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M4F 28M Neurospicy guy looking for play-partners or a domme

jayshmoe314

Well-known member
Joined
Feb 19, 2026
Location
Midwest USA
Gender
Male, gender-nonconforming
What is your age?
28
What best descbibes you?
Sub
What gender are you?
Man/femboy
What age range are you looking for?
24-40s
What should the other person's gender be?
Female
What are you looking for?
Domme
Where should this person be?
Anywhere, preferably close to US time zones
What little extra would you like people to know at a glance?
It's important that this stays in balance with the rest of my life - sometimes it's all I want to do or think about and that can be a problem.
Hi, nice to meet you! I'm looking for friends I can play with sometimes, both in real-time and with background rules/tasks. Preferably also someone I could enjoy chatting with about non-kink stuff as well!

I identify as a gender-nonconforming guy more than a sissy, although I don't hate the term. I try and embrace that side of me in a non-sexual context too so it's not just a kink, but I'm also not trans. I'm a guy, I like being a guy... I just also like wearing dresses and feeling pretty sometimes!

For personality, I'd say I'm pretty witty and enjoy a good on-the-spot pun. I can be a bit intense at times, but I'm passionate about what I'm passionate about. I try to be a fun, lighthearted person for the most part. I am AuDHD so I do sometimes miss jokes or sarcasm if I don't have the context or know the person well, and I overthink a lot. Hence why I'm very into strict, clear rules 😉

My kinky interests and limits are all on my profile. A lot of it stems from autism-related sensory stuff and psychological things.

Non-kink-wise, I enjoy playing and listening to music, DIY projects, board games, tabletop RPGs (I'd someone to brainstorm ideas for my sci-fi open table game with!), filmmaking, cooking, biking, and IT/computer stuff. I also like binge-watching shows, especially sci-fi but lots of other genres too. I love deep chats about stuff too.

I have a pretty good setup for doing video calls/streaming and really enjoy that sort of real-time play. I live alone, although I have neighbors with shared walls so can't be TOO loud lol. I'd definitely prefer being on cam or sending proof of things, as it makes it much hotter knowing I can't cheat :)

If you're in the midwest US, there may be a possibility of IRL play!
 
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I can confirm that Jay has a very sweet setup for video and still photos, as well as good quality audio. 😉

He is very easy to talk to and eager to please 😉
Any Domme would be lucky to have him for a sub. 🥰
 
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