation has a risk of infection.

The fear is in part the societal belief that they define you as a "real man" and any issues make you less - and because they are more sensitive than other body parts...
 
Exactly. Giving up not just control, but the inability to prevent a Domme actually causing pain there is a huge (but exciting) leap.
 
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