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F4M 31F sub looking for a Dom

makemesquirm

Member
Joined
Jan 2, 2026
Location
United Kingdom
Gender
Female
Pride
Bisexual Bisexual
What is your age?
31
What best descbibes you?
Sub
What gender are you?
Female
What age range are you looking for?
28 - 45
What should the other person's gender be?
Male
What are you looking for?
Dom
Where should this person be?
Ideally in the UK, but I'm open to Europe if it's not too far away
What little extra would you like people to know at a glance?
Only reply if you are serious and have read my post properly. I'm looking for a long-term dynamic.
INTRODUCTION
I'm a 31 year old woman from the UK who has been active in BDSM/on GetDare since I was 18. I've had a few Doms over the years and now I'm looking for someone else to build a fun dynamic with.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR
  • Rules and routine - I enjoy following rules. I also like it when my Dom supports my personal goals and helps me with routine.
  • A strong dynamic with communication - I understand that we all live busy lives, but I want a Dom that makes me feel safe and valued by talking to me often. I feel like this helps build a connection. I want to talk about general day to day stuff, as well as kink.
  • Meeting IRL - I'm hoping to find a Dom in the UK so we can meet IRL once trust has been established.
  • Praise and aftercare - This is very important to me. I put a lot of effort into being a good girl for my Dom, so praise helps me feel valued and cared for. Aftercare is also important, even if we're just playing online. I like it when my Dom checks in on me during sessions.
  • A strict, but caring Dom - I want a Dom who isn't afraid to punish me if I deserve it, but will also have my best interests and wellbeing in mind.
WHAT'S IN IT FOR YOU
As I've become more experienced in BDSM, I've become more and more submissive. If you make me feel safe and valued as a sub, I will do everything I can to make you proud.

LOVES, LIKES, DISLIKES AND LIMITS

Loves -
Praise, wedgies, degradation, pain, spankings, canings, edging, orgasm control, denial, teasing and rules.

Likes - Humiliation, crotch ropes, hidden public, bondage, nipple and pussy torture, toothpaste, cock warming and body writing.

Dislikes - Line writing, photos, messy and corner time.

Limits - Unsafe play, poo, permanent, social suicide, blackmail, family and friends, full public, blood play, videos, audio and identifiable photos.

TOYS

Dildos and vibes -
6 inch vibe (no longer vibrates), 8 inch vibe, a clit sucker and a magic wand.

Clamps - Clothes pegs, nipple clamps with a chain, skirt hangers and foldback clips.

Other items - Scarves, ball gag, chastity belt, candles, hairbrush, toothpaste, a marker pen, small and medium metal butt plugs.

HOW TO GET IN TOUCH
DM me if you're interested in talking more. I'm happy to answer any questions you may have.
 
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