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M4F 47 M Dominant seeking sub/slave online connection

Joined
Jan 6, 2026
What is your age?
47
What best descbibes you?
Dom
What gender are you?
Male
What age range are you looking for?
18-80
What should the other person's gender be?
Female
What are you looking for?
Slave
Where should this person be?
Anywhere
What little extra would you like people to know at a glance?
Serious replies only
Experienced online Dom seeking a connection with a compatible FEMALE submissive or slave. I have been involved in this lifestlye on and off online over the last 15 or so years and have met many fantastic people along the journey. It has been a while since i have had time for an online submissive but have decided that the time is now right to hopefully again try and find someone who is both compatible to my particular needs and someone who is fully satiated by the way i look after them. I have a very stressful job and i use this as a form of relief. I have found the interactions i have had with my online submissives have had a very positive effect on my overall well being and i am looking for someone who can continue along that path with me.
My primary interests as a Dominant include humilation and degradation and i am exceptionally adaptable to the needs of my submissive. Some of my submissives have only found arousal when being treated like an empty desperate animal while others might require a less aggressive approach that is equally humiliating but not as direct. I enojoy having control over as much of your daily life as is realistically possible. This includes choosing your clothes for the day, when you shower or use the bathroom, when you orgasm and when you eat. Obviously i understand this doesnt work for everyone and again this can be adapted to suit both of our needs.
I have been with many submissives on different journeys and have found ways to incorporate the sub/dom dynamic to assist them in verious ways. I have had subs request assistance with weight loss, mental issues or just generally being healthier and have found many successful techniques
On a more intimate level i focus on
Anal training - Light to Experienced
Breast Bondage and General Breast and Nipple Pain Training
Edging and Orgasm Denial as well as Forced orgasms
Light choking/gagging/slapping
Facesitting
Outside of this i have many interests and am happy to talk about any legal sexual practices. I would also like someone who can converse in a non sexual vanilla manner. I am well educated and well spoken and i would appreciated the same in my submissive.
I have ceratin requirements that i am not willing to negotiate on. All Subs must have a camera. I dont expect you to be on all of the time but you will be required for some sessions and intially to verify who you are. I am not going to the time and effort of devising tasks, schedules and/or puishments for someone i have not seen and could really be anyone.
I do expect daily communication even if its brief
Discord - ssphinxcat
 
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Warm greetings, Sir. I am a 19y/o submissive who is into orgasm denial, bladder control and a little bit of pain. I do have an experience of working as a sub for a year now (since I turned 18). And I'm willing to explore more with the right man. Please contact back if that sounds good or if it doesn't (as you said that you are into older women). Other than that I'm around 122lbs and 5.5ft if that matters.
 
Thanks to those who applied. I enjoyed out chats. I am still looking for a compatible Submissive. Please read the post carefully before replying. It saves everyone a lot of time and effort
 
Hi Sir.
I have sent you a request via discord as you requested. I am a 23 year old female 5'5 weighing 56 kilos.
I am heavily interested in what your looking for as a slave. I'm looking to be treated as a empty desperate animal and have my day to day life controlled. I am looking to explore more with the right dom.
Thank you sir.
 
Thanks to all who messaged. Please stop wasting everyones time and actually read my post. Its absolutely pointless chatting for 2 days and then telling me you dont do pics, video or live cam which is clearly stated in the post as a requirement
 
Sir you have used and abused me quite a bit in the past but lost connection. I send a friend request on discord.
 
Appreciate all the replies and i have had some good sessions and made a few new friends. Sir is however still looking for a compatible sub who would like a more permanent arrangement. Message for Discord and Teams
 
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